Hi guys,
My sincere apologies for not writing more regular posts, lots of very good and very exciting things are happening in my “offline life” that are preventing me from being able to focus much on this. For now… don’t worry, it is short term!
So in the meantime, how about a post where YOU, the reader, tell me what you think in the comments about the following:
http://www.todayupfeed.com/high-school-teacher-arrested-allegedly-ex-three-football-players/
It seems lately there are more stories about FEMALE teachers taking advantage of underage students, than male. Why do YOU think they do this? What is the motivation? What is this really “about?” Are female on male student-teacher relationships different somehow than male on female based ones? Discuss…
I will in the meantime, mow, since the sun is out today and the grass is growing, growing, growing! 😀
Notes From a Red Pill Girl 
These stories have been hitting this little corner of the internet at an increasing pace. While any man knows he would be crucified for doing this, these women expect no penalty. In both events, it is sex with someone underage, with usually the adult being in a position of authority. In this case the woman is good looking enough to find someone her own age without difficulty. As these cases go, the heavier punishments seem to fall on the least good looking while the better ones get more leniency.
Speaking of leniency, she is out on ten thousand dollars bail and a spokesperson has denied there is a gender preference.
Red pill wisdom does not account for this behavior. She can’t be finding high school football players as having higher sexual market value. It may be that she enjoys a position of power by manipulating them through their lust.
This is the wrong way to introduce boys to sex. This isn’t about sex so much as the woman exerting power. However, as long as older men make this situation something to joke about, it is going to keep happening, especially with “slap on the wrist” punishments.
“Why do YOU think they do this?”
Because they can.
” What is the motivation?”
desperation because for whatever reason they’re striking out with men their age or older than them.
” What is this really “about?”
her lack of legitimate options and falling for low hanging fruit. pun intended.
“Is female on male student-teacher relationships different somehow than male on female based ones?”
Hmmm yeah, because vagina. You’re welcome. 😉
GLA,
All this woman would have to do is sign up on OkCupid with a picture and she would have more than she could handle.
I think it’s a power move on the woman’s part, and like Fuzzie said, authority. Plus I think women are more easily caught up in the excitement that is having a scandalous relationship such as this. I wouldn’t be surprised if she’s a bored wife looking for some sense of thrill and danger.
@ Fuzzie; attention online does not always correlate with equal amounts of said attention in meat space. She may have thousands of orbiters online, but she like many others is frustrated she isn’t getting the same volume in meat space. That is just the way that is.
A new post at Spawny’s there is
https://spawnyspace.wordpress.com/2017/03/17/unbalanced/
“I will in the meantime, mow since the sun is out today and the grass is growing, growing, growing!”
I was hoping the recent cold snap would kill it off a bit. I’m not ready to break out the mower yet because I have to change the oil before I use it again.
“wouldn’t be surprised if she’s a bored wife looking for some sense of thrill and danger.”
Neither would I.
#womencheatmore #hoesaintloyal #infidelityisfunwhenyoudon’tgetcaught 😉
GLA,
And who’s fault would that be? Who else would not want to convert online attention into a real world meeting? I don’t fell sorry for her in the least. Maybe, being married might put the brakes to meeting in person. I have to wonder how many women’s profiles are actually married women. They are not going to be found out by guys they date because they don’t date.
I don’t feel sorry for her either. I would say a majority of the profiles out there are women in a LTR or married.
Don’t have exact stats on hand, but my best guess is at least 70%.
Relevant to discussion:
https://v5k2c2.wordpress.com/2017/03/05/semper-fidelis/
She Lives!!!! soundtrack to this post:
😉
GLA,
At least that one is upfront about being married. What gets me are all the women who howl about married men on dating sites. At least they are found out because the meet up.
These predators seem to often take jobs where it’s easy to victimize someone, so teachers / coaches / religious leaders / authority figures for young people seem at first glance to be the most common professions for these people.
My wife’s non-biological cousin (my wife’s mother remarried) was arrested for this very same thing and now she’s in prison. She was found guilty of having sex multiple times with a teenage boy. We don’t know, but speculate, that she personally had a history of sexual abuse by the same person who abused my wife when she was a child. I’d only met her in passing at their family events maybe 5-6 times. It certainly shocked everyone but it was always clear that something didn’t click right in her head. I was told that she had serious self-esteem issues and she and her mother would berate her sister (who was more like her divorced dad). I can’t recall that in several years of holiday parties that she ever attended with a man. She was nearly the same age as my wife.
