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Hi everyone, sorry it has been so long! Been very busy with real life stuff (all good!) as of late.
For those who saw the last post in the series on Vixen, I wanted to offer an update. I shared some of the things said by commentators about her situation, including how people said if the Alpha was going to commit or truly be there for her, he would already be. Plus some other nuggets of red pill wisdom shared. She pondered that long and hard, and wanted me to pass along thanks for the thoughtful advice.
(Please note I use these terms just for the shorthand. I don’t believe the Alpha to truly be an Alpha, more of a faux Alpha. And I actually think very highly of the beta, not his choices as far as them, but he is a good solid man who frankly deserves to be treasured, not used. So take the terms with a grain of salt….)
A few weeks later, she got abrupt notice from the owner of the house she rents that it would be put up for sale and she had 30 days to figure something else out. Her beta friend advised her to talk to the Alpha, see what he would do.
Well, as many of you predicted, he apparently flipped out at the idea of actually having to prove up on his talk that he wants to take care of her and the kids, get a place, make a life. That was always, “someday” but when he heard she had to move, his response was to escalate it into a fight, accusing her of making it up, and telling her, “That’s it, I am DONE.” (Of course this is her version of events, so what actually transpired we don’t really know, but whatever happened an offer to help finance her moving into a new place or more commitment was not forthcoming.)
So the beta offers that they can move in with him. And she accepted. I am not so sure this is a good idea, at all, but it appears to be the plan. He rents a small guest house on his brother’s place, so it will be tight quarters with three kids plus them.
And I can’t help but feel that she’s not being true to her self or him by accepting his offer versus looking into a place of her own. I gently floated that as “option c” but didn’t push the issue because people are going to do what they are going to do, I have learned.
The Alpha’s reaction to her moment of need was a red pill bitterly forced down. I think she’s always secretly believed that if push came to shove, he would be there. Well, as she found, not.
We talked about that, and what it means, and a bit about recognizing guys who are all flash but no substance, and how getting involved with guys like that is just a disastrous decision for a gal.
So the saga continues… I am not really hopeful about this turn of events but perhaps the harsh reality of the whole thing will somehow lead to an awakening on her part? I am not holding my breath, but stranger things have happened.
Please share your thoughts in the comments.
Notes From a Red Pill Girl 
There is a new post at Spawny’s
https://spawnyspace.wordpress.com/2017/04/17/young-sheilas-how-outgoing/
True to her self?
What kind of hippie bullshit is true to yourself?
Isn’t that what you wanted is for her to end up with Beta bux guy? That is what happened, isn’t it? So why is it a turn for the worst? I mean if Mr. Thirsty Simp Mangina is totally cool with it, what is the big deal now? She is gonna milk him for all he is worth and probably monkey branch on to another guy the first chance she gets.
It just is what it is.
If i was the alpha here, her relationship with the beta would have ended my interest in her.
Her relationship with alpha cad was already over. This recent development just made it official.
As usual, you guys are spot on!!!
Lol, Ton I see your point, but that’s girl talk, trying to say gently, “wtf????”
All true, GLA. My regrets are less for her than him. I hope she gets the wall, her options, how bad stuff can suck w/o a good man, etc.
Sad!!!! I guess I don’t get it… why women fall for men like that 😦 I guess that’s one of the advantages of getting married young… you don’t end up feeling those crushing emotional roller coaster rides of being used by men that you care more about (than they care about you). 😦 Still so sad that she puts herself through that.
I know I’ve read somewhere in the manosphere that the ideal find for a woman is an “Alpha Provider.” Basically someone that is stable and ready to build a family with a “quality woman,” but also very alpha (the attraction is still there). Literally the best husband she can find that meets both needs of sexual attraction and stability/provision.
Once again, Vixen is the center of attention. She has burned down her bridges with “Alpha” and she does not deserve “Beta”. It’s my guess that she will move in with him, force a platonic relationship, and cause a scene there. Then, she will do her best to glom on to someone not in the picture. I have to wonder. She is a single mother with three kids. How many options does she get?
lol, Fuzzie … how many options does she get ??? INFINITE. There is no accountability for women anymore. Those days passed long ago. Truth is … she will destroy men until she is too old to do so anymore … reaches the WALL … continues to destroy her children until they are ruined … continues to live in denial … until eventually … LIVING A LIFE THAT IS ENTIRE CONSUMED BY LIES, SELFISHNESS, GREED … the gulf with reality will drive her insane. She will decide … she is absolutely innocent of everything and EVERYTHING THAT HAS EVER HAPPENED TO HER … IS A MAN’S FAULT. And, yes, it becomes a mental illness.
