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For decades, changing social norms have turned things on their head. So for fun, I thought I would create an interactive post where commenters can list the blue pill lies and/or red pill truths they have discovered. Please — add yours to the list!
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I’ll start. How about, “Gender is a social construct, not a biological state.” (While gender traits can be along a bell curve, humans are born either XX or XY. There are no other biological options, and acting, dressing, or even getting surgery to look the opposite does not change the XX or XY that’s there down to every single cell. The gender choice was decided when sperm met egg.)
Or, “Women are disadvantaged/victims/a minority.” (Maybe at one time, but today the legal, educational, employment, and other systems are heavily in the female favor more often than not. psst… that’s not “equality” now, is it?)
Blue pill dangerous it is
Red pill much better it would be
Green pill best it is
“Social construct” gender idea about as dumb as they come it is.
Watch little kids before any “social construct” take hold it might
Yoda,
Feminists need the “gender is a social construct” concept to explain a lot of their ideology. It may be worse than the Flat Earth Society.
Blue pill lie — Dads matter not
How much do fathers matter to the personal development of their daughters? Scientists studying families have long suspected that domestic instability and insufficient fathering predispose girls to risky sexual behavior, but there was no hard evidence for this view.
A study published in the journal Developmental Psychology in May used an ingenious research design to get some answers. Danielle DelPriore and Bruce Ellis of the University of Utah, working with Gabriel Schlomer of the State University of New York at Albany, teased apart the effects of fathers within families.
They studied 101 pairs of adult sisters from families that had either remained intact or had broken up by the time the younger sister turned 14. In each family the sisters were distant enough from each other in age—at least four years—that they would have had different experiences of their father, especially if he had separated from the family before the younger one reached maturity. . . .
The researchers used retrospective questionnaires to probe parenting and sexual experiences that the women—who were between 18 and 36 at the time of the study—recalled from high school. Sexual risk-taking included promiscuity, unprotected sex and sex while intoxicated. Older and younger sisters reported similar levels of mothering quality, whether their families were intact or disrupted.
But the most striking finding was in older sisters with a large age gap in the disrupted families. The father’s behavior, for better or worse, usually affected the older sister much more than her younger sibling.
If these older sisters communicated well with their fathers and felt close to them, they experienced much more parental monitoring and hung out far less with sexually risk-prone peers. But this kind of fathering had much less effect on the younger sisters, many of whom didn’t have enough contact with their father for him to make much of a difference.
These factors explained the older sisters’ behavior. “The prolonged presence of a warm and engaged father can buffer girls against early, high-risk sex,” Dr. DelPriore said. This doesn’t mean that divorced fathers can’t provide quality care. “A silver lining,” she adds, “is that what dad does seems to matter more than parental separation.” In other words, a divorce may be less harmful for a girl than more years with a bad dad.
The growing field of evolutionary child psychology adds interesting context to these findings. Biologists find that organisms in unstable environments grow up faster and start reproducing earlier than those in stable ones. Theoretically, in a stable environment you can take more time growing into your reproductive activities, focusing on long-term quality rather than on getting an early start. Conversely, in an unstable situation, it might “pay” (in Darwinian terms) to begin reproducing earlier, since in those girls’ worlds, a good man is hard to find.
https://www.wsj.com/articles/the-link-between-distant-dads-and-risk-taking-girls-1496414606?mod=e2tw&mg=prod/accounts-wsj
Women like kind, sensitive, meek men. (Sorry, that simply is NOT true, as any observation of “which guys girls go for most” will illustrate. The do like to “just be friends” with such men.)
Guys like strong, independant, sassy women who don’t need them or their opinion. (Um, again, NOT.)
Since I’m in a shitty mood, I’ll weigh in with this. During my divorce … I was talking to my lawyers … and warned them about my wife … EX WIFE if I could actually get rid of the fucking lying cunt. Which I couldn’t … until the courts stole every fucking dime I’d ever made and every fucking dime I’d make for years to come.
