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Maybe it is just me, but is anyone else sick and tired of this seemingly endless back and forth about the long over and done election?
Donald Trump was legally elected president. The next opportunity to elect a president is in 2020. Can we MOVE ON???
Like it or not, just like every other president he has the right to choose a cabinet, set an agenda, determine priorities, and do his best to keep his campaign promises to those who voted for him. Which he is doing at an amazing rate and despite much resistance, btw.
Rather than temper tantrum meltdowns, how about we be happy we have a stable secure government that works, with peaceful transitions of power, checks and balances on govt., a legal system not based on bribery and extortion, freedom and opportunity for those willing to work for it, and more prosperity than most people on the planet?
We must seem like the most spoiled, entitled, self-absorbed, first world problem focused nation on earth! Frankly, it is embarrassing.
For all our blessings, all many seem to be able to do is complain that they deserve “more.” How about being part of the solution, not part of the problem? How about giving as much (or more!) than you are taking?
Maybe it is pre-menopause speaking here, but I am really having to restrain myself from not saying this sort of thing out loud and in person pretty much daily to those I encounter complaining about “the system.”
Count your blessings. That’s what I would recommend. Be positive. Look toward the future. Try to make the things you see wrong better.
It is amazing that for the supposedly most intelligent species on the planet, we never seem to learn from history. Look back in time and all the once mighty cultures fell not in their struggle but at their peak. Somehow rather than evolving the easier things get, people seem hell bent on devolving to their basest natures.
What’s next? Feeding Christians to the lions for sport? Burning folks at the stake based on mere allegations? The worst of our nature rising rather than the best of it shining?
I hope not. Wake up people, before it is too late and you only tell tales to your offspring of the wonders of running water, electricity, and a functioning society.
Let those who have ears hear.
Notes From a Red Pill Girl 
The problem stems from people being so polarized that they not only disagree with their political opponents, they hate them. I think that what has to happen is the opposite of what happened to Richard Nixon. While he was allowed to retire to obscurity, Hillary has to be prosecuted and, thereby, seen for what she is.
I agree Fuzzie. I think a lot of this is people are unable to process the cognitive dissidence of being red pilled involuntarily. They want to believe in PFUDOR. But the reality is unfortunately much darker than that. My fear is if it is exposed, people will think she’s being framed! People are fighting the truth like mad, it seems!
There are a lot of ways to go with prosecuting her. One of the things not mentioned is that she is responsible for starting the civil war in Ukraine.
On a happier note, some people may not be acquainted with PFUDOR.
Nice, I was just about to search for that link 🙂
I like linking videos from YouTube. Linking that one reminded me of Tarn. I hope that she is all right.
Me too bear, it is unsettling to me, too.
We need to change the subject to something happier. How about prosecuting Hillary for war crimes?
In time Fuzzie, in time…. it has only been 3 1/2 weeks! 😉
The fact that people have not on their own tied together the “donations” to her foundation and the pay to play politics that resulted boggles the mind!
She does make Tricky Dick look like small potatoes.
European old school lefitest (like myself) are amazed about Trump. In a good way. He is not into the Neocon agenda: harassing Russia, Syria, Iraq, Iran, etc. He is not going to go forward with the USA-EU free trade agreement (would be a disaster here).
European neofascists (like myself, too. I can be socialdemocrat and neofascist at the same time, so open minded I am, lol, take that liberals ) are delighted about Trump for obvious reasons.
So, very happy about the Donald.
Here, just waiting to French elections. Whatever happens in France affects the rest of the EU.
Macron is a gay in the closet (no big deal in France, actually) and Le Pen is extremely popular. This time Laetitia Casta and her model friends and her legion of gay friends shouting and bitching about Le Pen will have ZERO impact on French opinion. Not like in 2002, pre Red Pill times.
“leftists”
Bloom, it’s cognitive dissonance, not dissidence. Got a good chuckle from seeing that, though.
This is what happens when everyone gets a trophy. Nobody can handle losing, let alone losing with grace. Introspection and figuring out what went wrong never gets learned, either. The only thing left are childish tantrums.