As for you analysis … spot on. Alpha … even faux Alpha was out of her league. She disrespected Alpha by leading on Beta and using him as a backup plan. IF SHE WAS COMMITTED TO HER ALPHA … THERE WOULD HAVE BEEN NO BETA IN THE PICTURE. And to make matters worse … she then tried to pin Alpha with commitment WHEN IT WAS SHE WHO WOULDN”T COMMIT. So Alpha walked … GOOD FOR HIM. She was bad news and would have ruined his life. He may be more Alpha than FAUX because at least he stood up to her.
Feel sorry for the poor beta schmuck … he’s about to have his life ruined. Before its done … he WILL BE BROKE and if things go bad … he’ll end up in jail. And, yes, it is entirely HER FAULT. But she will NEVER be held accountable and will never it it or admit ANYTHING. There is a reason why MGTOW exists … Mr Beta will probably be one after Vixen destroys his life.
Mega,
She has had more than enough chances. Women have to learn that they can’t burn through men like that. The reaction is already staring to hit young women.
RPG,
A word of warning. If Vixen does move in with him and she makes it “platonic”, “Beta” may need a place to stay at zero notice.
Ton is true to himself always, but doesn’t understand the term “true to yourself”? “True to yourself” = maintain your frame, or – live your own life according to your own understanding.
If women responded well to gentle betas would be more popular and 50 shades of grey less popular
Women “fall for guys like that” becuase they are ruled by their tingles and “guys like that” take them on the emotional roller coaster women desire
I have said it like a million times; a man has to provide manageable drama for a woman or she will create shit storms to get her fix.
I think Mr. Betabux is crazier than she is for even considering the idea to shack up with her and her children. I can’t feel sorry for him. I generally think the Captain Saveahoes of the world are worse than the hoes themselves. Bed of nails made, lie in it. The shit show must go on.
And this seems appropriate for the discussion:
Terrence Popp hits another one out of the park
“So the beta offers that they can move in with him. And she accepted. I am not so sure this is a good idea, at all, but it appears to be the plan. He rents a small guest house on his brother’s place, so it will be tight quarters with three kids plus them.”
::Eyeroll
You’ve GOT to be kidding. I guess P.T. Barnum was right.
She’s 41 years old with 3 kids and a behavioral history that demonstrates she is an idiot, ruled by her emotions, an unfaithful woman. She’s been chasing her alpha and giving him sex while the beta is chasing her and she’s giving him sex too.
Both men know what is happening and both men should understand that she is an unfaithful woman. A woman who cannot restrain herself. It isn’t that it “just happened” occasionally, her unfaithfulness (unwillingness or lack of ability to be faithful) is part of who she is. The question is whether they recognize the truth of what is standing in front of them. Or lying underneath them…
Alpha might have been serious at one point but her continued recalcitrance pounded home the fact that she is an unfaithful woman. With that in mind, why should he stop banging her if it was enjoyable and she was willing? From his point of view, it isn’t difficult to see that an unfaithful woman doesn’t deserve fidelity from him. And that assumes he’s capable of fidelity, but it doesn’t matter. She doesn’t deserve it.
Your Vixen has been living in a fool’s paradise. Everything was fine until it wasn’t. She could continue to act like she was in high school and enjoy the drama of playing both sides against the middle. And she got lots of attention. So, rather than make a decision when she was operating from a position of strength, she continued enjoying her fool’s paradise. Until suddenly things changed. Because that’s what happens when you live in a fool’s paradise.
Just to recap, she did not demonstrate the willingness to commit to a course of action until she was forced to. Because she’s an unfaithful woman. So, why would alpha see this as anything more than her being forced into a course of action that she didn’t choose? She didn’t choose it, this was circumstances and she’s an unfaithful woman, so nothing has changed for her. He comes across as the only one with some common sense because he refused to commit.
You might think the fact that beta told her to go talk to alpha about it means he understands the dynamic of this triangle. Maybe, but far more likely he’s got this idea that she’s confused and all she really needs is to have her eyes opened… that alpha is a bad boy who is taking advantage of her. Because a woman would never take advantage of men…
He can’t see that it’s actually her who is taking advantage of her looks and willingness to spread her legs to keep them dancing to her tune. Because that’s what an unfaithful woman does. She doesn’t need her eyes opened, this is her character. She is an unfaithful woman.
Now that alpha predictably refused to “man up” after she proved to him that she didn’t deserve it, beta will finally get his chance to to be her ‘one and only.’ Even though he won’t be. Which makes him an absolute idiot. He has deluded himself into thinking that being forced into this by circumstances will cause her to have a change of heart and she’ll be able to see that he’s really a great guy and she should be with him.
He refuses to recognize the fact that she’s an unfaithful woman who is ruled by her tingles. She won’t admit that he doesn’t do it for her (not to him, anyway), so he doesn’t understand that being a nice guy isn’t enough. And he refuses to see that this woman’s behavior is a reflection of her character as an unfaithful woman.