My warning to the lawyers … in the years I’d known my wife … I noticed some disturbing things. For example … she’d complained for years about her father. About how he was such an asshole and abusive towards her and her mother. But I’d met him many times … he lived out of state and we didn’t get together that often. But over the years we’d go back to visit and I’d never seen any sign of abuse toward her, her mother, ANYONE. And one time he invited me to play golf with his buddies. So we did. He was retired many years by then … from the post office and we played golf with the golf league he’d been playing with for decades. Literally … he’d known these guys for 30+ YEARS. And they loved him, thought he was a great guy. He introduced me to his buddies, and we joked and laughed and had a great time. He’d be retired for many years by then. Know who keeps in touch with co-workers 8 yrs after retiring and continues to play golf with them ? NOT AN ABUSIVE ASSHOLE, that’s who.
So I told my lawyers this. My EX … if the fucking lying cunt of a judge would ever rule on the case … was mentally ill. She imagines things and convinces herself that its true. And I gave them examples … she is so fucked up in the head she’d go before the court, under oath … and SWEAR 1 + 1 = 8. She’d swear it under oath and believe it to be true. Told the lawyers that … what she’d do.
And I was right. She did. What I didn’t realize and to this day I’m thinking my lawyers were LAUGHING THEIR ASS OFF … BECAUSE ALL WOMEN ARE THAT WAY … AND I”M SURE THEY REALIZED IT AND THOUGHT I WAS A NAIVE MORON. BECAUSE, YES … ALL WOMEN ARE THAT WAY. When it comes to EARNING THEIR OWN WAY … VERSUS STEALING FROM A MAN … ALL WOMEN PREFER STEALING FROM MEN. And in our current society THEY ARE GIVEN A BLANK CHECK TO DO EXACTLY THAT.
Women have no ethics. No morality. They lie, cheat, steal. And our society gives them a blank check to do so. Women will FUCK MEN OVER … and not even care. Women will go before court, sworn under the bible and LIE THEIR ASSES OFF … and believe its true. Delusion. Mentally ill. 1 + 1 = 8 and I will SWEAR TO IT !!!!
So, yes, I’ve figured out the pretty little lies … WOMEN ARE MENTALLY ILL.
Casual sex is healthy, strong, and empowered! (Studies show the internal damage caused by casual sex can have serious emotional and behavioral consequences over time, especially for women.)
Guys don’t care how many men you have slept with — it doesn’t matter! (Not true, except in the occasion that all they want it to pump and dump you themselves, and then — who cares?)
The more women a man has slept with, the worse! (The reverse of the above is not true, number of sexual partners for a male indicates high rank. Why? Because even the top guys have to work to get laid. Not true for gals, gals can get laid much easier so it is not a sign of desirability in the same way as it is w men.)
RPG,
I have noticed a common trait in all the pretty lies. They allow a woman to do evil without guilt.
Mega,
A story like that makes me glad for being a lifelong bachelor. Yes, your attorneys had seen this before.
Thanks fuzzie … thank god you are a lifelong bachelor. You have no idea …
RPG,
Most of the blue pill lies for men focus on making a saint out of the girl. That is a terrible presumption.
Mega,
It does get lonely, but I have peace and quiet.
Blue Pill Lie: Women are less prone to commit violence then men.
Blue Pill Lie: Women are more intuitive then men.
Blue Pill Lie: Women are more nurturing then men.
Red Pill Truth: Everything women can do, men can do better.
Likewise, the blue pill lies to gals say things like, “All men are oppressive brutes! You don;t need a man! You need to be a SIW!” etc.
Fuzzie the blue pill lies to women, too. It leads everyone astray.
Fuzzie, “Most of the blue pill lies for men focus on making a saint out of the girl. That is a terrible presumption”
In a similar way the blue pill tells women all men are brutes, all men are oppressing you, all men are evil, etc. None of which is true or even helpful, either, leading to much of female dysfunction toward men. IMHO.
