A red pill concept I have found to be true over and over again is how many of our inter-gender issues are caused by projection. Or in other words, men and women acting how they would actually like the opposite sex to act.
For example, today women are acting brash and cocky while men are getting meeker and milder. In reality women like brash and cocky guys while men prefer meek and mild women. Meek and mild men don’t do it for women, brash and cocky women don’t do it for guys.
Can you name any other examples of projection?
Women easily can obtain sex they can.
Not so much for the fellas this is
Women impressed by credentials they are.
Men not so much this would be
I’d suggest that projection happens within sexes as well as across sexes: a person of one personality type often really can’t grasp the degree to which someone of a different personality type feels differently about things than he or she does.
“I’d suggest that projection happens within sexes as well as across sexes: a person of one personality type often really can’t grasp the degree to which someone of a different personality type feels differently about things than he or she does.”
I think that’s very true, David Foster. And some communication styles that work very well with certain folk don’t work with others either. Mike and I were discussing this last night. There are a lot of personality conflicts at his workplace that could easily be avoided. Both between women, between men, and between women and men.
From Yoda, “Women easily can obtain sex they can.
Not so much for the fellas this is”
Where this gets interesting is when a woman says yes to sex from a man, she automatically assumes that he will say yes. Sometimes we say “no”, even from very attractive women, and then this confuses the hell out of them.
Hehe, some of us men are just not that easy.
some of us men are just not that easy
Speak for yourself, buddy.
Every once in a while, I stumble across something written by a woman that just doesn’t make any sense from a male perspective. Projection seems to account for most of this.
Men aren’t that hard to understand. Little that we do is covert.
Women think that men hypergamous like them they do.
What’s this women in the work place nonsense?
Don’t worry Ton. It’s just his night job at the titty bar. 😛
Liz,
You can’t be talking about me. Although, I think that I could be a very effective bouncer and the girls could work me into their dance acts somehow.
the girls could work me into their dance acts somehow
Wouldn’t you want this?
Well played you two
Farm Boy,
I am a bear. They don’t have girl bears dancing in these clubs.
That would be interesting. Short lived but, interesting.
If you can imagine it, someone has already uploaded it to youtube.
We were overdue for a bear video anyway.
Lol, pole dancing bears! That was great 🙂
Hee hee very cute video, Fuzzie. 🙂
Redpillgirlnotes and Liz,
There are times when I love being a bear!
Those bears seem to be having a grand time!