She is destined to wreck beta’s life and he’s apparently going to willingly allow it. Which means that despite all the things you’ve said about how nice he is and what a great guy he is, the man is an idiot. This will blow up in a couple of years when she can’t take it any longer and starts screwing around with some other alpha. There will be lots of messy drama and eventually she’ll be back to this point again. By then she’ll be in her mid-40’s and her kids will be older and not so cute.
Pity the children. None of the others deserve even your pity.
Beta aka captain saveavixen just got demoted to corporal.
She gets rent free and saved from the consequences.
First guy who turns her crank she will be screwing
Beta “but we live together, your mine!”
Vixen ” ohh you’re sweet but we just share accomodations. Plus he is Sooo Hot!”
Put money on it.
3-4 months tops.
Next her.
She can not be forgiven but she didn’t do anything ANY woman would do.
It is unforgivable but not unforseeable.
Beta boy doesnt need to be treasured
….He needs a smack upside the head.
Guys like that do not deserve sympathy, pity etc.
They are the cannon fodder of the gender wars.
This behaviour is what encourages her behaviour.
At 35+ 3 kids realistically she should be undateable.
But the thirsty betas like shmoo here keep her in play.
And reinforce the cycle.
He deserves every bit of what we all see coming.
I just hope that a place can be found to house Vixen and the kids before Beta has to give up his spot.
Dang, Toad … you said what I said much more elegantly and profoundly. Reminds me of another who used to inhabit these parts. Where is Buena Vista when you need him ? What ever happened to BV anyway ? Anybody know ? Hopefully he’s not in jail somewhere … wouldn’t put that lying cunt of his ex-wife past it and how she used his own son to manipulate and extort him.
And George … thanks for the Redonkulas link … quite enjoyable !!!
Mega,
BV left a couple of comments over at Spawny’s the other day.
“3-4 months tops” MH, I’ll take some of that action.
Factor in getting Beta to bond with the kids. 6 months.
Saracen & Horseman
I’m thinking at least a year. Things will be uncomfortable in the small house so they’ll get another place because he doesn’t want to let her go. That will be plenty of drama and she’ll have a say in how that works. She seems to have been screening for income with both of these guys so it might take a while to find another suitable branch to swing to. All this takes time. And every day she gets a little older.
Meanwhile life goes on and there’s inertia to consider. Her choice after this will be to either find independent housing so she’ll be free to see whoever she wants, which would probably kill things with beta, or she’ll try to stay with beta for as long as she can milk that and keep any excitement on the side, quietly. I’m guessing that she’ll try to have her cake and eat it too, which means staying with beta while getting an occasional dose of the tingles on the side.
It won’t work and eventually the chickens will come home to roost. By that time beta will have bonded at least somewhat with the kids and it will hurt all that much more when she pulls the plug. I doubt that he will.
It would be amusing if it weren’t so sad. I looked at the dates and this has been going on for years. It makes me wonder what would have happened if RPG had given beta a copy of “Married Man Sex Life” and explained that it contained the secret of why alpha gave vixen the tingles but he didn’t. The problem is if someone handed him the book now, he wouldn’t read it because he thinks he’s won. Might be a good consolation prize after it blows up on him.
Toad.
Agreed. He is at the peak of his life. The girl. The kids. The white picket fence.
Enjoy it while it lasts.
I have a hard time believing that the ‘alpha’ was really an alpha if he was entertaining a woman in her late 30s + kids…
The only ones to get my pity are the children.
She will make the beta dude miserable. My hope is that his eyes open soon and he takes the red pill and quits white knighting like Capt. Save A Ho. She needs to stand on her own two feet and take responsibility for her own poor choices before she further wrecks her kid’s lives. She’s a one woman wrecking ball.
I think that I have run out of things to say about Vixen. Still, she is getting more attention from men than she deserves. Men must be lonely and not getting much attention.
The thirst. They call it the thirst. Any woman who isn’t an obese pig. And willing to have sex with him. Its a powerful attraction. More so than any drug.
Mega,
i think hypergamy and the 80/20 rule has brought that out. Under assortive mating, people would pair up naturally with their SMV equivalent. Now, the top tier men have to be very busy taking care of all the women. I don’t think this is working out all that well for women. It certainly isn’t for men below whatever the cut off is. But, given enough time, I think the thirsty men will stop putting in the effort.
A new post at Spawny’s there is
https://spawnyspace.wordpress.com/2017/04/19/hormones-matter/
Fuzzie, I’ve given this lots of thought and here is what I’ve come up with.
THE PILL
Free, guilt free, abortion.
Feminism.
Child support.
Alimony.
Palimony.
Divorce rape.
GUILT FREE DIVORCE RAPE.
Porn.
Free, accessible, PORN for men.
OBESITY EPIDEMIC
Based on the above … there is only one thing that is going to solve it. SEX ROBOTS. And to be sure … the mainstream will want to make that illegal … because if given the choice between a women of today and a sex robot … 90% of men would choose the robot. Birth rate plummets to near zero. WOMEN GET WHAT THEY DESERVE FOR TREATING MEN LIKE SHIT FOR THE LAST 30 YEARS.