“Women are always oppressed and victims of the patriarchy.”
Red pill truth: Women have come a long way and are actually much more powerful than what they realize.
Modernism is progress
(Untrue – scientifically speaking we have advanced. Morally – we have degraded)
Religion is opiate / Religion is for suckers
(Untrue – religion was a major part of any civilization and is probably a crucial element in human lives)
Game is rape culture
(No. Just because I can seduce someone does not mean it is against her will)
If the man helps around the house – he will get more adoration and sex from the women
(Untrue – Including yours truly. Only if that help is in a masculine context. Otherwise he will be despised and taken for granted over time)
Women’s labor around the house is not registered and compensated
(Well, so is the man’s labor – taking care of the car, the bills, fixing things around the house. Somehow this is not compensated as well)
Men cheat more than women
(Yeah, right!)
We should not shame
(Untrue – shaming is the basis of norms. Without it society will crumble)
“Of course I’ll still respect you in the morning, baby”
I am beginning to wonder about which is worse. Is it blue pill ignorance or red pill rage?
“Women rarely cheat”
Seems vast majority do inc. Married women.
I know a guy who targets married women for
hookups because “they are the easiest”.
“Women dont watch porn”
Demographics: 23% of porn usèrs are women.
On topic post at Spawny’s there is
https://spawnyspace.wordpress.com/2017/06/28/the-oppression-of-being-nice/
RPG is on a roll this week!
I think that there is a possibility that everyone’s “red pill” is a little different. Seems though that a common theme that brings most of the people here is that we seek the truth, particularly after a failed experience marriage or relationships.
1. Blue pill lie: “You are a special snowflake”. Truth: Treating your children this way only results in a world full of entitled narcissists that put Facebook above family. This leads to item 2.
2. Blue pill lie: “You can have anything without self sacrifice. You DESERVE this or that.” My favorite one, that BPs normally tel their friends: “You DESERVE to be haaaapy!” Truth: Nobody in this world ever accomplished anything without a reasonable effort. This includes relationships. You can’t have a meaningful relationship without putting an effort into it. RPG covered this recently in the “Focus on your half” post. Nobody gets something for nothing. That is, of course, unless you make a life for yourself by deceiving others. This leads to number 3.
3. Blue pill lie: “You can, and should, have children and also have two full-time working parents.” Truth: This concept only serves to increases the workforce and perpetuate a system of working-class slaves, by sacrificing the family in order to keep the economy working. This keeps the average person’s wages lower yet doubles the potential workforce, and keeps people in a perpetual state of debt. People keep their kids in daycare rather than actually raising them on their own. The result? A bunch of blue pilled children that were raised by someone with lesser values than yourself. At least in the case of my soon to be ex-wife’s faults, she was always a good mother who was willing to put in her half of raising a child, at least until she had a a short term of blue pill behavior. We made it pretty well on a single income. She didn’t get “blue pilled” until she started spending a lot of time with “SIWs” who were also going through divorces. This leads to item 4.
4. Blue pill lie: “Children are tough! They don’t need to live in a stable family with both parents.” Truth: Yoda already posted one, of many, articles above that demonstrates the long-term problems with this. Usually this means that children don’t get to see dad, though that’s changing. Countless research has shown how this is a serious lie with tremendous consequences, yet there continues to be a near equal number of people that try to drag the next person down to their own level of hell to justify their own behaviors for ripping a children away from the other parent. I’ve seen the results of this only in my short lifetime. It’s not pretty. Crime, amoral behavior becomes the norm, lack of accountability, lack of self discipline. Leads to item 5.
