You are not a special snowflake. And neither am I.
I know. None of us like to hear that, but it’s true. The good thing about realizing it is it will hopefully prevent you from making disastrously bad decisions, like people who think they are special snowflakes and the rules of life don’t apply to them do. Because guess what? They always apply. To everyone.
You’re welcome. 🙂
I am telling you this out of love.
Let those who have ears hear.
Men normally think this way not.
From early age, special treatment they receive not.
Concepts of snowflakes die quickly in such environment they do.
I actually do know a few men who think they are special snowflakes. They are rather annoying, as well. There are no special snowflakes! Everyone does not get a gold star for effort! Not even me! 🙂
You talking about me Bloom?
There is a lot of narcissism out there and it wasn’t that lot ago that psychologists thought that label only applied to men. Life has a way of enforcing humility. have a little faith. the higher they set themselves, the further they have to fall.
Actually Ton… (Akward silence…)
Just kidding! 🙂
This is why AMALT holds just as true as AWALT. We can’t be special if we’re all like that.
It may be related but, here goes. Capatain Capitalism made the observation months ago that there is no “Wall” for women. As long as they are capable of buying, there will be someone out there selling to stroke their egos.
Point of clarification. The Wall and Sexual Marketplace Value (SMV) for women is based principally on their fertility. If reproduction is not at issue for the man (as it is in my case), then there is no Wall, unless it is all in the woman’s head. In fact, I find women get more interesting after menopause when their ratio of testosterone to estrogen increases as their estrogen levels drop. Libido spikes. This makes Eccentric very happy!
Eccentric, I have found that to be true as well. I am not menopausal yet but I agree, it is not the end of the world, it’s simply the start of another phase of life, a phase that can in fact be very interesting! Cheers!
Men vary to a much larger degree then women making amalt a tad less true.