Mega,
You left something out and it is a biggie. Jobs. Men became optional as long as women can keep their heads above water. It allows them to hold out for the bigger, better deal.
About sexbots, we’ll have to wait and see. Introducing them is going to be a shock to the sexual marketplace. In the long run, it may be a wash as they design sexbots to serve women.
There is something else. At some time we will see effective male contraception. That will be bigger than we imagine. It will put a stop to “oopsie” pregnancies. Women will have to negotiate with men to fulfill their biological imperative.
“The only ones to get my pity are the children.”
You’re right, somehow I must’ve read too fast and didn’t think about there being her kids involved. That’s disgusting that she’d put her children through all that drama.
Bloom, this is nothing against you, I’m sure you’re doing things right considering especially you have red pill knowledge and know what you’re actually looking for. But it just doesn’t seem to be in a woman’s best interest to date or get into another relationship when her kids are still young (under 18). There is waay too much drama involved in dating/serious relationships, and the woman HAS to put her kids first – that means they have to come before any “new guy” she allows in their life, at least until she marries someone else, but even that is so risky 😦
I’ve seen families that made it work out somehow, but it has to be an exceptional man that will be able to see that the kids are getting what they need from their mom still – and she has to vet him like crazy for a long time period before they even really meet him. Just not a “natural” situation like dating would be for people without kids.
Most women seem to do it like this woman is – which is devastating for the kids and the men getting involved like that (bonding and then leaving) is teaching them a very negative and traumatic view of men AND women because the mom is setting a bad example as well (that men will use you for sex and you can use them for resources and it will all work out if you let yourself be used sexually).
Good points Fuzzie … and there is another huge one … the Obesity Epidemic … but frankly I think that is a cause … not a symptom. When women no longer need men, they don’t bother to take care of themselves -> OBESE. And when men are locked out the sexual market … why should they take of themselves either … so it works both ways.
Mega…
“Free, accessible, PORN for men.
OBESITY EPIDEMIC”
Just wondering… do you have any idea WHY the obesity epidemic came about? Is there a reason you put it after porn?
I don’t understand the obesity problems we’re seeing in the Westernized countries – it is just SO not in a woman’s best interest at all to do that to herself. I happen to live in one of the fattest cities in America… and so most of the women I see everyday are overweight and I just do not get it. It’s sad too that they seem to want to lose weight (sometimes… probably hormonal swings of emotion) and yet they are extremely caught up in defending their weight posting things on their facebook/instagrams justifying that women can be beautiful at any size, etc.
It’s like a form of a mental illness…. 😦
Oh wow, just saw your response to Fuzzie! Must’ve sent the comment after yours!
Stephanie,
In the old days, I think widows married widowers and had blended families. that was when both parents were needed. In the present, with divorced single moms, we have to remember that seventy percent of divorce is initiated by women. Very few are about to accept celibacy for the benefit of their children until the nest is empty, no matter how much sense it makes. I think they are looking to upgrade, which is a stupid, short sighted idea.
Mega,
I didn’t mention obesity because you already covered it. What I see happening is that so many are letting themselves go, it is effecting the “curve” of the sexual marketplace. they are collectively thinking that they can force men to accept this as new conditions in the marketplace.
Stephanie,
I have to wonder how they deal with the heat? Never go outside?
Fuzzie you’re right about the past! You’re right that both parents were very needed. I remember reading things from 1800 time period where a lady who knew she was dying actually **arranged** her husband’s next marriage to a suitable woman she knew would be good with the kids and to him and take over her life role!!!
Talk about unselfish! I can’t imagine very many women doing something like that now for their husband’s benefit. But it is NORMAL for women to die so often in child birth and things that you’re right, widows and widowers frequently found each other and married because it was easier to live life that way.
yikes!!
*was* normal for women to die so often…. not “is” normal (typos :/)
Stephanie,
It was tough back then. Lots of disease, not to mention sabre toothed tigers. I like your story about the dying wife.
Obesity science: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ceFyF9px20Y
I’m fair certian the obesity deal isn’t from sugar or any such thing but how inactive people are vs the calories consumed. I used to eat upwards of 10k calories per day, none of it green or leafy, and stayed around 16% body fat ( my best performance range is 16%, maybe a little more)
These days I am 100% medically retired, unable to work etc etc and still walked 6 miles today according to my cellphone. I doubt most folks walk 6 miles in a week
I’ve been reading Dennis Preager’s book “Happiness is a Serious Problem.” There a number of aspects of it that apply to Vixen, The Red Pill and to the current state of male female relations. Here’s one, chosen mosty because I just read it:
“… there is a ‘secret to happiness’– and it is gratitude. All happy people are grateful, and ungrateful people cannot be happy. We tend to think that it is being unhappy that leads people to complain, but it is truer to say that it is complaining that leads people to becoming unhappy. Become grateful and you will become a much happier person.