If I had to make an assumption: Plain and simple, people get messed up when they are left in the hands of other messed up people. It’s cyclical and these people never break it. It likely has nothing to do with red pill vs blue pill outside of the way that western society has assumed that only men are only capable of such crimes. I think that a lot of statistics are skewed because there are a lot of abusive women who are not arrested / convicted of their crimes for a variety of reasons. Notably, western society has traditionally considered it a “badge of honor” for a teenage boy to have sex with an adult woman yet in the opposite case a teenage girl is a victim. Same sex cases are probably more common than people think, and there have been female teachers that have been arrested for abusing other girls.
I don’t believe that mentally well people are capable of treating others this way, but these sorts of things are brushed under the rug by families that are too ashamed, or can’t seem to cope with the tragedy, so it just gets ignored and lingers and destroys a person over many years. These families don’t recognize that they are doing far more harm to these victims in the long run. So, I personally think, that either this teacher in the news was personally a victim that now victimizes others, or she just has such seriously deep issues with herself that she feels no remorse for victimizing others.
Either way, it’s sad, and it’s become way too common. People with a history of abuse are often unable to function normally in relationships and end up abusing others in some way or another. I know that my wife never was able to function in a way that I feel is “normal”, and I’m certain that her history of being abused is a major contributing factor to why our marriage is ultimately ending in divorce. I would say that my wife has demonstrated all of the major symptoms of borderline personality disorder yet she’s never been diagnosed. Never been properly treated for the abuse that she received for years. Again… I don’t know if her sex offender cousin was also victimized as a child. My wife just believes that there is just a strong likelihood that she was, but her family brushes it all under the rug to avoid hurting those who were close to the (now deceased) abuser. It makes me sick and sometimes I feel like I should be the one to let them all know what he’s done to everyone. I remember, vividly, that rainy day where my wife and I went to his funeral. She did it for her family but I could tell that it was hurting her inside. That guy was a monster, and so are these teachers.
Wow, a dad, thank you for sharing all of that. Very insightful, for sure. I am sorry to hear about your divorce. Hugs to you! If she has BPD, unfortunatly it is very difficult to overcome, as most times personality disordered folks have little self awareness or deflect all responsibility. Many here share your experience, ans have lived to tell the tale. But it’s not fun, for sure. Hugs! Please keep commenting!
I didn’t think this was possible. Shaking my head.
http://vancouversun.com/news/local-news/former-b-c-teacher-who-made-headlines-over-student-affair-back-working-in-education-in-same-community
@Fuzzie, sadly I have been told that in the US, the teachers unions are so strong that even when these things occur, rather than fire the person, they union sees they simply get shifted about. Male or female. I am not anti-union, but imho that is too far!
RPG,
i have no trouble believing you. I have to wonder what else the teachers’ union is covering up?
Fuzzie – The thing that I find perplexing is all of the people that protect her in that comments section. Some of the (mostly) ladies in the comments seem to be defending her based upon the technicality that A) The guy was almost old enough and consented to it. B) They stuck together afterward and had a family together (which apparently makes it okay). C) She’s had child(ren) with him and needs to work and apparently he became a loser who, among other things, has also been convicted of assault and cocaine trafficking, so she’s “paid her dues”. One woman says she knows her personally and the community apparently supports her. There are accusations in comments / articles that she also slept with at least one other student. So why are people defending her?
http://www.coastreporter.net/opinion/editorial/oprah-is-on-the-mind-1.1181266
http://www.equalparenting-bc.ca/news/ingram-heather.htm
I don’t really get the double standard. I get that she needs to survive and pay her bills but I don’t think that we should offer ANYONE a free pass on this. I don’t understand how these people can say things like: “She’s hardly a sex offender”. She is, under the law. There is no “hardly” about it.
RPG so glad things are coming together for you in your personal life.
As to this woman I am laying the blame on feminism. They are telling women that women are empowered and can have whatever they desire. And if that desire should be an underage boy, oh well, just go for it, she deserves to have her desires met (not just needs but desires too).
This woman is in a position of power, at least, over the children at school. It does not matter if the woman was abused as a child and is continuing the abuse cycle or if she is just of this mind set or is unable to get a man to have a relationship with. She is aware that she has the power her position gives her. And it is that awareness that makes her guilty.
Having sex with an underage child is against the law and the law does not differentiate between underage girls or boys. So she should face the same penalties that a man would face if things were reversed.
In cases like this society should be making an example of her by treating the same as they would a man. This would help take a little wind out of the sails of the feminist ship. They want equality this is a good place to start doing so.
Equality for the good things, equality for the bad things.
I would agree Linny, the consequences should be gender-blind.
And thanks, lots of good stuff happening but it’s a bit like drinking from a fire hose! Lol. When it rains it pours?