5. Blue pill lie: “Men should stop being men. We should treat little boys to be like girls, and little girls to aspire to be like boys. Men and women are equal and the same!” Truth: The last two items focus on child rearing, and you can bet that having other people raise your children, in broken homes, only is going to result in broken children with an identity crisis. Now we have boys with no ambition to be strong, to learn skills, or no desire to be a strong provider. They cannot “be a man” later in life unless they learn these skills on their own. Instead, they engage in porn and junk hobbies because “women are too much work”. We have girls that are not taught accountability, yet they are taught that they have the capability to do anything that a man can do; Perhaps even better. They are taught that they can do everything that they want to do, including dangerous things like excessive casual sex. They are sent to school (often for free or with privileged systems of educational grants), and are technically more qualified than the pool of men that they encounter. So now there is a dating pool of only beta males that have no means to support a family on their own. So we have stay-at-home dads that are not respected or loved by the working mothers. And women then cry: “Where are all of the good men!?” Then you have a world full of men and women with no real life skills. They can’t fix anything. They can’t cook. They can’t create anything. They just work meaningless jobs in an office at 60 hours per week for nothing. Probably in an HR department or government office (or an HR department of a government office). And then spend all of their time on Facebook to talk about how great they are and how being a parent is “hard work”. It’s only hard work if you aren’t doing it right and you are filling your life with unfulfilling BS. The identity crisis leads to item 6.
6. Blue pill lie: “Women like sensitive men and ‘Happy wife = Happy life.’ Help your wife with traditionally feminine jobs.” Truth: No woman respects a sensitive man. The moment you show your weaknesses she will never see you the same way. Regrettably, I think that this is the part that broke my marriage, and also broke my buddy’s. I began to slip into this lie and it sucked everything out of our relationship. It pains me to admit it, but never again will it happen to me. A real man acknowledges his mistakes and fixes them. The moment I started showing the cracks of stress is the moment that she started taking advantage of things. It’s the moment that she stopped giving anything and only could take, and had excuses for all of it. It’s the moment that she took advantage of being given a lot of personal freedoms but then couldn’t stop. Once you cross that line, it’s almost impossible to turn things around. She won’t know why she is “unhaaapy” and it will be your fault. I let her manage the finances. We started to go into debt. I took back control (and eliminated the debt) and she was resentful. I started putting more of an effort into cleaning and cooking. She completely stopped cleaning and cooking yet didn’t work to provide income for the family. More Facebook and fun time! Most people can’t get paid without working a job. The same applies to a mutual relationship in a home. Now, having standards for your spouse is considered to be “abuse” and “patriarchy” in the case of old fashioned gender roles. A blue-pilled woman doesn’t like being told that she is not putting in an equal effort. A blue-pilled woman cannot acknowledge that she makes mistakes. A blue-pilled beta man never takes ownership of a situation and wants to blame everyone else for his own problems. A red-pilled man does not let anyone walk on him, including his wife. This doesn’t mean that he is cruel or unreasonable. He’s just stable and unbreakable. A red-pilled woman knows that she is complementary to her man and works with him, not against him. She can put in the effort or get out. The system protects her though. Leads to item 7.
7. Blue pill lie: “Just frivorce! You don’t have to put up with that. You are a strong, sexy, independent woman! Lots of guys out there will love you and your little rugrats! You deserve alimony for bearing children and being married to someone who worked hard for you!” Truth: Throwing a tantrum and then leaving because you don’t like it isn’t going to fix anything. I’m not even going to bother posting about the wall / CC / greener grass, financial repercussions, second / third + divorce rates, etc. We all know the truth. Lots of posts on it here. This is not me saying that some people shouldn’t be single. Some people should actually never marry at all. But those that do want a quality relationship will not normally find it by running without working on their own problems first. Leads to item 8.