I get that it can be frustrating, but checks and balances are an institutional part of our democracy. If senators are slowing things down or questioning the legality of an executive order it’s because they (and the thousands of constituents calling them) believe these things and people deserve a more thorough review. And no matter how much that might frustrate you, it’s their right and responsibility to do it.
What I have noticed is that quite a lot of people who have never before shown very much interest in politics/policy have all of a sudden become very strident.
When Trump was elected, I laughed when people say that the election was over. I knew it was only the beginning, and it still is. Trump is in the hot seat now. Everything he says and does will be dissected with a microscope and judged. This is just the way it goes. It happened with Obama and it will happen with Trump, and it’s not going to stop. He’s going to be the target that is blamed for everything bad that happens in this country from now on. Until the next man who steps up to the plate.
“Everything he says and does will be dissected with a microscope and judged. This is just the way it goes. It happened with Obama and it will happen with Trump, and it’s not going to stop.”
No, it didn’t. The media was not only 100% compliant with Obama, they were circle jerking for joy with everything he said and did.
Seriously. I have often thought how much better off we’d all be if we re-directed the energy we’re using to insult Trump (and many other past presidents) to assist one another. I’m pretty sure we’d have utopia in this beautiful/fantastic world we live in by now.
Lunar, I agree and am not opposed to that. But there is a difference between that and obstructionism.
Agreed Ash, but what I don’t understand is why? How does that help us, as a nation? It doesn’t! It needs to stop.
Sure, but every side calls it obstructionism when they’re in power. It’s a matter of perspective at that point.
True Lunar, but I think it is time we evolve past this “us” vs. “them” dynamic. I wish we could get back to “we” somehow…
Have you ever heard the expression, “3 people, 5 opinions?” There are lots of ways to get things done. So I don’t like to think of it as us vs them, even though I certainly don’t agree with lots of people. It’s all just people coming at a problem from different sides.
It goes beyond checks and balances when Donald Trump has to deal with a hostile media and a judiciary countermanding a perfectly legal Executive Order.
The rage is not directed only against Trump, but against anyone who supported him or might have even thought about supporting him. The objective is to narrow the universe of political discourse to the limits established by the extreme Left. Freedom of speech and of assembly is under attack, as demonstrated by the riots at Berkeley and other places and by the attacks on the employment of anyone who does not toe the line.
Three days is a hissy fit, three months is a concerted campaign.
Trump’s election derailed a trillion-dollar multi-national sting. The rage will continue until the paymasters have covered their tracks.
What, you thought a hundred thousand women all furiously knitted the same pink pussy hat?
” but I think it is time we evolve past this “us” vs. “them” dynamic. I wish we could get back to “we” somehow”
Magical thinking at best worthy of the PFODOR up thread. There will always be an Us versus Them. You just get to decide who’s side you are on. 😉
You know what? I do believe that ll those women knitted their own pussy hats. Now, what did Lenin call people who do stuff like that? It was very cynical. All the craft stores ran out of pink yarn in advance of the march.
“what did Lenin call people who do stuff like that? It was very cynical.”
Good call, fuzzie. What was it? Universal Iconoclasts? Nope. United Ingeniuses? ?Nope. Useful Idiots? Aww Yeah! 😛
GLA,
*big grin*
Looks like the GF is trying to lock me down. Ain’t good with that shit, lol. Tomorrow she is coming into town for “errands” which are legit. She hinted tonight about getting together (for sex) … I suggested dinner, lol. Saturday she is making lunch for her dad and brother and wants me to come … brother’s birthday is coming up. First time to meet either of them; I’ve meet both her kids. Sat night she’s probably gonna come over and stay the night again. Monday she’s coming in after work … so I can take her to a Hockey game (I got free tiks thru work). Fri, Sat, Sat overnight, Mon, meeting her Dad. Yikes !!!
Think it was all brought up cause she is going on a ski trip in a couple of weeks and really, really tried to guilt trip me into going with her. I resisted; so she’s going alone.
Not good at this shit, lol. Most men aren’t.
