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Monthly Archives: July 2017

Put Yourself Last

16 Sunday Jul 2017

Posted by redpillgirlnotes in Uncategorized

≈ 70 Comments

Women today are more likely told to put themselves first, than to put themselves last. But personally, I think some more of the latter is good advice, too.

Allow me to explain. The female mind already leans toward solipsism, which while part of the way things were designed to work, it can be too much if not balanced with an awareness of others.

Consider women in your life who are living the “Put yourself first” motto to the extreme, not good, right? Such women are often a neurotic, self-absorbed, hot mess who thinks only of herself. Such women are also often very unhappy and constantly seeking more of “something.”

Now granted, there are other women who lean the opposite, who really do need to stop being a doormat, being so selfless they are a passive aggressive, resentful, wreck. This post is not for them.

Obviously the middle is the sweet spot. But in today’s “you go grrrul” world (possibly in overreaction to the former doormat model promoted in generations past) it seems to me most women now reside in the “me, me, me!” camp. Why? Because society encourages it.

But rather than that path leading to balance, harmony, and happiness, women today seem less “centered” than ever.

So, sister, take the “you first” advice with a grain of salt. As they say, everything in moderation. Perhaps the sweet spot is somewhere in the middle, finding fulfillment and happiness serving others and also carving out some time for yourself. Rotate between putting yourself and others first, as the situation calls for.

Because too much of anything is just too much!

Let those who have ears hear.

What do you think? Please share in the comments!

Don’t Be a Snowflake

15 Saturday Jul 2017

Posted by redpillgirlnotes in Uncategorized

≈ 55 Comments

There is an epidemic sweeping the land — special snowflake syndrome.

If the term special snowflake is a new one to you, just know it’s not a compliment. People with special snowflake syndrome have a cluster of personality and character flaws, including but not limited to:

  • Thinking the world revolves around them
  • Believing only their worldview or opinion to be correct
  • Demanding tolerance while being intolerant
  • Responding like a toddler when they don’t get their way
  • Taking everything as a personal offense
  • Reporting or tattling on anyone they can’t control or who dares believe differently
  • Expecting others to solve their issues
  • Believing their rights matter more than the rights of others
  • Believing others must conform to their worldview
  • Being easily offended
  • Having a fragile self image, threatened by anyone or anything different
  • Being often physically unattractive or socially odd
  • Having a low level of physical fitness, soft, weak
  • Seeing  almost everything as an injustice, threat, or aggression
  • Being angry and passive aggressive
  • Accusing others of various “ism”
  • Being victim based

I could continue, but hopefully you get the point.

Sadly, these people seem to be everywhere lately. Those with special snowflake syndrome tend to surround themselves with others who are the same, creating an echo chamber effect, special snowball syndrome.

People like this are not simply incredibly annoying, they are a threat to individual freedom and self determination. It is, ironically, people with this mindset that commit atrocities such as the Dark Ages or the Salem Witch Trials.

The best remedy for special snowflake syndrome is mockery and shame. They will howl, there will be wailing and gnashing of teeth, but it’s for their own good. Friends don’t let friends turn into sad sucks.

Luckily the reign of the special snowflake seems to be coming to an end. Why on earth would any sane society let people like them control the social, educational, or political realm? No. For all our sakes, and their own, we must say no.

Let those who have ears hear.

What do you think? Please share in the comments.

The Destruction of the Blue Pill

13 Thursday Jul 2017

Posted by redpillgirlnotes in Uncategorized

≈ 22 Comments

Blue pill thinking has not only destroyed the dynamic between men and women in relationships, this thinking is destroying our very civilization, itself.

Everything once held as good, true, just, and right has been flipped on its head. It can be seen clearly in the comments posted in response to the president’s recent tweet found here. Please take a moment to scroll through a few so the rest of this makes sense.

Do you see the lack of civility? The utter disrespect for authority? The contempt for leadership?