Because gratitude is the key to happiness, anything that undermines gratitude must undermine happiness. And nothing undermines gratitude as much as expectations. There is an inverse relationship between expectations and gratitude: The more expectations you have, the less gratitude you will have. If you get what you expect, you will not be grateful for getting it.
… Most of us are grateful for anything we have only after we are threatened with losing it–because then we no longer expect to have it.
Gratitude, the most important component of happiness, is largely dependent upon receiving what we do not expect to receive. That is why, for example, when we give children so much that they come to expect more and more, we actually deprive them of the ability to be happy– because they have less and less gratitude.”
That last paragraph is mostly unnecessary but it focuses the issue. Possibly if you have not learned gratitude (through any number of life lessons) you are also still a child.
After you’ve been around for awhile you should be grateful just to see daylight each morning … but that attitude seems to be dwindling.
Stephanie … the Obesity issue is very complicated and inter-related with a lot of things. And Fuzzie basically hit it … Women don’t NEED MEN ANYMORE. If a woman actually needed a man … she’d do what was required to find one and even more … do what was required to KEEP HIM. And that meant taking care of herself … being presentable, staying reasonable fit. They don’t NEED MEN anymore … so they let themselves go and become overweight and as you mentioned … even society and other women tell them … being obese is OK AND MEN SHOULD FIND THEM ATTRACTIVE THAT WAY !!! Lol, attraction doesn’t work that way … which they eventually find out … as they gradually go insane.
It is complicated though. For example … many women say its too much work to stay fit, exercise, and eat right, etc. And they are right. Why ? Because they got married, had two kids, nuked the marriage, raped the father …. WHO NOW WANTS NOTHING TO DO WITH HER … and by association … his own kids … because it means dealing with her. So … now a single parent household … her choice. With STRESS from the opposing parent … her choice. And now that she’s raped the father … SHE IS ON HER OWN … so now she gets to work AND raise the kids … AND MAKE NO MISTAKE SHE DID FIGHT FOR PRIMARY CUSTODY … DON”T YOU KNOW. Her choice. So she nuked the marriage, stole the kids, alienated the father, and is now on her own. AND WHO’S FAULT IS THAT ???
So … given this … you’d think a woman who now that she has MORE THAN “equal rights” in the workforce would be over flowing with money. Wrong. Most of these single mothers work shitty dead end jobs, take as much time off as they can, work part time if they can or even if they shouldn’t. They are the least productive workers and only stay employed because the market is MORE THAN EQUAL … in their favor. And besides … women run HR and they’d never fire another women because she only worked 1/3 as hard as a man does … yet they get paid the same.
And … they have no idea how to manage a budget or make decent financial decisions … that is men’s work, lol. They work, spend foolishly, don’t save a DIME and are ALWAYS BROKE … working paycheck to paycheck, borrowing from anyone stupid enough to lend them money and harassing the father who doesn’t want to pay for kids he can’t see and has no influence on. AND HE HAS TO DEAL WITH A MAN HATING CUNT WHO HATES HIM AND WANTS HIM IN PRISON AND HAS STOLEN HIS CHILDREN AND WHO IS BRAINWASHING THEM TO HATE HIM. And in today’s society … all she has to do is utter ONE WORD and that is where he will end up: PRISON. Whether he did anything wrong or not. And the magic word is ABUSE. So, yeah, broke and getting BROKER-ER by the day trying to steal/extort as much money as possible from the man-she-once-proclaimed-to-love-and-the-father-of-her-children … AFTER SHE HAS DONE EVERYTHING POSSIBLE TO ALIENATE AND MAKE HIM HATE HER AND FEAR HER.
And of course there is the Diet thing too. Most single women EAT LIKE SHIT. And rarely exercise. One of the complaints that men have about women is … WOMEN DON”T KNOW HOW TO BE WOMEN ANYMORE. Like … just for example … learning how to plan and make a home cooked meal. Which are usually way more healthy than eating out … and much less expensive to make … and bonus point tips from a man who actually cooks … you can take leftovers in to work for a couple of days … as LUNCH !!! Win, win, win. But I’ve never met a single mom who cooks regularly. Most don’t cook at all. Eat out ALL THE TIME. And what they “cook” is junk food or shit heated in a microwave. ALL OF WHICH IS JUST RECEIPT FOR GETTING FAT.
So anyway … it is complicated. Lots of issues at play and for women … 100% of everything is a result of their own decisions.