I think that she likes you. I have no idea how to test for intentions at this stage, but it all sounds good.
Thanks fuzzie and you’re right … it all sounds good and that’s the problem. It is good. We are a very good match. Never thought I would ever want to get married again; frankly never thought I would ever find a woman who was marriage material ever again. But been thinking of it; we do really get along that well. She knows it. I know it. Was kinda funny last weekend … we were naked and snuggling in bed after sex #3.
Don’t remember exactly what she said but I was surprised and spoke up. She was saying how she really appreciates me and what I bring to the table. Kinda went like this. Me: Really ? Wow, I’m really glad to hear you say that. I really have fears that this was lost on you. I kinda thought that maybe you didn’t appreciate what you have. I actually kinda wish you’d been divorced for 5 yrs before you met me. And dated 20 other guys so you’d realized how most guys are. So you’d appreciate what you got, when you found me. Cause I’m smart, I’m nice, I’m great in bed, I treat you great, and I … actually have money … THEN she broke in on the money part. Her: I don’t care if you have money !!! … ME: really ? Do you realize that most men are broke (interlude: her Ex made good money and so does she, she’s never been poor or dated anyone who is). ME: continuing … most of the recent girls I’ve dated … the biggest complaint they’ve had is that most men are broke. They can’t even take you out on a date, can’t take you to dinner … cause they don’t have any money. Ever date a man who’s broke ? She changed the subject but basically admitted that everything I said was true. I’m smart. I’m nice. I fuck her silly. I treat her great. I pay for everything. All she has to do is show up and not be a cunt. And she’s not. Not at all. And this is to her credit … she doesn’t suck up to me. All she does is be herself which is awesome. She does try to claim the progressive card now and again and even with that I think I’m being a good influence. I don’t buy that crap and maintain frame. So it works.
The funny thing is … she’s not really girly-girl. And she’s smart too. Kinda nerdy actually. No … she IS nerdy. But she’s skinny and a healthy weight. Works out. Keeps in shape. Smart. Nice. Not overweight. She’s not the greatest in bed … but ok. She’s actually kinda docile in bed and likes that I’m kinda dominant. Which goes to all the stereotypes the RP always talks about. I do know that she REALLY REALLY likes the sex between us … so that’s cool.
Know what the coolest thing between us is ? Yeah we are the same age. Height/weight appropriate. Sex is good. But the best thing ? Yeah, the best thing is the communication. When we talk, we are like we’ve know each other forever. No lies. No bullshit. Just say it. Like talking to your best friend. Like this weekend. She hints she wants me to come for lunch with her brother and dad. I get it. And she wants to get together tomorrow night after she runs her errand (she wants sex). She’s mentioned meeting her Dad before … and I’m cool with it. He’s a retired eye doctor and I have no doubt that he’ll be happy that his little girl has met someone who treats her well and makes her happy. So tomorrow … I’ll meet her for dinner. And then go over on Sat to have lunch and meet her Dad and brother. And then she’ll come over afterwards and I’ll fuck her and then fuck her again. Then later on … we’ll go to bed and we’ll wake up in the middle of the night and do it again. And then again in the morning. She really likes morning sex, lol. Likes it and is good at it … which means I like it too. Then she’ll head home and then come back the next day to go the Hockey game. Maybe I’ll fuck her again after the game … or not. IT JUST WORKS.
And that’s the dilemma. It just works. We just get along. When you meet someone like that … know what any reasonable person would do ? Yeah … PUT A RING ON IT. But the problem is … given our current society … given our current legal system and its bias against men … any man … thinking of getting married … needs to have his head examined.
Guess I’m rambling again. And off topic. Whatever, hope someone can learn from this …
Mega,
You just reminded me of something. When it works, it is supposed to be as easy as falling off a log. I don’t know what to say other than I am glad for you and a little jealous.
The third -in votes- political party in Spain, called “Podemos” (translation: “We Can”), ideologically in the Far Left, is against the Easter parades in Spain (a tradition which comes from the Middle Ages) because “it is disrispectful to atheist and Muslims”. At the same time they say in their propaganda: “Happy Ramadam 2017”.
