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Ladies, put yourself in their shoes:
(these are all ACTUAL stories!)
- The man who gets told off for holding the door open.
- The injured vet who finds women won’t hold the door open for him, even though he is on crutches.
- The husband of two young kids who is blindsided by his wife leaving him for her fitness trainer.
- The dedicated employee passed over time and again for promotions because of his “privilege.”
- The guy who was nuclear rejected by a gal who then posted video of it on Snapchat.
- (Insert your own examples here.)
For decades men have been the only group it is OK to openly ridicule and the only group who is also not allowed to stand up against it.
So ladies, don’t be surprised to get less than a warm welcome from the men folk these days. We’ve collectively earned it.
While countless women continue to wail, “Where have all the good men gone?” and blame their lack of a committed relationship on guys who are too immature, too picky, or unable or unwilling to commit, the wiser ones will see that women have created the hostile situation, and if she wants a man in her life to she’s going to have to actively re-build that bridge her sisters blew up long ago.
Instead of focusing on a long checklist of traits he “must have” to qualify, try thinking about your own list, what you bring to the table, and how you can qualify yourself to a good man.
And then be pleasant. Be feminine. Be as attractive as you can be. Act like a lady. Be loyal. Be trustworthy. Be appreciative. Be kind. Be respectful of him. Be supportive of him.
Trust me, such women are so rare these days, you’ll stand head and shoulders above the rest.
Let those who have ears hear.
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It’s hard to get through to solipsism. If women knew what they put men through, they would wonder why men haven’t done something collectively and drastic a long time ago. A couple of years ago, I realized that it is not possible to emigrate to the Republic of Texas anymore. That door closed in the 1840s. What I think most men are doing is distracting themselves and trying not to think about it.
Agree fuzzie. Booze. Drugs. Porn. Internet. Work. Video games. Men know complaining about women isn’t going to work. No sympathy from society. No sympathy from the media. No sympathy from the legal system. Men are fucked. They know it. There is nothing they can do about it.
Women today are the most privileged humans to ever walk this earth. In order to be on top, someone has to be on the bottom. In my mind, the amazing thing is that men haven’t just walked away en-mass … mgtow. Its what they should have done. But they are programmed by their biology and biology is impossible to control. I recall a convo I had with woman awhile back … she said something along the lines of “Men should just quit wanting sex”. My retort ? “Well, when you can just will your periods to stop, then we’ll talk”. Yep, women can’t stop having a period and men can’t stop wanting sex. Its biology.
So women are using our own biology against us … men want to protect women and acquire a women for sex. WOMEN WANT TO USE THAT TO DESTROY MEN.
I am not sure how men should respond to all this. We have never had to respond collectively to women.
“And then be pleasant. Be feminine. Be as attractive as you can be. Act like a lady. Be loyal. Be trustworthy. Be appreciative. Be kind.”
Good list. I would add two more: Be respectful of him. Be supportive of him.
@Fuzzie, men are responding collectively to women, but on an individual “that’s it!” level. They won’t march, they will just mtgow.
Thanks for adding that Alex, please feel free to add more to the list! I was just trying to remember all the things I have heard guys list…
RPG,
That is an individual response carried out by many men. It is not organized.
Men rarely respond collectively. The civil rights movement being an outlyer.
Governments respond, militaries respond, businesses respond.
Then the men in those institutions, because of their allegience to those institutions carry out the orders to enact the response.
But generally men do not march together, respond socially together.
Why? Because the classic protest Doesnt Get Shit Done.
Its whining, venting, feelz.
What men do is either thru alliegence to a body or institution
OR
individual action to protect their personal interests (that may include protecting family)
Men have no allegience to women, feminism or marriage so are not following the orders of these institutions…man up of various forms.
Men are being free to defend their personal interests. Leaving the plantation, minimalism, no labour force participation, pump and dump.
Even the pussy male activists like avfm suggest action at the personal level but not marches, protests.
“Its not a big deal cause where are the men’s protests??”
Its not what men do.
Its why the womenz aint never gonna see it coming.
Its why they honestly dont know “where have the good men gone?”
We didnt go anywhere, we just naturally dont draw attention to ourselves.