8. Blue pill lie: “Have lots of shameless sex! Nobody will care, and you will feel great about yourself!” Truth: This one is so incredibly damaging. Psychological and physical aspects of it, risks of STDs, unplanned pregnancy, and actually putting one’s life in danger. The byproduct of this, and everything about, is the entire PUA thing that blue-pill media associates with TRP and it’s alleged “woman-hating” misogynist message. PUA is only the result of finding a crack in an already broken system. Truth be told, a lot of men don’t feel that women offer them more than sex now, and it’s pretty sad. But that’s the nature of the system. When the system of checks and balances is removed, people will go right to the basics to get what they want, through pretty selfish means. Equally damaging is the lie that “You don’t need to have sex with your husband.” I understand that the reverse is true for women at times. Lots of dead bedrooms because a man or woman cannot or will not be intimate with their spouse. It’s just most common that women use sex to control men. So why would someone marry only to be locked in a sexless existence for life? It’s absolutely miserable and people who cannot perform in a monogamous relationship should NEVER marry. It destroys the person that you are with and often puts the offender in a loop between items 6-8. You cannot, except for under really weird circumstances, expect a healthy relationship without the closeness of intimacy. Leads to item 9.
9. Blue pill lie: “Don’t worry! You will be happy on your own!” Truth: Maybe? Maybe not. A lot of blue-pill media tries to convince women that they’ve done polls that divorced women are happier and men are miserable for a variety of reasons. I think that they are basing it off of more lies and endless hamstering than real facts. In a typical scenario, a lot of guys will look back and try to think of what they could have done to change things. And it will depress them. A lot of women will look for reasons to justify their frivorce without trying to be accountable for it. I get that the reverse is true sometimes, but the divorce statistics show who the true initiators normally are. I think that ANY rational person can look back with regret and wish that things had been different. It’s just that not everyone can admit to this. Third/Fourth-wave feminism tries to teach women that they will be happier alone, but the poster children for this; Angry feminists, SJWs, and white knights, seem to indicate that they are not really happy at all. So nobody really wins. People end up alone, and poor, because they thought it would be wise to split everything 50/50 and go a different direction in mid-life. If they’d put a bit more effort into it, maybe they could retire early and finally enjoy the efforts of their labor. Why would I want to share that with someone again? I already make over 3x what my wife will ever make. Good luck to you on retiring before 80, if you end up alone. The truth is, I am upset about the fact that my family is being destroyed. However, I’m also elated that I now will get massive amounts of free time to do the things that I want to do and focus on my own future. I’ll also plan to be able to retire a lot earlier than most because I know how to live within my means and avoid debt. No, I wouldn’t trade the destruction of my family for anything else, but I also had a partner who could not put in her 100%.
And it’s all cyclical. Some people get stuck in a blue-pill loop forever and never get out. I could go on and on about other aspects of it. This isn’t even the end of it. But it perpetuates now from one generation to the next, getting worse. Maybe it’s the real downfall of civilization? Maybe we need to crash really hard before we are wise enough to advance beyond what we have now. But now, we are passing on a bunch of crap to our children and guaranteeing them a life of selfishness, sadness, and loneliness. No more family values, no more support system, a life of slave labor, a life of endless consumerism, a massive disparity between the social classes, the death of our Gods in the eyes of man (man wants to be God now). It goes on and on and it’s sad.
“A Dad” also on fire he is
Dad: “5. Blue pill lie: “Men should stop being men. We should treat little boys to be like girls, and little girls to aspire to be like boys.”
I suddenly see this as quite an issue. From long before the Red Pill/Blue Pill era began I’ve been convinced that women’s Sh*t Tests are utterly unconscious and hard wired tests of male sexual interest/potence. Basically, if you still want sex after enduring (or ignoring) a ST then you can be relied upon to make lots of babies, which is what natural selection wants you to do. It’s also the reason for the sexually welcoming female response to creatively dealing with said ST.
If you believe this then it’s easy to see feminism as a whole as a gender wide ST. Like many of these tests it’s best not to fight it head on nor to let it reduce you to huddled cowardice. Creativity in your ability to deflect, redirect, or subvert its influence, or finding the capacity to ignore it with an even temper is best.
But children cannot do that. I don’t bother to judge people of any alternate sexual choice as some on this planet do (if they leave me my choices, I’ll leave them theirs) but with kids we have to be very careful not to lead them astray. The potentially great crime here is when those of a postmodernist mentality actually remove the possibility of options when they think they are creating them. You know, first do no harm and all that.