Please, Marine, win soon in France!!!! We need a Marine here.
More information about the Easter parades: so many atheist people just LOVE them, cuz they consider it part of their cultural DNA. So, it is totally false.
Sturbacks multicultural issue in Milano, Italy.
Sturbacks go home!!!!!
By da way… trying to sell Starbucks coffe to italians is like trying to sell fast food to French people.
Tourists like chains like Starbucks. They want it to be just like home. They are so confused!
So true, Fuzzie! Once I went on a cruise to the Caribbean and we stopped in Barbados and there was a McDonald’s there. People FLOCKED to get McDonalds, so bizarre! I saw the same thing in Hong Kong, also a McDonalds.
RPG,
You have to wonder why they ever left home. There is part of it that I can see. If you are used to American breakfasts, a Continental breakfast is going to leave you hungry. I hate being hungry.
This was all of three days into the trip too, they acted like they had not seen a McDonalds in YEARS! Lol.
RPG,
That sounds like addictive behavior. Although, I have to admit, I find it hard to pass up an A&W. They make good hamburgers and the root beer is made that day.
In the 90s there was a McDonald´s at Pizza della Rotonda, in Rome.
No longer, thanks God! Now there is a traditional Italian cafe.
Mega,
Just my two cents if you are afraid to ever get married again: If it is good, don’t feel bad about putting a ring on it. You can even have a ring ceremony, if you two want. Just do not sign a marriage license. You can go through all the symbolism you want but do not sign the legal documents.
P.S. Make sure she never uses your place for her mailing address.
goFigure and Mega
I would be careful of making a public display. It might come back to haunt you. It can all depend on the rules for common law marriage in your area.
Around here some of the sons of women that I worked with had the woman sign a rental agreement .That way the only government dept that could be called in would be the one that deals with the landlord tenant act.
Yes, the young men did add the *rent* to their gross income for tax purposes. The benefits were no one’s business.
I don’t know what to think. Ben Afleck and Jennifer Garner are in the news again. Their marriage got past the ten year point where she gets half of his retirement.She has to be cashing out because there is no way she is going to do better in the sexual marketplace. I mention this because you can’t predict what people will do ten years from now.
I thought I read somewhere that Ben had drinking and gambling problems.Maybe she is just cashing out while there is still something to cash.
I doubt my source was anything to get excited about.
Fuzzie
I worked as a car hop at the A&W the whole time I was in high school. Lots of fun memories.
Linny,
Stuff like that always comes out with divorce. Whether it is true or nor, is another matter. I did hear about Ben taking up with a nanny, but Jennifer hired the nanny. Aren’t we all more than a little of all this?
Maybe I wouldn’t be so negative if men had some ability to defend themselves. Even that has been taken away from them.
Since I have a cop girlfriend I don´t have to care about defending myself. She does.
Besides, she accepts me as the cheap bastard I am, and she pays most of the time.
She takes the trash to the bin outside every night.
She cooks.
She drives (I have no car)
Ex hubby pays for her daughter.
I only have play the submissive and let her be with the legion of fans she has on Tinder.
No problem.
If this is feminism… I love it.
Just one tip on women and political correctness.
If you want to feel free of making totally obnoxious racist statements on blacks, Arabs, Chinese, “panchitos” (what you call in the US “Hispanics”) in front of a woman, and she will happily agree with you, and not call you “racist bigot” you have two very good options:
– She is Russian.
-She is a cop.
Iberian,
If you ever break up with her, be very careful. One thing you should certainly do is wipe the hard drive on your computer and reload everything.
So things going pretty much according to plan. GF came in on Friday for errands and stopped by for sex like she wanted. Yesterday I went over for lunch and I mis-spoke in my earlier post. Her son’s birthday is in a couple of days so was a family get together for that. Met her dad and brother for the first time. Had lunch and birthday cake. I helped out with setting things up. Everything was cool, we get along great and think everybody in the family realized that … no stress at all; which was really nice. Both her son’s were there … as well as one of her son’s girlfriends … soon to be wife … I’d guess. In case anyone is wondering she’d already met my extended family (mom, sisters, niece, nephew … last Xmas). So guess it was time to return the family visit test. And, yeah, she passed with my family, lol. And obviously I passed with hers.