Your power is in attracting attention. Ours is removing it.
Plus we generally
DO NOT GIVE A SHIT!!!
Horseman, do you mind if I steal this? Concise and too the point, love it.
“Your power is in attracting attention. Ours is removing it.”
“Ma’am, I am not holding the door because you are a lady.
I am holding it because I am a gentleman.”
“My crutches are harder than your shins. Sorry ’bout that.”
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Y’Honor, Since Sheryl left I have rage-quit work and crashed my accounts.
And I’ve pee’d in the witness box again. Kids will have to stay with her and Steve.”
“Not enough money, nowhere near enough respect. I quit”
“See me on Snapchat? I was awesome!”
Women have only one mission. Get the weight off. Keep it off.
RPG, to quote you;
“While countless women continue to wail, “Where have all the good men gone?” and blame their lack of a committed relationship on guys who are too immature, too picky, or unable or unwilling to commit, the wiser ones will see that women have created the hostile situation, and if she wants a man in her life to she’s going to have to actively re-build that bridge her sisters blew up long ago.
Instead of focusing on a long checklist of traits he “must have” to qualify, try thinking about your own list, what you bring to the table, and how you can qualify yourself to a good man.
And then be pleasant. Be feminine. Be as attractive as you can be. Act like a lady. Be loyal. Be trustworthy. Be appreciative. Be kind. Be respectful of him. Be supportive of him.”
Honestly now, how many modern Western women do you actually know who even come remotely close to basic femininity with a pleasant demeanor, attractive and ladylike, appreciative and trustworthy? One? Two?
You speak about rebuilding bridges to men, a noble idea indeed if it were to be carried out. However I have seen first hand that most women in the West simply do not give a furry rat’s ass if they have a man or not. True or not true?
@Larry G, oh it is true, but I warn them anyway. At least they can’t ever say I didn’try to tell them all this!
But actually irl I have had more than a few successes reading women the riot act 🙂
If even a FEW listen, my writing will not have been in vain. Someone has to say it! 😀
ok, RP…Mind if I ask a rather pointed question? Why do you care what other Western so-called women think, do or say concerning men?
“Someone has to say it! “…Why does it need to be said at all? Women are fully aware and quite proud of the Southern Fried Bitches that they have become, yes? I doubt that preaching to the modern females will change any of their corrupted ideas.
I will confess that when I first read the title “Build a Bridge” I remembered a 1957 movie called ‘Bridge Over the River Kwai’. A bridge built with slave labor MEN for the Japanese during WW2.
Could be Larry G, but I feel better for trying to say it, anyway. If they listen? I cannot control that. Hopefully it is an idea whose time has come!
There are still good men. Most men I encounter are still polite, respectful, and will hold a door open because they know it’s common courtesy despite what anyone else says, and I respect that. Sure, there are some that are jerks, but they are mostly online.
In all fairness I’ll tell you that this coming summer my non-Western wife and I will celebrate our 24th wedding anniversary together. She has all of the attributes you mentioned previously; very pleasant, feminine, attractive, very much a lady, loyal, trustworthy, appreciative, kind, respectful and supportive. I’ll add thrifty and good friend to the list.
I was quite fortunate to marry her, some might say I caught a unicorn; perhaps I did!
True ash. Do you thank them, irl?
Lucky are those who find it, Larry G! Enjoy 🙂
Of course, with a smile and some eye contact.
Nice ash, I do too!
Did someone mention “Bridge on the River Kwai”?
They whistled because they couldn’t sing “Horseshit makes the grass grow green.”
The first guy to tell me women cursed him for holding a door was actually a WWII fighter pilot! No joke. Those guys had a life expectancy of 8 missions. I was in my early 20s at the time, did not realize what a national treasure he was then!
It’s unfortunate because they are just trying to be courteous. I imagine it’s disappointing to then be treated with disrespect. Maybe a loud, “You’re welcome!” might be an appropriate response.
Ashley,
It’s kind of pointless to call them out on it, so we take it. Having done that, we think twice about courtesy.
