Frequent commenter Fuzzie suggested some dating wisdom directed at women on another blog that I felt deserved a post on the topic: Instead of looking for every reason to eliminate a potential suitor, focus instead on all the positives.

I have many times watched friends turn away an otherwise really great guy for rather minor reasons. Ironically I have watched these same friends put up with all sorts of BS from less great guys. Go figure!

So while you don’t want to mislead or string guys along, it’s also wise to not judge a book by his cover too quickly. A long “must have” list describing your perfect Prince Charming may keep you from finding a great match that’s not what you expected, but turns out to be even better!

Let those who have ears hear.