So … she came over later last night and we watched the game, made dinner, watched a couple of episodes of a show we are following on Netflix. And yeah had sex a couple of times. She stayed the night and we had sex again this am before she headed out. Damn morning sex with her is good ! I made her oatmeal and I had coffee, then she headed home.
She’s coming in again tomorrow for dinner and a Hockey game with another couple. So … all going according to plan.
Will be interesting to see how her ski trip will work out. She really wanted me to go with her … but I don’t ski and my knee has been bothering me … so not a good idea for me. I think she mentioned it to her dad … cause he brought it up over lunch … hinted … how come I’m not going on the ski trip ? We talked about that last night … he didn’t ski either but always accompanied the family on the Ski vacations and just hung out … guess he expected me to do the same. But will be interesting to see how it works out. If I’d have to predict … it would go like this. She will go out there and ski and snowshoe and hang out with the group she’s going with … but will get extremely lonely and miss the sex and companionship I provide. I wouldn’t be surprised if she doesn’t even make it all the way home and stops by my place first before she even gets home … OR … she will get extremely needy upon her return and want some sort of commitment. Which will be interesting …
She’s going to be gone for 8 days. Leaving on Friday. And, lol, she is thinking of coming over on Thurs evening, staying the night, and leaving from my place.
One thing I’ve learned, I guess, from this experience that that maybe some of the Red Flag warning signs … are not as important as maybe I thought. Example: she changed her name back to her maiden name post divorce. HUGE WARNING SIGN. Seriously, she was married 27 years (most of her adult life) and has 2 kids with that last name. So she changes it … because she’s vindictive … because HE CHEATED. So you divorce rape him and then change YOUR NAME to spite him … and to make no mistake … that IS why she did it … to spite him. We talked about that several months ago and she admitted it. But divorce-rape ? No … she didn’t do that … they pretty much walked away 50/50 … actually he got more than her because during the marriage he made a lot more money that her. So … essentially FAIR. I always figured that all women will RAPE THEIR EX’S … pretty much because they can … with no consequences. So maybe the changing her name post marriage offsets the fact that they split up fairly.
I do think that its because of her “N” count though. We haven’t talked about it but I think her “N” is probably about 3, not counting me. And almost certainly less than 5. So some Red Pill things ring true (N Count matters) and some don’t so much (changing your name after a long marriage, kids is a big red flag). Lol, she admitted that changing her name has been a huge PITA … said something about a credit report … she was married so long … they didn’t know who she was (maiden name) and have requested documentation on everything. Want a credit card, car loan, mortgage … ???
Anyway, things still going well … how the ski trip goes will be interesting …
Mega,
I hope that things continue to go well. There may be a point in your favor. She has been out in the world enough to see what a mess the SMP is. It may be enough to scare her straight.
Actually Fuzzie, I’m not sure that she understands the SMP. I think I mentioned this in my ramblings awhile back … she was married for 27 years and divorced a little over 1 before we got together. Didn’t date too many other guys since was single either; may have gotten a glimpse at how pathetic most men and women are in the SMP but don’t think she ever realized the true situation. I’ve been dropping red pill bombs on her since we got together … so hope its having an influence. But you never know. She’s been really cool about things thus far … so counting my blessings. Its actually been kinda funny how she’s gotten hooked on the sex far more than me … low N count in action, I’d guess. Ski trip is gonna be interesting … I think she is really going to miss me while she’s gone …
She’ll miss you.
Will make one final comment till she comes back … for the benefit of the women here. At her house yesterday … she had lots and lots of pics on her fridge … women just LOVE pics … way more than men. Most were of her kids, of course … but there was one of her and a group for friends from college. They had a 10 yr reunion of sorts. So … there she was … as a much younger version of herself … and … about the same size too. Her hair was shorter. She wears it longer now … in a ponytail … which I think is sexy. Personal preference, of course, but most men prefer a woman with longer hair. And this is the kicker … she’d have been in her early 30s in the pic … post having her 2 boys … and she now is in her early 50s. Yep … 20 years ago. And the kicker is this … she weighs about the same now as then … ok, 10 maybe even 20 lbs more. Yep … weighs 120 lbs at age 30 and 140 lbs at age 50 … LADIES … IT CAN BE DONE.
