Remember when it was considered a GOOD thing to act like a lady?
Apparently these days the feral woman is more the cultural standard, and IMHO it is a real loss.
My advice is to not sink to the level of the average woman, but rise above and be a class act. Not only will you stand out among the shrieking masses of hysterical women shouting expletives right in front of small children, you’ll also be taking a small personal stand for decency.
And when other women act like they have been raised on the streets, please join me in calling them out (constructively) on their bad behavior. Somebody has to! And let’s face it, these women are not going to listen to anything a man has to say.
I know it is like trying to fight the tide, but a civilization without civility just doesn’t work.
Let those who have ears hear.
Have some stories of women behaving well or badly to share? Please add them in the comments!
Notes From a Red Pill Girl 
Define what “ladylike” is. What are the attributes of a lady? What does one see that would cause them to think “She’s a lady”?
Oh- and not one word about the “Proverb’s 31 Woman” because that’s unicorn territory. The text even says so, it’s a fairy tale made up by the king’s mother and right up front it asks “who can find her?” She doesn’t exist. Read it carefully and you’ll see that it’s all about “Me, Me, Me, Look at Me”. She even brags about her husband, one of the elders who sits in the city gate, as if he was “known” in his position because of her.
I had a commenter ask me how to show respect to men and I told her to start addressing them as “Sir”. I suppose that’s a characteristic of a lady, that she is respectful. I’m curious to see what you women consider to be ladylike behavior.
I have seen enough videos from the Women’s March to last me for a while. I think that all of us are in that boat. What a bunch of stinkers! No offers of dinner and a movie for them!
Good question, Toad. I think of a lady as someone who is kind, and gracious, and has manners, and who dresses in a flattering but modest way, and who speaks about positive and appropriate topics, etc. I would say Ivanka Trump acts like a lady, for example. So not a doormat, or a pushover, or a timid mouse but strong and such in a good way.
Or think old time movie actresses like Grace Kelly. Compare her to many not-ladylike movie stars today!
Ladies refrain from being what I call: Whore-huggers.
These women can’t seem to keep there hands to themselves. Every time they see a man they must run to him and hug him as a routine form of greeting.
I see this often. Even in my Catholic parish. They will do it in front of their husbands and children. I see it as a habitual form of disrespect.
Ladies also where stockings under their dresses and don’t bare their cleavage. Gentlemen don’t run around with parts of their testicles exposed, ladies shouldn’t run around with parts of their breasts exposed.
It’s more than a bit disconcerting to hear woman complain how their husband ruined their marriage and yet refuse to accept that their stupid little hugging/touching habits might play a role in creating doubt about your commitment to the relationship. I mean really, how hard is it to keep your hands off other men when you with someone else.
Believe it or not girls we men see these little things you do to draw attention to yourself. You pretend like it doesn’t mean anything, but you know very well all the touching, hugging, and cleavage barring means much more to you than you are willing to admit.
In short Ladies don’t parade about seeking the gaze of men.
RPG,
Something like this?
If she is wearing clothing that is thin enough to be see through, wear under clothes the same color as your outer clothes. Do not ever go commando.
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Thanks for the plug Red Pill Nation! 😀
Have mercy, I work in an office full of women. The bad behavior issue is one I could take up 1,000 words with here, easy. So, I won’t.
I’ll just say that I couldn’t agree more. Class is lost, thus class is a rare commodity. Supply and demand. I hear many women pine for good men, and good men stand near them often, but are offput by the feral woman look, attitude, and more. It’s difficult to compare class to a direct commodity, like say gold, but what I think many of these feral women don’t understand is that, sometimes, a quality product has to be introduced (or re-introduced, in this case) to the ‘market’ for the general consumer to remember that he wanted the commodity to begin with. It’s just human nature. We’re so inundated with oversexed people and media that the chances are good that many a young or old man, seeing a more valuable commodity like class will in a moment come to the realization that he’d prefer that to the off-the-shelf, garden variety feral woman taking *ss-photos and projecting attitude and defiance from every pore.
Shame is a human behavioral limiter, and I think you’re dead-on with the fact that they’re not going to listen to men, thus the good men have mostly just stopped talking. Since women are (generally) more subject to the pressure of their peers, then it makes sense that if more women ‘called them out,’ as you say, that it might resonate more with these feral women.
Thanks for adding that CH! Absolutely agreed! 🙂
Do not wear low rise trousers unless your top is long enough to cover your butt crack when you squat or bend over or sit.