“For decades men have been the only group it’s OK to openly ridicule…”?? Wow. Somehow I missed that when high school jocks were bragging about sex but girls were branded sluts for French kissing. I must have missed that when redneck kids were making jokes about being brown like a wetback. Somehow I didn’t get the memo when idiots still use insensitive phrases like “retarded” to describe the mentally ill. Sorry dudes, I guess I just didn’t notice that you were the only group suffering from open ridicule.
Perhaps you don’t watch TV or read the news
RPG, if you really want to know how horrible most men treat women there is an experiment that has been done over and over again … with pretty much always the same results. Make a fake online dating profile. And don’t do it as a woman … do it as a man, an above average man … not a 6-2 good looking stud. Just an honest, hard working man … average height, average weight, decent job, etc. And then try to contact women and you will find that you get treated like complete garbage. Dozens, hundreds of times. You say “Hi” and some man-hating cunt treats you like a pedophile. I’m not exaggerating. And what you will find is this … 70% or more of single women … that are available online are overweight. Basically decent attractive women don’t need to be online. And all these FATTIES hate men and treat men like crap.
In fact here is a quick exercise that will take you about 5 minutes. Don’t know where you live but expect its pretty much the same everywhere in the US. Go to Craiglist.com, under “Personals” go to “Women seeking men”. And just scan some Ads. Any ad that lists the womens body type as “Curvy” means she’s an obese pig. Ditto for “big girl”, “bigger girl”, “thick”, “plus size” … there are about 20 different ways women try to hide the fact they are overweight. If she says she has a “few extra lbs” that means 50-100 lbs overweight. Now … remember these are women who are looking for a date, for a relationship, and are writing an Ad on a dating site … who are OVERWEIGHT and LYING ABOUT IT. If you scan the Ads … essentially none of the women will ever disclose how much they weigh. And very few will even disclose what they look like. AND THEY DEMAND PICS FROM MEN.
I’m not exaggerating … you can see for yourself if you look. Ads from women come in 2 forms. #1 I HAVE A VAGINA … MEN LINE UP TO WORSHIP ME. They demand pics from men. Demand email addresses and phone numbers. AND PROVIDE NOTHING THAT MEN WANT TO KNOW. No age. No height or weight. I am not kidding when I say that many of these women don’t even disclose their RACE. As you know men are rational … a guy wants to know if a girl is around his age and wants to know if the girl is taller than him and most people prefer to date within their own race. Its just normal … these chick provide NOTHING. And I used to sling a response there way and ask for a pic. I’d say something like … “Your Ad sounded nice … could you provide a recent photo to prove you’re not overweight … it seems like many of the women on here are. Thanks”. And I’d get responses where the women came completely unglued … full of hate, swearing at me, etc.
Form #2 isn’t even an Ad … its a LIST OF DEMANDS. Seriously, they provide nothing that men want to know (like if she weighs 400 lbs) … and then the Ad is “I WANT, I WANT, I WANT, I WANT, I WANT, I WANT, I WANT, I WANT, I WANT”. And a lot of times they even admit “what I deserve ..” … essentially they are ENTITLED to whatever they want and offer nothing to men. That they might have to do something to earn that ??? Doesn’t even cross their minds. And these women are so delusional … they are looking for “The One”, “Prince Charming”, “Tall, Dark, Handsome”. I’m not exaggerating one bit when I say that a short, fat, tatted out whore, 3 kids by 2 different daddies, never married, no job, broke, lives in a slum in the shitty part of town … ACTUAL EXPECTS A TALL NICE RICH GUY WITH HIS SHIT TOGETHER IS GOING TO SHOW UP. And they get really, really pissed when he doesn’t.
If you take my advice … pretend to be a guy and see what its like … here are a couple of tips. Most of the ads on CL are fake. Most of the ones that aren’t are complete BS anyway … just like Match, OKC, POF … women have no problem lying their asses off. About everything. That’s why its so hard for men … because women ASSUME men are doing the same … so if you write an honest profile … you will get treated liked shit when everything you said was true. Pics are a huge red flag. On CL women won’t provide one and then demand one. And many promise that if the guy sends one they will return one. Its called the “pic-4-pic” lie. If you send one … you won’t get one back. Most of the women’s pics that are provided … are FAKE … usually they are pics of women from eastern europe or russia and many are old … phones have such good cameras these days … you can tell if something was taken 10 yrs ago.