But the real kicker is this. Age at 30 with 2 kids she was a 6. Attractive but just a little above average. At at 50, when most women have a shitty attitude and have gained 50-100 lbs of weight. She had kept a good attitude and kept the weight off. Now … she is a 8. Maybe even a 9 compared to her peers. A girl a man wants to have around. And would consider marrying. Unlike 90% of women today.
As RPG says … Let those that have ears hear.
Mega,
We may be the only two on this page. I second your observation. It can be done and without much difficulty.
Fuzzie
Thank you for advice. Everyone lives in his/her own place. I live in a village. She lives in town. I use my own PC, but… just in case… you are true. Besides, she is a cop. I don´t want to imagine that bitch seriously angry towards me.
The thing is… use feminism in your own benefit. Never feel intimidated by harpy-faced bad attitude bitches. Just play them.
She brags about Tinder male fans… you go grrrrrr.
She brags about martial arts skills and she can kick your ass in a second… you go grrrrrrl.
Say “yes” to everything and do what you want. And be always a cheap bastard. They will respect you as “eccentric”.
Iberian,
Cops make me nervous. Not that I am a law violator but that they are not on the side of the angels.
As Fuzzie said, probably nobody watching this page … so what the hell. GF is leaving on her Ski vacation in 2 days. So she’s coming over tomorrow after an after work meetup with a group she’s with. Won’t show up till 9pm. Gotta get in a little nookie cause she’s gonna be 8 days without, lol.
Kinda nice to be wanted. From a guys perspective … that is a very rare thing. And if anyone cares, no, I won’t be taking it for granted. Will probably have sex when she arrives, do it again in the middle of the nite, and then again in the early am (Nice!). And then she’ll leave on her trip a happy camper and hoping that I’m satisfied until she returns. Gotta give credit to this one … she’s pretty cool. Knows how the game works.
I always have a question I ask to single women … who’ve gotten divorced … and complain about how the sex was no good at the end and just dwindled away to nothing. My question is this: when was the last time you propositioned your hubby … before you got divorced ? Know what the answer is ??? I’ve never gotten an answer … usually just blank stares … “Like I’m supposed to let my hubby know that I like sex, that I want sex, that I find him sexually desirable ????” I’ve dropped this bomb on like 5-6 different women and always had the same response. Cause what it does is trigger this: they realize that not only did they not proposition their hubby EVER … no matter HOW LONG THEY WERE MARRIED … they probably rebuffed their hubbies inquiries … dozens, hundreds, thousands of times … until their hubby just GAVE UP EVEN ASKING. So they shut down their hubby and refused to ask themselves. AND THEN THE SEX DWINDLED TO NOTHING ???? REALLY ???? AND WHO”S FAULT IS THAT ????
Guess I will follow this up with a question for RPG. Don’t know her situation … from what I’ve read here she seems to be a mid 40’s something divorcee with a couple of kids. So … Ms Bloom … are you typical of what goes on ? Did the sex in your marriage dwindle to nothing ? And when was the last time you propositioned your (ex) hubby for sex ? Ever ? And how many times did he inquire about sex with you AND YOU TURNED HIM DOWN ? Did you realize that he just gave up ? Did you care that his most basic needs were not being met OR did you breath a sigh of relief that he wouldn’t be asking anymore ? And, again, a question no female would ever answer … how long did it take … after your hubby gave up and you refuse to ask … until you decided it was time for a divorce ? Did you ever correlate the two ?