I don’t have to worry about mowing my grass, it is still covered in snow. It probably won’t start growing for another two months. Sigh.
A Dad,
It is a herd reaction to a threat. What women collectively want is maximum choice, maximum authority, and no responsibility. Add to that, there are plenty of men who will support them in this. Telling s female teacher that she can’t have sex with her students places a restriction on her choice, her authority, and ,makes her responsible.
Thinking this one through gives men one more reason to go their own way.
It’s a blessing and a curse. I actually love spring, it is my favorite season. But where I live we get rain rather than snow, so it’s critical to get things mowed when a dry day does occur! The rain is back today and will continue for at least three days…
And since you mow on a four day cycle, you will have to do it again. I have to admit that I don’t look forward to it. The weather is finally warm enough to leave the windows open, and then, all my neighbors have to mow their lawns in turn.
I should qualify my comment to A Dad with NAWALT, Not All Women Are Like That. However, the pull of Team Woman is very strong. Sometimes, not even the pull of Team Her Man is strong enough to counter it.
Mary Frances Fletcher is not the boys’ teacher (from 10 seconds of Google search}
Whoever sent you that TUF link set you up.
Saracen III
Does the actual name of the perpetrator really matter to the discussion? In fact the whole article could be fiction and still be relative to the discussion. It is the concept being discussed not necessarily the facts.
Now if someone deliberately sent RPG a link to a false story that is something else all together.
I actually noticed that too, the headline is misleading, she’s not a teacher, but we could link to oodles who are… like Linny says, the names don’t matter so much as the idea, the discussion… but point taken!
p.s. I found it on the Internet! 😉 Lol.
Out of a thousand real stories, a a false one got linked? That is hard to do. Anyway, we are talking about the principle here.And, sometimes, we are talking about the principal.
A couple of years ago, these stories were popping up in the news about once a week.Mow, it seems like we see a few every week. It’s getting worse. When I was a kid, this was unheard of, or, at least, the stuff of fantasy. Boys haven’t changed since then, but women sure have.
Robert Stacy McCain keeps track of a subset of this, female teacher on girl. It’s pretty blatant too and only taken a tiny bit more seriously.
Still statutory rape and conflict of interest. Maybe the difference is the boys can’t get pregnant?
Any who I still think it’s criminal and an abuse of authority on the teachers part.
According to Ash and here is her quote: “I think it’s a power move on the woman’s part, and like Fuzzie said, authority. Plus I think women are more easily caught up in the excitement that is having a scandalous relationship such as this. I wouldn’t be surprised if she’s a bored wife looking for some sense of thrill and danger.”
So according to Ash … if she’s a bored wife … its ok to RAPE CHILDREN. Since Feminists like her believe in EQUALITY I’ll use a PUA technique … agree and amplify … just to demonstrate how fucked up in head she is. Seriously can’t believe people let her get away with that comment. Here goes …
Ash, I agree … and think that applies to men too. They should get a free pass sometimes, just like women do. In fact, its OK for MEN TO RAPE LITTLE GIRLS … if they are unhappy at home because their wifey has gotten so FAT … that he doesn’t get sex at home anymore. Can’t blame a man for not wanting to fuck a FATTY and since he’s not getting it at home and there’s a sexy 13 yr old virgin around … not his fault, obviously.
Obviously, I don’t believe that … just making a point. That teacher should be in prison for the rest of her life and if she ever does get out … put on the Sex Offenders List.
Don’t know if others follow JudgyBitch a female anti-feminist … but she’s been arguing for a Constitutional Amendment to withdraw the right for women to Vote … because they cannot do so responsibly. Comments like Ash makes me wonder if she’s right. Ash seriously thinks its OK for a Female teacher to rape a under age Male student … because she’s bored at home and looking for a thrill. And she gets to vote ???
I think Ash was talking about the woman’s motivation. I don’t see it as Ash agreeing with what the woman did.
Mega,
i don’t think that Ash is in favor of this behavior. While she is good looking enough to run through one boyfriend a week and never run out, which would give her an abundance mentality equal to Frank Sinatra, she is not about to condone this. I think she tried to explain how this could come to be in response to my observation that red pill knowledge does not account for this.
As for punishment, women who pull this should be getting a lot more than the slap on the wrist they are getting now.As it stands, are young men safe around female teachers? The answer to that is an emphatic no. There is little to prevent these women from really messing with kids heads.
A new post at Spawny’s there would be
https://spawnyspace.wordpress.com/2017/03/21/inversion/
If I was 12 years old I would happily let her rape me.