Dad, very, very well laid out BTW!
Pretty little lie. What women say they want vs expectations and what other women think of them.
Watch the reactions to the buff guy who doesn’t talk.
The divorce between Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie made me crazy. Now, this.
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/entertainment/english/hollywood/news/George-Clooney-wife-ready-for-300-mn-divorce/articleshow/55887171.cms
Amal Clooney is a London attorney and London is famous for having the most generous divorce serrlements for women in the world. They got married in 2014 and she will end up with half his fortune. Never mind what this does to men’s confidence in women.
Seconded. A Dad is on fire.
I am probably wrong on the George Clooney story. They just had twins.
Biggest lie. “We don’t need men.”
Great. Look at all the work, security, food, comfort, companionship and reasoning you are doing without.
20-45 sure, do without men. You have kids, career, government, your besties to fill the gap.
Lets hear from the 50+ year olds. Kids gone, career plateaued, no longer the SJW demographic, besties not caring.
Hey whats another Thirty Years? On. Your. Own.
30 birthdays celebrating a fabulous post menopause single year. Again.
1,500 boring weekends with no one to spend it with.
11,000 nights, staring at the ceiling, wondering what that noise was.
Yup.
No one needs anyone.
Oh and the Biggest Lie.
“Really, Its all True. I truly believe in Feminism. I have ZERO doubts about it!!!”
Forgot one.
“Men give a fuck about women.”
After Men turn 45ish not so much.
After Women turn 35 not so much.
After Women turn 50…..
Wait, what?? There are Women Over 50??
Nah! Never seen one.
Except Gramma but she was sweet old Gramma only visible to us kids.
How could he. He was so sincere here.
If Brad and George can’t do it, it can’t be done.
(And check out Pierce Brosnan’s wife’s transformation, tell me she didn’t give up.)
Seriously.
Anyone know any 50+ divorcees.
Really curious on how they see their golden years unfolding.
Horseman,
That link I found about George Clooney mis likely bunk. Still, it had men going. Too many apex celebrity husbands are getting dumped. I’ll be more careful in the future.
As for 50+ divorcees, Daily Mail had a post on them a while ago. They profiled three. They don’t get dates and one admitted to not having sex for ten years. It still hasn’t filtered down to women in general. However, if you look at online profiles, which I haven’t done in a couple of years, they are more demanding than younger women. Go figure.
“Seriously.
Anyone know any 50+ divorcees.
Really curious on how they see their golden years unfolding.”
yeah, my sister. She is now 63, divorced 15 years ago from a really decent hardworking man because she wanted her “freedom”. Well, she got exactly what she wanted, freedom. Her ex also got something better than the bitter greedy bitch she turned into. His new housemate is a decade younger and a fairly nice lady.
Golden years for my sister? Nope. She has her social security, 3 cats, a rented apartment, 10 year old car and a brother (me) who is a LOOONG way off.
Life can be a bitch when you are a bitch, eh?
Damn, man. That’s harsh. I get the honesty though. Your sister ever discuss it with you? Does she say that she’s happy with the outcome?
I wrote an answer but it seems that Word Press is having a major idiot attack again. Got other things to do than screw around with Word Press
Dad, maybe it my attitude seems harsh towards her since I wrote the 25 cent version of how it is today. At one time we were fairly close till the silly bitch crossed a big red line, she was a guest in my house for a few weeks after her divorce. My lovely wife and I gave her space to get her life back on track. She had her own room but cleaned not a damn thing, cooked NOTHING, bitched about her ex constantly and lied about her part in the divorce. My wife and I let it all slide for awhile.
Then my sister insulted my wife to her face, enough that when I came home I found my pretty bride in our bedroom crying. Pardon my language, but you know what insane fucking rage is? yup. that. I threw that bitch out in less than 5 minutes and the last thing I told her that 1.) NO ONE insults my wife, ever! and 2.) She REALLY should stay on the other side of the country and never come near my place again.
