There’s a well known verse in the Book that goes like this:
“A wise woman builds up her house, a foolish one tears it down with her own hands.”
Today it is more common to see a woman tear down her house by bad talking her husband, working at cross purposes with him, actively searching for a better deal even after marriage, disrespecting a father to his children, browbeating her husband, actively disobeying/disregarding/undermining her husband, and more. Such women are fools. Don’t be a fool.
In moments of doubt or trial, ask yourself how you can build up your house. Pray for guidance. recite the wedding vows, whatever it takes to get yourself in a building it up frame of mind.
Resist the urge to tear it down, thinking starting over is the answer. It isn’t. It’s foolish.
Let those who have ears hear.