In my experience it goes like this. Your hubby inquired about sex … every week, week after week after week for … usually 3-5 YEARS before he gave up. And it took 2-3 years after that before you HATED HIM and HE DIDN”T EFFING CARE ANYMORE … before you called it quits. For anyone doing the math … the man didn’t get regular sex for 5-7 YEARS before the marriage ended. Yep. Men are saints. Women are whores. And when women are guaranteed a paycheck. They don’t need to be a a whore … because a whore puts out. Women, today, are WORSE than whores. They TAKE and they never GIVE back. Because they can. And if men don’t like it … there is a jail cell waiting for them. That’s how it really works. A man expecting his wife to have sex with him ???? Thats RAPE !!!!!!!!!!
Sorry for the downer … reality butting in again. Don’t like reality ??? How about you do something to change it ? Women … you got the vote … so vote for someone who is going to restore balance to the legal system. I got a suggestion. Its just a start. If you study history … for the last 12,000 years or so … men have owned the children they sire. A wife takes her husband’s name. The children take the father’s name. That’s how it worked for 12,000 years give or take a few dozen centuries. Since the onset of man-hate (the last 40 yrs) … women have stolen a man’s children. That’s right … women … steal … the father’s children … all under the gaze and approval of the courts. Ordered by the court. Sanctioned by law. Mother and father get together. Have a child. Mother refuses to have sex anymore. Marriage turns to shit. Mother steals child, divorce rapes father, and threatens his with prison unless he gives up his own children. But even worse … AFTER the child is stolen from his father … unless the father PAYS for a child he doesn’t even have and cannot even parent … HE GOES TO JAIL.
What kind of fucked up society is that ??? And why would any man put up with that shit ? Any wonder why the MGTOW movement was started ?
Fair question Mega, and a very personal one. But, what the heck. I am game. As I have shared before, in my marriage my ex was the one with the low libido. That’s why I get how guys in that situation feel. It’s not fair to ask someone to be exclusive, and then expect them to be celibate! Married people should be shagging like crazy, that’s the whole point! For years I internalized that there was something “wrong” with me. In reality, my ex had been sexually abused as a child by a step brother (“regularly and for years” he never said how or details) and had never processed it, so he had a Madonna/whore complex of sorts. He expected me to be “above that base stuff” and I don’t know if he whored elsewhere, but what guy in his 20s willingly goes w/o sex for months on end? So assume what you will but I was there and it sucked for us both, and I wish male sexual abuse was not so taboo that he felt he could not even look at it, bc I think that caused a lot of problems for us both. Since you asked… I don’t blame him, I wish we/I had understood all this better then so maybe we could have worked thru it. All water under the bridge now, btw…
Just checking back in again, to report how things have gone. And they have gone according to plan. GF came over, stayed the night, and then went on vacation as planed. And damn, morning sex with her is great !!! Never seen anything like it; and ain’t complaining … lol. She’ll be back 1 wk from today.
As for RPG’s confession. Glad to hear her say that stuff because getting it out in the open is part of the healing. Hope it helps. Kinda why I disclose my stuff, treat this as a journal of sorts. But RPG, that’s some nasty stuff. First thought is why did you marry a guy with issues like that, how did you not know ? But then I think of some of the women I’ve been with and the issue’s they’ve withheld from me … so … men and women are not so different. So you probably got into it with no idea what was being held back. And, yeah, that situation after you figured it out … really, really sucks. So I empathize with your situation. Not fun. Frustrating as hell. And you go thru hell … hoping you get out and that somehow things work out differently with someone else.
Imagine going thru all that … and then finding the divorce court is 100% biased against you … and the screwed up in the head spouse … who lied to you … who deceived you … who cheated on you … GETS THE SUPPORT OF THE COURT AND YOU GET SCREWED. Yep .. you owe child support and YOU owe alimony and if YOU refuse to pay or lose your job … YOU GO TO PRISON !!!
So yeah … RPG … your situation sucks … so you turned into a blogger … most men in your situation end up in prison. Wanna change places ?
New GF is a keeper. We texted last night … she was going to meet some people for drinks and I told her to go and have fun. Then later last night, after she got back … she sent me a link to a youtube video … see below. I haven’t responded … was going to accuse her of being a Tranny, lol. She pointed out to me that there is a section at the end which talks about Women and their Guide To Men … a lot more straight forward than men’s …