It is often remarked by women that they hate to see this happen with men but then do the same thing themselves.
Sorry but that is a pet peeve of mine.
RL
Stockings! When did they go out of fashion? All legs look better with stockings.
I can understand not liking pantyhose, they are not nice things to wear. I couldn’t imagine wearing closed in shoes without stockings, the thought makes my stomach feel queasy.
I think stockings are sexier in a lady like manner than going bare skin. The only time bare skin is okay with a dress or skirt is if one is wearing sandals.
Women also need to relearn that certain clothing is acceptable/not acceptable for certain places or venues.
Guess I am just old and out of date.
The classiest ladies I use to meet are prostitutes.
The funny thing is the whorish behaviour in “normal” women.
I have no problem, I always treat both: prostitutes and “normal” like ladies.
Iberian reminded me of what my stepmom told me years ago. She had to go to the city for some legal work and she went on her own. The hotel suggested that she eat at the bar because she was alone and she was witness to something she wasn’t used to. The hotel bar was full of women either looking for someone rich or they were out and out hookers. I thought on this for a little while and came back with, “They are easy to tell apart. The hookers are dressed more conservatively.” She stopped in mid -stride.
@Fuzzie
LOL That is so true.
@ Roma Lance
We all who have Catholic background know that Catholic girls arte the worst (I mean the best) especially if they went to school with nuns.
And Catholic grown up married women still the worst.
That may have been true in the past here in America. I think that girls attending girl’s schools run by nuns would be saturated in feminism.
Ladylike behavior depends on circumstance. It’s about not making people feel awkward or uncomfortable. If your hugging makes the most important man in your life uncomfortable, you stop it. If he is embarrassed by your standoffish attitude, you hug some more. Don’t wear clothes that make people cringe. Avoid topics that will cause argument. It’s simply being considerate.
@ Fuzzie
So, not being worse enough now they are ultra worse.
I sorta think we need a topic on who sells good stockings. Call me crazy, but I refuse to buy something that rips with no help from my husband whatsoever within half an hour of putting it on. And the opaque cotton ones are far from sexy.
Gonna, kinda, thread jack again. Sorry, Ms Bloom … hopefully not TOTALLY off topic … this time … like I am so much. So … don’t know if any of the ladies here or men either … have heard of “ThePrivateMan” a long time blogger of the Red Pill. Good dude. Website is here: http://theprivateman.wordpress.com/
So, he lives in South Florida and has suffered skin cancer before. Cancer that led to an eye being taken out. He has continued to blog and lives with an eye patch that makes him look like a pirate. So anyway … his cancer has returned and he has been given weeks to live. And like a MAN he had decided to go out with style and grace. So he’s hosting a “Going away party” to honor his death. Do you want to celebrate with him ? Want to know what a real hero looks like, sounds like ? Read his blog and you will see.
Anyway, if anyone wants to make the journey to south Florida to celebrate life and to celebrate his death you are welcome. All are welcome. All of those who seek the truth are welcome. A man. A real man. A hero. The details if you should want to attend are here: https://theprivateman.wordpress.com/2017/01/28/my-going-away-party/
I mentioned … not totally thread jacking this post … because ThePrivateMan has addressed what the RPG just did in the opening piece. About women and their attitudes and their behaviors. Women: WHAT YOU DO, HOW YOU ACT … is so vitally important. The private man addressed it many many times. With style and grace like he always did. And even then … got confronted by women … who disregarded everything he tried to say. Below are a couple links. His original post (good stuff) and then how a woman responded. Hope you enjoy and explore his blog. The man was a good man. Did the right things. Said the right things. Treated all people with respect … whether they deserved it or not. The man helped lots of people. The man will be missed.
(on what RPG just said)
https://theprivateman.wordpress.com/2015/09/29/on-feminine-pleasantness/
(a woman responds and gets told the truth)
https://theprivateman.wordpress.com/2015/12/21/a-woman-responds-to-a-recent-blog-post/
I feel bad for young men. It was a lot easier when I was younger. Girls were more willing to go out. So, it was possible to socialize.
The links made this post get held up Maga, but I have set it free!
Thanks … ThePrivateMan is a good dude !
HHW,
I can’t help you with that at all. But, here is some news that should make you feel good.
Mega,
Privateman is a class act. He made this corner of the internet a better place.
Fuzzy, 🙂 🙂 🙂