For men, its a very different dynamic. For men … ITS JUST FUCKING GIVING UP. Everything is so stacked against them … such that there is a very, very small chance of them ever actually “Winning” in our society anymore. And even when they think they have won … it can be stolen from them every second of every day. You can never relax. Never let your guard down. Soon as you do … EVERYTHING YOU HAVE WORKED YOUR ENTIRE LIFE IS STOLEN FROM YOU. And … honestly … what human can work at peak of efficiency 24×7, every day, day after day, month after month, year after year, for decades … EVERY FUCKING DAY OF YOUR LIFE … UNTIL THE DAY YOU DIE. Soon as you let your guard down … one single day … and some lying cunt is going to cover a baseball bat with tar, light it on fire, shut it up your ass so far it will hit your brain-stem and then call the cops and say you molested the kids across the street and you’ll be arrested and forced to plead guilty for something you didn’t do … and you’ll be sentenced to 200 years in prison and forced to be on the sex offender registry for the next 8,000 years or until you die. One word from her and your life is over. Just happened to Bill O’Reilly today. And he’s a millionaire celebrity.
And what do men get for taking this risk ? The chance at having a NORMAL LIFE. Getting married, having kids, being a good parent, being happy. I have a 0% chance of living a normal life and being happy. And a 100% chance of being gang raped and dying in prison. WHO THE FUCK WOULD TAKE THOSE ODDS ????
So men just give-the-fuck-up. Why get a job … assuming anyone would even hire a man. Why get an education. Why work on a career. Why do ANYTHING !!! Mom’s got an empty basement !!! Taco bell is hiring !!! Mooch off of mom’s Netflix and porn is free and weed is legal !!! Video games rock !!! Pretty soon the dude weighs 300 lbs too !!! All the women his age are PIGS and now he is too. Why ??? BECAUSE IT JUST DOESN”T FUCKING MATTER ANYMORE !!!
So the issues for men are totally different. For women its self inflicted. For men its having a loaded gun at your temple … for so long … you know you’re gonna die a horrible death … it just doesn’t fucking matter anymore.
So … a note to Stephanie … I saw your msg about putting your kids first. ARE YOU FUCKING INSANE ??? Why would any women put her kids first ??? You are just as mentally ill as the women I describe here. And like all those other women YOU ARE SO CONVINCED YOU ARE RIGHT IT DOESN”T EVEN ENTER ON YOUR RADAR THAT PERHAPS YOU ARE WRONG. Ever consider that that ???? That you are WRONG ? How about this for a new concept …. your kids do not come first … YOUR MAN DOES !!!! Like how it has been for the last 10,000 years … except for the last 40 when Feminism took over and brainwashed women into delusional thinking and flushed men down the toilet. Ever think that ? Ever think … WHY AREN”T I THINKING LIKE 99% OF ALL WOMEN WHO HAVE EVER LIVED ??? THESE WOMEN ARE MY ANCESTORS … IF THEY WEREN”T SUCCESSFUL AND PASSED THEIR GENES ALONG … I WOULDN”T EVEN BE HERE !!! AND HOW DID THEY THINK ??? THEY PUT THEIR MAN FIRST !!! ALL THESE MENTALLY ILL WOMEN … ALL THESE FUCKED UP IN THE HEAD FEMINISTS … JESUS, WHO COULD BE SO FUCKING STUPID TO PUT THEIR KIDS BEFORE THEIR MAN …
Its funny … at J4G and other sites like this. Women show up and proclaim they are Redpill and enlightened and pro-man and pro-conservative, traditional, christian, etc. The name doesn’t matter … its all a lie. Women today are insane. They are all the same. They think their Vagina rules the universe, society owes them shit, and yea … a child’s father has no rights to his children … because after she throws her man away and steals his children … MY KIDS COME FIRST !!! GOD ANOINTED IT AND SEND IT DOWN INSCRIBED IN A STONE TABLET. The eleventh commanded was THE VAGINA MAKES THE RULES … MY KIDS COME FIRST !!!
I have said here many times that women today are mentally ill and Stephanie just proved my theory. What kind of women … destroys her man, steals his children, threatens his very life, alienates the father from his children’s lives, then declares MY KIDS COME FIRST and sets out to spoil, ruin, brainwash, and if they are boys … drug them into oblivion. Who does shit like that ??? Yeah, women are are MENTALLY ILL.
Guess I should end my rant. Hope it made sense. Long story short. Women get fat because of their own choices. Men get fat because their choices have been taken from them. Stephanie is insane like most of the women who show up at blogs like this. Even though 99% of all women who have ever lived have put their men first … she agrees with the Feminists who brainwashed her … THAT HER KIDS COME FIRST !!!
Yeah, I’m done now.
Good rant. On point. Please stop shouting.
Mega,
Stephanie is one of the good guys. She has got a husband that she is intensely loyal too and a couple of kids. She probably doesn’t know that “My kids come first” is the single mommy’s refrain. You went and made it personal. Please say you are sorry.
Aside from that, the rant is EPIC.
RPG,
There may be a post in this for you. Vox Day has already written one, but you can do better.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4426784/The-uncomfortable-truth-Tinder.html
Women complaining about online dating? Yes, they are, but they get a lot further along in the process than men.