Also, Dad, I read all of your comments and do seriously sympathize with what you are dealing with now. At one time, a long time ago, had the same sorry-assed situation in my life (1988 to be precise). Divorced and lost everything I owned except a duffle bag of clothes and the determination that no idiot woman would ever run over me again….You will be ok, just push on through the shit you are in
Thanks Larry G. I appreciate it. I’m optimistic about it all. My situation sounds like it’s going to end up a lot better than it does for many people. I’m pretty optimistic about the future even though it could have been different.
I was going to joke that your sister’s visit sorta was like the script of “A Streetcar Named Desire” but sounds like the outcome was probably a happier ending for everyone involved. 😉
Seriously, keep your optimistic outlook on high. I can only tell you what I did, not what you should do. I worked out and got my body in shape, managed to get the finances going strong again and started saving money (ALL debt was wiped out first of all), worked my ass off to cultivate a cheerful demeanor with a pronounced “give a shit” attitude flavor. And kept my eyes wide open for the next girlfriend and/or booty call. Found me a pretty lady in 1991, married her in 1993, and we have gotten old together.
Come to think of it, I don’t think I’ve ever seen that movie “Streetcar Named Desire” so I’ll take your word on the script. I will say that my sister is bat-shit crazy, you can take my word for that.
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Wow, great stuff here guys! Keep it up! 😀
Thanks Larry G! The things that you did are also what I started doing over the past 2 years. Getting into shape, eliminated my debt a year ago, and have worked hard to change my attitude. It’s already paid off in many ways.
“Wow, great stuff here guys! Keep it up!” Well, you finally decided to mingle with the peons, RPG? Took a little sabbatical (probably needed the rest I’m guessing). Anyway, glad you are back in the blog business.
Yeah, RPG. But we need more from the ladies here. Hope we didn’t scare them all off. ;P
Dad, if you are two years in IMO you are more than likely over the roughest parts of divorce. It took me about four years to get mostly over mine but got to where I got past the anger to indifference towards the ex.
I comment infrequently on RPGs little blog here, but this time I had somethings to say to you directly. Remember that lady that I married in 1993 that I mentioned before? Well, we celebrated our 24 wedding anniversary two days ago. I got REALLY lucky this time around. Semper Fi
fyi – you didn’t scare me off … just don’t always have the time to read through everything 🙂 … have only been able to glance through these today 🙂
i’m pretty open to questions, though, if you have anything specific. if so, i’d rather you ask on my blog so as not to hijack another’s 😉
I just mean that the guys seem to be taking over “a site for women…”. Maybe it’s not very “red pill” of me but I like the women’s perspective. ;P
Competition between males and females is the lie.
The truth: a house divided is self destructive, a species divided is prelude to extinction.
Needing to be superior to another person so you have feel valuable is a lie.
Truth your worth is what you make of yourself no one can bestow it nor can they take it away. You can’t increase your worth as a person by stepping on others.
Lie: emotions are reality.
Truth: emotions are chemical reactions, that may have nothing to do with reality.
Lie: someone else will do it.
Truth: sometimes your the one that should do it.
Dad, I can see the back end stats and there are a lot of ladies reading along, but most not commenting. Hopefully in time they will wade in!
Larry, I have been working my a** off for months, and have had little to no time for the computer. I missed you guys and yes, I am back! 😀 I wish I could tell you guys all I have been up to but lets just say all my hard work is finally paying off! Yay!
“I have been working my a** off for months, and have had little to no time for the computer. I missed you guys and yes, I am back! 😀 I wish I could tell you guys all I have been up to but lets just say all my hard work is finally paying off! Yay!”
Yeah, yeah, yeah…You do know that growing certain cash crops for smoking is still illegal in most states, right? I believe the Feds still frown on it too. Anyway, glad you are back, after all it IS your blog.
Lol no it’s not that! 😂
Only for another year up here. Everyone can grow 9 plants for personal consumption.
Only good thing The Justin did.
No really officer, its oregano.