If you want to know how bad it is for men … that’s a quick exercise. And … here is the really horrible truth … after you do that … then go look at men’s Ads. And you’ll find that there are 10x of them. Men REALLY WANT TO FIND A MATE, SOMEONE NORMAL, SOMEONE COMPATIBLE WITH THEM, AND THEY ARE HONEST. Women are so effed in the head. You will find that many of the men are assholes too. Shouldn’t be a surprise … with the way men are treated. But here is the thing … even though the man’s Ad may come across wrong … ITS USUALLY HONEST ABOUT WHAT HE”S LOOKING FOR. Looking at dating sites is a good way for a man to learn that women have no ethics or integrity at all. Lie, deceive, and manipulate … to get what they want. That’s all most women know. And they don’t even think its wrong.
Good luck on your experiment … hope you try it … you don’t even have to create a profile or an Ad … just pretend your a guy and read the women’s ads. Oh … you’ll quickly learn what CLICK-BAIT means too. Stupid Feminist memes to insult men as part as an Ad … that is supposed to encourage men to reply … could women possibly be so stupid ? Oh yeah.
Sunny,
Did you grow up in the twenties? When doughboys went over to France in WWI, french kissing was a totally new experience. They brought it back. I don’t think it was ever very scandalous. I do remember hearing about “heavy petting”. I never got to find out what that was all about.
Mega,
Online dating drove me to this corner of the internet. What you had to say was not an exaggeration. Reading your comment reminded me that it must be one of the principal causes of relations between the sexes turning poisonous.
@ fuzzie I wish you could see yourself like I see you! And I wish those women online dating could see you the way I do. You are an absolute treasure! 🙂
Fuzzie you have one of the purest hearts I have ever seen. I saw that from the start, too. You are a gem!
I know it is hard, but don’t let them get you down. You are one in a million! I mean that too. Cheer up bear, good things are ahead! Mark my words, we are turning a cultural corner…
RPG,
I am blushing. Thank you for the kind words.
Oh, you really don’t even need to be attractive or try that hard. Don’t give him grief and he’ll pronounce you a unicorn.
”Wow. Somehow I missed that when high school jocks were bragging about sex but girls were branded sluts for French kissing.”
Only paying attention to the jocks while ignoring all the other young men. How typical.
” I must have missed that when redneck kids were making jokes about being brown like a wetback.”
Virtue signaling anti-white SJW, check.
“Somehow I didn’t get the memo when idiots still use insensitive phrases like “retarded” to describe the mentally ill. Sorry dudes, I guess I just didn’t notice that you were the only group suffering from open ridicule.”
Politically Correct Police, check.
You have a good day, Ms. Sunny Lanning.
Hookers French kiss me. I have no Dr. House problem: “Hookers don’t kiss me!”.
There is nothing better on Earth than to have very good chemistry with a hooker. That is fireworks!!!! And you feel so special. Well, maybe you are not so special, but you feel so special.
The most beautiful love song ever is about a hooker and her client: “Il cielo in una stanza”, by Gino Paoli.
That faggots from Dolce and Gabanna used in TV commercial.
Oh, you really don’t even need to be attractive or try that hard. Don’t give him grief and he’ll pronounce you a unicorn. –
It is just so easy to stand out from the crowd. So easy…
Only paying attention to the jocks while ignoring all the other young men. How typical.
https://spawnyspace.wordpress.com/2015/01/25/red-pill-classroom-apex-fallacy/
This discussion is for women who believe themselves to be good marriage material (and hopefully you are), but are having a difficult time finding a quality man. One of the biggest reasons that you face this problem was explained here. It is difficult for men to easily see the quality that might be in a woman. This combined with the fact that there are so few fine women out there makes the search costs for men (both in terms of time and money) very high.
http://spawny.space/index.php/2015/01/03/a-novel-online-dating-approach-for-women-what-do-you-have-to-lose/
You know what all this is? A lack of respect. Simply a lack of respect for men and what they do.
No wonder plenty of men don’t try anymore, and then women complain men have become losers? I truly believe that most men need supportive women in their life, especially their partners, to encourage them to be their best.