Dalrock has written a post, but it is mostly excerpts.
https://dalrock.wordpress.com/2017/04/20/a-disappointing-return-to-the-strip-mining-pit/
Ton that’s because you were lifting and burning through so many calories right though? We try to track our macros and have them “set” to weight lifting and exercise amount per week… and that’s crazy about the strongest woman being 100 lbs over your weight at that time and not even being near as strong (but it makes sense)!
Mega, I do think the husband should come first in a normal marriage (and I’m sure many women make that choice in a second marriage if he’s vetted properly and isn’t dangerous for her kids). But considering the child abuse or child murder rates by step fathers and live-in boyfriends, those idiot women are *not* putting their kids first (and you make a good point about them being bad from the get-go by having kids with a man they didn’t stay with).
I’m thinking of women in that position where they have kids and are trying to date (like the blog hostess here, Bloom)… or if they were widowed and had to look out for their children’s best interest.
Alan, re Gratitude…there is a saying in one of the Hawaiian traditional religions: “A monster cannot survive in an atmosphere of gratitude.” The corollary to that would be that an atmosphere in which there is no gratitude is ideal for breeding monsters.
DF: “an atmosphere in which there is no gratitude is ideal for breeding monsters.”
Yep, I fear we may have created that. Both between men and women and between children and their parents/society. That may be some of the mystery behind the continued freak out we see on college campuses. Even when you don’t feel gratitude, it’s good to feel you EARNED the happiness you have in life, not through some nebulous “deserving” but through actual effort. Basically, there is no pussy pass to happiness because there is no one to award it but yourself.
Thank you … to all the good folks here … Fuzzie and of course Ms Bloom, the Red Pill Girl. But I think I’m going to retire from these parts. Take the BV way out … however, why ever … he exited. Glad that some enjoyed my epic rant, lol. And it was. Didn’t know that it was my FINAL rant … but guess that is a good one to go out on. And a final thanks Fuzzie your a champ !!!
Why to exit ? Many reasons … my life has been a twisted tale. Not sure how I ended up here but here I am. I’ve come to realize that society is way more fucked up that I ever believed … and that’s saying something. I really believe … what we are facing cannot continue much longer … seems to be spiraling out of control. Just when I think it can’t get worse … it does. I thought Trump was a huge shining ray of hope … but alas … remember the Who song … meet the new boss … same as the old boss. Yeah. Nothing really changed. The criminals … the Deep State are still in control. Who changes at the top really doesn’t matter. Getting the feeling that Trump isn’t going to make much of a difference. Yeah, kind of a bummer.
But on a far more personal note, I’ve spoken about my personal life many times … just spoke the truth … probably more raw than some wanted. And probably more than I should have said. Dabbled in things I probably shouldn’t. Had a GF, SB that I said too much about. It was all fun and games. And a lot of fun (sex). Anyway, I’ve been dating a new girl for awhile now and I think she’s the real deal. Not a Unicorn … but damn close. What everyone in the sphere says to use in vetting women … all ring true … she passes. We’ve been going out for awhile now (9 months) and we get along great. The sex is great but its more than that, which is what makes it cool. We really get along well.
So anyway … she’s got some shit going on her in her life right now where she needs me. And in a month or so I’m going to have some shit going on in mine … and I hope she will be there for me too. Yeah … it works both ways. That’s how it supposed to work. Marriage is a partnership. You give, you get. You take, you receive. Some days are up, some are down. In the long run … you hope for balance and an equal trade. That’s how it was supposed to work … before Feminism. So … anyway, I’m going to walk away … for awhile, maybe forever. Who knows … and that’s how life is. You hope for the best but how it actually turns out … who knows. I might be back but I doubt it. Hope everyone enjoyed my FINAL EPIC RANT, lol. Didn’t intend that … but like life, that ‘s how it turned out.
Take care !!! MEGA !!!
Mega,
My apologies if I gave offense. We’ll still be here if you choose to come back.
Yeah Stephanie. For large parts of my life I trained 3 times a day.
How that stacks up to say old school manual farming or hunting mammoths with sharp sticks calorie wise is anyone’s guess but most people think 1 hour in the gym will off set 23 hours on their ass.
I am no mathagician but that math don’t add up
I get the occasional boots of rage or self pitty from betas when they are new to the man o sphere but when it’s habitual said beta has issues way beyond the times we are living in
I reckon it’s like how the SJW’s get high off their own virtue singling and outrage overy nothing
“For large parts of my life I trained 3 times a day.”
At a vastly lesser level I’ve noticed that training more than once a day seems to offer benefits well beyond just the added exercise time. That observation is not the least bit scientific but, subjectively, it seemed to be clear in my case.
A new post at Spawny’s there would be
https://spawnyspace.wordpress.com/2017/04/23/naked-power/
For RPG, if she is not following events in France. It’s less than four minutes, well worth watching, and there are some haunting similarities to recent events.
