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commitment, devotion, first love, love, marriage, red pill, security, Valentine
Today I happened to be walking out of a store at the same time the local high school was getting out. I saw multiple teen boys with bouquets of flowers in hand, obviously headed off to present them to someone.
They looked so young, so hopeful, so eager. I hope the gals the flowers will go to will be gentle with their hearts and realize it’s an honor when a man asks her to, “Be mine, Valentine.”
I have heard many men in the manosphere say they never loved again like they loved their first love. And for some whose first love broke their heart, the recovery can take years, if ever.
Ladies, if you have a man bringing your flowers today, be good and true to him! In turn, he will gladly move mountains for you!
Let those with ears hear.
Notes From a Red Pill Girl 
first loves are (often) precious. my ‘first love’ and i reconnected once after many years … it was sweet.
A new post at Spawny’s there would be
https://spawnyspace.wordpress.com/2017/02/15/yellow-hat-lady/
My facility is 14 men (all married) and 150+ women of which 2\3 are divorced 35-65 mostly single moms.
One of our youngins got a huge batch of purple roses delivered to her station. The ward was SILENT. The envy was pallitable. Romorse so thick it was painful.
So I said “Hey Emma, you’re setting the bar a little high for the rest of us.”
She laughed and asked what I am getting my valentine.
I said “my wife? Same thing I have gotten her for the last Thirty years.
Me!
Same thing I will get her for the next thirty!!”
Emma (who is engaged) laughed.
The other thirty odd nurses in earshot did not.
I just gave a jaunty tip of the hat to them and said loudly “Happy Valentines Ladies” as I sauntered off.
To some I am an asshole.
I consider it karma and rationality on display.
Yes, the first one leaves quite an impression. While I am glad to hear you hope the high school girls will be kind, I know better.
In “knowing better”, I know what the high school girls will do.
We will never know for certain. There are Women who treat their Men right! Never forget this.
#horseman I am glad that there are Men who still get their women presents. That tell them they love them, tell them that they are an asset to them. If my Man would behave like you I would not be with him.
My very first girfiend was a sluttie British girl. I think I love bad girls since then.
We keep on touch after 30 years. she is a divorced milf now, living in herefordshire.
When I was young Valentine’s day was a two way thing. I bought something for my man and he bought something for me.
But this seems to have changed when I wasn’t looking (which is most of the time), now it seems it is the man buys for the woman. A forum that I belong to had a thread about this. And that is why there is now BJ & Steak day for men.
Linny,
My wife and I both do things for each other and get little treats on valentine’s day.
Usually I will take care of dinner for kids (she gets tired of having to do that everyday), and take her out. Typically what I want is some willingness/enthusiasm for intimacy.
This year we did it a little different, but it still followed the same basic pattern. It is a another day for both of us to show the other is important.
But for the general society it seems to be a day for being selfish. And a women who is thinking alone about herself can not do much for her man on that day.
Boy my English sucks!
Linny,
Your mention of Steak and BJ Day is the first I have heard of it in a few years. I don’t think it quite caught on. In the meanwhile, Valentine’s Day is all about honoring the wife or girlfriend. Restaurants with linen tablecloths are very busy. It is a good night for bachelors to stay in and watch an action movie. I watched Boudicca.
Fuzzie
Well, I can see it being difficult to commercialize. The only person likely to make any money pushing it would be the butcher.
There is also a lot of potatoes to be baked. Sour cream…Yum!
Well, I can see it being difficult to commercialize. The only person likely to make any money pushing it would be the butcher.
Perhaps Madonna commercialize it she could
Yoda,
I saw a video of a man attempting to contact her after the election to claim her promised incentive. She welshed. I’ll trade you three promises from Madonna for a hamburger today.
Fuzzie
That’s pretty *Wimpy* of you.
I yam what I yam and that’s all that I yam.
emscherfree
I meant that my wife had me, day in day out valentines or the second thursday in March. My “gift” to her and hers to me was to be there for each other. Now and another thirty years. We understand that the best gift is that of comfort and love freely given. We dont need a hallmark made up day to acknowlefge that.
I do it by shovelling out after the major storm we had. she does it by having a coffee waiting for me to warm me up.
True companions understand that. Those “expecting gifts” never will.
besides after 30 years she has enough flowers candy and jewelery to open a hallmark store.
Bears gotta eat they do
Hamburgers good they would be
Yum! Subway sandwiches are good too.