Of course there are also the posts that represent the ideals our nation were founded upon. Love of God, country, and one’s fellow citizen.

This is truly troubling to me, and I only see conflict ahead. Conflict not caused by those who support our nation, but by those who do not. This type of thinking is not progress, it is not progressive, it is shameful, and hateful, and dark.

I have never been in combat, nor am I a violent person on any level, but I have heard from those who have been in battle that it is the coward one must fear most, the coward on their own side. It is the coward traitor who will turn on his own to save himself.

That is why in history, such subversives are treated as they were, and why their weak thinking is a threat to all around them.

Let those who have ears hear.

What do you think? Please share in the comments.

p.s. I am by no means saying anyone who doesn’t agree 100% with the current president are what I describe above, I am specifically talking about those w the hateful and small mentality of those in the reply to the tweet, to clarify.

 

The Game Never Ends

11 Tuesday Jul 2017

Posted by redpillgirlnotes in Uncategorized

≈ 35 Comments

I hate to break the news, but based on observations of my friends in their mid to late 70s, one is never so old that “game” is unnecessary.

Let me explain… I discussed this couple a few weeks back here. Let’s call them Dick and Jane, after the popular learn to read books of their era.

Well Dick is getting back surgery, and for the past few weeks he’s subtly been testing Jane to see if he can count on her.

Dick usually drives when they go out on dates, and Jane can at times get pretty tipsy. Dick is usually really good about patiently steadying her and getting her to the car and home safely.

A few weeks ago Dick told Jane she needed to dial it back a bit, not get so tipsy. Well typical of a woman today, her response was, “You can’t tell me what to do!”

Rather than listen, Jane started acting like a bratty rebellious teenager. Dick warned her once, then started abruptly getting up, informing her it was time to go, and unceremoniously dropping her off at home to think about it. Last weekend he showed up, no Jane. She hadn’t listened, and so rather than invite her along, he left her to cool her heels.

On Sunday Dick shows up, but no Jane. So of course I ask, and he says they had gone to the Lodge the night before. When he told Jane it was time to go, she told him to go ahead, she’d find her own ride home! And so he did.

As he was telling the tale, his phone rang. Jane. He didn’t pick up.

For days he did the same. No answer.

So I ask him about his upcoming surgery in two days, and if he had a ride. When he said no, he’d drive himself, I said, “Poppycock, that’s nonsense. I will drive you. And I want you to stay at my house a day or two after, as well. So I don’t worry.”

“M’kay,” he said with a little grin.

So the girls and I made up a cozy single bed in the living room, near the bathroom, no need to climb stairs, complete with ultra soft pillows and nice fluffy blankets. I added a cart with rollers so he can easily get to things, and the girls added finishing touches with a lamp, clock, and plant. I resisted adding a teddy bear, thinking that was probably too much.

Last night I send Jane a text. “How are you? What’s up with you and Dick?”

“I don’t know,” she says. “I hear you are taking him to the hospital in the morning.”

“Yes,” I replied. “Let’s talk in the morning.”

She called this morning first thing. And guess who got up at the crack of dawn and drove to Dick’s? Yep. Jane. She was calling from his place.

“Do you want us to pick you up,” she asked?

“Sure,” I said. And so we all rode together, and all seems well. I am unsure if Dick will be recovering at my place but if so, we’re ready!

Jane is with him now, as he changes into his hospital gown and they prep him for surgery.  I pray his room will be filled with angels and that all goes smoothly and the surgery brings him relief from the constant pain. (Please feel free to pray for him, too!)

I guess awalt, no matter how old they get. And that dread works at any age, too!

I plan to have a talk with Jane when I get a chance, to explain the test and how she failed it, and hopefully she’ll do different next time!

A Visit from Hercules

10 Monday Jul 2017

Posted by redpillgirlnotes in Red Pill

≈ 51 Comments

Tags

dating, Hercules, hookups, relationships, Vixen

Hercules stopped by on Saturday with his new girlfriend and his roommate.