A new post at Spawny’s there would be
https://spawnyspace.wordpress.com/2017/04/25/young-blokes-where-to-start/
A good overview of the French election.
I like Marine but I don´t like her anti EU speech.
RPG,
It has been a while since we heard from you. Are you all right? Come back and tell us that Vixen has found a place all to her own so that we don’t have to worry about Beta.
Sadly Fuzzie, the move in is nearly complete.
RPG,
Can Beta set up a cot in your barn if it all goes south? He may need to.
So checked in again and frankly glad I left. RPG is just like all women … a lying, deceitful, delusional, man-hating cunt. Says one thing … does exactly the opposite … AS LONG AS ITS TO A WOMAN”S ADVANTAGE. So with the Vixen situation … Vixen and kids will turn out fine as long as BETA IS WILLING TO BE RAPED EVERY DAY FOR HIS ENTIRE FUCKING LIFE and you know what … RPG doesn’t even care. If he ever wakes up and wants equality … RPG and every woman on the planet will call for him to be sent to prison … because of course … if a man can’t be a slave to a woman and support kids that aren’t even his … JUST FUCKING KILL HIM.
Glad I left this blog and for sure won’t make the mistake of ever coming back. RPG is like every other man hating cunt on the planet. VAGINAS COME FIRST … MEN DON”T MATTER.
We done ? Yeah, we are. More than done. RPG … you showed your true colors here. YOU DO NOT GIVE A FUCK ABOUT 1/2 OF THE HUMAN RACE AND IF THEY WERE ROUNDED UP, LIT ON FIRE, OR GASSED IN DEATH CAMPS … YOU”D ONLY THINK OF HOW THAT EFFECTED YOUR PUSSY, YOUR PUSSY”S ABILITY TO GET ALPHA MEN, AND HOW OTHER WOMEN COULD ATTRACT ALPHA MEN. MEN WHO DO NOT MEET THEIR CRITERIA OF ALPHA ….
RPG …. I’ve said this before and now leveling the charge at you. Directly at you and in your face. YOU ARE FUCKED UP IN THE HEAD … MENTALLY ILL. WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING ???? ARE YOU INSANE ??? Who the fuck creates a blog espousing equality and then take a lying, manipulative cunt like Vixen and help her DESTROY A MAN WHO WANTS NOTHING MORE THAN BE A GOOD MAN. Are you fucking insane ? Why are you here ? Lying to your audience ? Lying to men ? LIE … LIE … LIE … LIE. RPG… Ms Bloom … YOU ARE THE ENEMY. FUCK YOU AND ALL THE OTHER LYING CUNTS OUT TO DESTROY MEN.
And, yes, now I am done. Bloom if you have any self respect … THIS BLOG IS DONE. HOW CALL YOURSELF FAIR ? You can’t. You took sides. Like all women you took the VAGINA over HALF OF HUMANITY. Yep … you got a VAGINA … BILLIONS OF MEN ALL OVER THE PLANET SHOULD BE DESTROYED … BECAUSE THE PUSSY RULES !!!!
So please shut this site down. Your blog and RPG has ABSOLUTELY NO CREDIBILITY LEFT. Fuck you and the horse you rode in on. Another two faced lying cunt.
Yeah, Bloom. We done. We are all done. This post won’t last, of course. Cause you won’t want your audience to know the truth. Hope you read it at least and recognize the man hating cunt that you are … before you try to cover you tracks. If you had any integrity … you’d just delete this site and cover you tracks … and pray that not all men realize the CUNT THAT YOU ARE.
The pain is strong in this one.
Mega,
I guess you are done. I have no idea what brought that on. I have to agree with Saracen III, the pain is strong with you. The internet is a very strange place.
RPG,
Something noted by this blogger that I had never thought of.
http://bobagard.blogspot.com/2017/04/why-trumps-legislative-inbox-is-empty.html
Wow, guess who I feel sorry for now.
I am going to guess that it is not the Easter Bunny who brings candy to deprived children.
What was that? It’s the Easter Human.
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RPG,
I think we need a new post.
Mega, wow dude. What triggered that?
Fuzzie!!!
“She probably doesn’t know that “My kids come first” is the single mommy’s refrain. You went and made it personal. Please say you are sorry.”
LOL I didn’t even see this till today! Don’t worry Fuzzie I’m fine!!!
I’m sure Bloom is too. 🙂
Stephanie,
I wish that Mega hadn’t let it get personal. Stuff like that can be said. Just don’t point fingers and leave it general.
I hope that we see our blog mistress back soon.
Please don’t take what I had to say about Berkeley PD at Spawny’s personally.
It’s fine Fuzzie!! I know it’s not personal, and I believe our department is dramatically different from their police! It IS awful that they’re allowing that to happen to citizens… 😦
I feel better! I am think now about what brought down Al Capone. It wasn’t anyone on government. It was a consortium of local businessmen who had enough. They called themselves the “Secret Seven”.