There is a difference between sexism and biology. And before throwing down the “sexist” claim, it’s important to understand the difference.
Sexism is basically telling people (historically women) that they cannot do X, Y, or Z because of their sex. These things were possible, but due to social constraints were not “acceptable” and so they were forbidden. That’s sexism.
However, there are certain things in life that may appear sexist at first blush, but are actually biological constraints. These are not sexist, although they may be sex-specific.
Men cannot, for example, have babies. That is not sexist, that’s biology.
Or to make examining such things less heated, it’s often helpful to extrapolate from the animal world, from nature in general, to understand the difference between sexism and biology.
Besides the seahorse and Emperor penguin and a few other token examples, for the most part, by and large, it is the female of the species who does the bulk of the work rearing the young. Now one could fight it is not “fair” till the cows come home, but it simply is what it is.
Without mothering, most offspring simply do not survive or if they do they are confused and unprepared for what lies ahead. Sure there are examples of animals who need no mothering or fathering (sea turtles, for example), but again if that’s the way they are biologically designed that is a far cry from it being a “choice.”
In the animal kingdom, none fight this. They simply go about life doing their biological role and everything works out great.
We humans, despite being the “most intelligent” species on the planet, seem to be the only ones who want to ignore biology and define it for ourselves.
It’s at most a fool’s errand. But people still do.
Let those who have ears hear!
Can you name some examples of this either in your life or that you have seen in the lives of others? Please share in the comments!