His girlfriend is what I would expect, young, blonde, petite, attractive, not very bright, and hanging on his every word.

His roommate was a very nice guy, not flashy, very average, well spoken, and friendly. The roommate drove a cherry 1969 Nova (SS, no less!) , while Hercules and his gal pal drove the roommate’s man cave of a truck.

We chit chatted a bit, caught up on the latest. All very friendly like.

Then, the room cleared out suddenly and Hercules got down to business.

“You got a boyfriend?”

“Yes,” I said.

“Yeah but it’s some long distance thing, right?”

“Yes,” I said. “And it’s going great.”

“Why don’t you come back to our place? My roommate is single and he wants you to come hang out.”

“Sorry,” I said. “Your roommate seems great, it’s nothing personal, but I am in a relationship.”

“Perfect. He doesn’t want anything serious, anyway. Plus, he’s loaded.”

I rolled my eyes. “You are missing the point Hercules.”

“Fine. Be that way.”

They discussed coming by the next day to help with a little project, and off they went.

Ten minutes later I get a text.

“My roommate wants you to come over and party.”

“Sorry,” I said. “I am going to stay home tonight, not feeling well. See you in the morning.”

“Oh geez.”

I call my boyfriend, and then watched a movie. Ahhhh… alone time!

Now, I easily could have gone. But why? Plus, I’d be an idiot to ruin the good thing I’ve got.

The next day they show up, just Hercules and his lady and we get the project done quickly.

I talk more with his lady, learn she is best friends with Hercules’s sister Venus, who I adore. (Venus easily could have been Playmate of the year had she wanted to.) Venus once said to me, “Nobody should ever date any of my brothers. They are all pigs!” So I figure the girlfriend has been told what she’s getting into. Maybe if so, it can work. We’ll see…

Then he notices my new riding lawnmower, and my now spare older one and offers to make a trade, some physical work needing done in exchange for the old mower.

“Sounds good, but I need to run it by my boyfriend first,” I say.

“Oh geez. Just tell him the thing disappeared.”

“Sorry,” I say. “That’s not the way things work.”

Off they go. I fill my guy in on all this, and he approves the trade.

Anyway, not sure there’s a point to this except I found it all pretty entertaining.

Start Where You Are

08 Saturday Jul 2017

Posted by redpillgirlnotes in Red Pill

≈ 23 Comments

Tags

abundance, dreams, life, red pill

If there is something you would like to change about your life, here’s a tip: start where you are, and start right now.

I know many people who want their life to be different, yet they are waiting. Waiting for the right time, waiting for enough money, waiting until they have x, y, or z.

Maybe they want to lose weight or live healthier, maybe they want a different job or career, maybe they want to find a relationship, or fix a relationship, etc.

They want it, but they’re waiting…

My advice? Start right now, today, in whatever way they can, no matter how small. Every journey begins with the first step. And doing 10% to get there will still get you there faster than waiting to do anything.

It’s your life. You are the artist. Nobody can craft the masterpiece but you!

You might make mistakes. You might not know exactly how to do it. You may have other limitations. It’s OK. But still no reason to delay. Start where you are — it’s the only way to get there!

Whats something you’d like to be different? Please share in the comments!

Unhaaaaapy?

07 Friday Jul 2017

Posted by redpillgirlnotes in Red Pill

≈ 22 Comments

Tags

happiness, happy, healthy living, healthy thinking, ownership, red pill, responsibilty, true empowerment, unhappiness

Happiness is an inside job.

Yep! So if you are unhappy, stop blaming others and start looking within.

So many people look to their partner or future idealized partner to “make them happy.” But guess what? They can’t. And it’s not even healthy to expect them to.

So while it’s seemingly easier to credit or blame others for your happiness level, the very good thing about looking within for happiness is that you realize while others can’t make you happy, you’ll find they can no longer take it away, either.

What do you think? Please share in the comments!

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