Yesterday at work, I was visiting with three other gals, one a co-worker and two customers. And I had an insight.
The four of us spanned two decades, the youngest was 33, the oldest 53. In between were my co-worker at 36 and myself at 46.
We weren’t talking about anything particularly heavy, just chit chat about fashion, trends, makeup, and the like. But as we talked, something dawned on me — the one doing most of the talking, in fact talking over the rest, was the 33-year-old. She seemed to think she knew it all, cutting the rest of us off mid sentence without a thought.
Of the four of us she was the least physically fit, and not to be mean, but the least attractive. Frumpy would be how I would describe her. What a shame, I thought, as I noticed despite her being the youngest chronolically, she was likely the oldest in “real age.” She was unmarried, but sadly already matronly.
The 53-year-old was sporty and athletic, with that naturally muscular and lean look of a runner. A mother of three boys, she was active and it showed. She was well put together, tasteful and age appropriate, but not at all over the hill. For her age, I’d say she’s likely in the top 20 percent. She revealed that every year since she was young, she takes a photo on her birthday in a bikini to document for herself her life. Interesting!
I could work on building muscle, and know I need to do so if I want to be healthy in my golden years, and I could eat better too, but thanks to my own labor intense work and inability to be still for long, I am more fit than most my age, and at most 5-8 pounds from ideal. I am naturally curvy and feminine, hourglass, and I try to dress in a way to accent that. I am a tomboy, not afraid to dig in the dirt, but I can also spiff it up and carry off pearls and lace.
The 36-year-old is fit and is always well put together and professional. Despite three children she shows no signs of hitting the wall. She recently remarried to a very attractive man — aged 24! And they seem very happy. I can already see them with grey hair, holding hands, still in love.
And then the 33-year-old. Soft, but in a not good way. Probably 15-20 pounds overweight. She wore her hair long, but it was unstyled and hung unattractively around her face. Her clothes were ill fitting, not flattering to her pear shape. She bragged about almost never wearing makeup.
She reminded me of myself at her age even, downplaying her looks and dressing androgenously in order to, “not be a sex object, but to be taken seriously.” Like her, I too used to believe I knew it all, only to discover with age I knew a lot less than I thought. I talked a lot more than I listened.
It’s the folly of many a young woman today, dressing down in youth and talking over those she could be learning from. What a shame.
One by one we all stopped trying to add to the conversation, and soon she had the floor, yapping about fashion and style as if she were the authority.
Young ladies, if I could give you some advice? It’s no crime to be pretty, and look your best. It’s much easier in youth than it will ever be, so why wait? Take care of yourself and your body. It will pay off for decades. And listen more than you talk. Consider that others with more experience might be happy to help you avoid the many pitfalls in life, if you will only listen.
Let those who have ears hear!
Notes From a Red Pill Girl 
I have often noticed groups of 2-4 people at a restaurant table where *one* of the people does 80-100% of the talking. I doubt if it’s because they have such superior wisdom that the other people have urged, ‘Yes, please keep on giving us the word.’
36 yo woman married to an attractive 24 yo man?
That wont last. If he takes care of himself, in 10 years the guy (aged 34) will be able to pull hot 24 year olds.
His wife will not be able to keep him
@ian, I have wondered the same… but of course hope for the best! The big thing is she doesn’t want more kids, he says now he’s fine with that, and I hope he is because he MARRIED her. But I have seen that go South before, as he ages he may not be so OK with it, and by then she will be unable… I hope it works, I believe in people sticking to their commitment, better or worse, richer or poorer, sickness and health… so long as the both shall live. Nothing is ever perfect, but the time to pick those battles is BEFORE saying “I do.” IMHO.
Tis not just the folly of “young gals”. Young men also fall into this trap of thinking themselves wiser than their years suggest.
However, I have noticed that your observation does tend to favor the feminine persuasion. I have an “empowered” daughter who has been convinced, since her teenage years, that everyone around her is an idiot, especially men.
I never was able to break her of that habit. Needless to say we butted heads a lot. I did notice one thing that was concomitant with the know-it-all mentality. That is that these people tend not to show deference to anyone. With my daughter it her was constantly referring to adults either by their first name or their last name with no Mr. or Mrs. (Miss for single women) prefixed to it.
Have you noticed this, that your younger colleague doesn’t address people as Mr. or Mrs. (Miss)? Maybe if the older women in the group started a habit of referring to people by there last name properly prefixed they may be able to break through her reticence to be deferential to her elders.
Just a thought, not an accusation.
@ Roman, good point. I think in general we have lost a lot of the civility and it’s not good. Addressing elders with respect, dressing up for special occasions (sneakers and jeans at a wedding???) etc. I say it often but the old ways worked for a reason…
Repillgirl
I agree once people get married they should
Try to make it work.
Definately true re; kids. Most 24 year old
men are not even thinking about kids.
He could very well change his mind & she will be screwed..
The big issue i see will be his wifes inability
to compete with women 20 years younger. Which she will be in 10 years time.
@RPG I have seen this also, and as a Roman Catholic, its is particularly painful when I see it at Mass. Where people won’t spend more time getting properly attired with their “Sunday Best”.
I encourage my wife and children to wear skirts, dresses, ties and proper slacks. Interesting thing is that when people see us “dressed up” for Mass they start to offer us information and comments about how we must be really in love with the Faith, but that dressing up for them makes them feel out of place, or that they are just copying that “traditional” family.
My thought is try it. After awhile it will become habit and not so stuffy. I encourage people who have a hard time addressing others with deferential respect to begin doing so in their private conversations if doing so in public feels awkward. Over time they will discover that it will become less and less “awkward” to use that kind of formal speech in public.
There is a new post at Spawny’s
https://spawnyspace.wordpress.com/2017/08/05/brassy-sassy-lassies/
I don’t know about the thirty three year old. Usually, humility is a the product of age and it is inescapable. Still, she is a little long in the tooth. Good to hear about the others, but to add my voice, I am a little worried about the one who married a younger man.
FWB “worried about the one who married a younger man”
Actually, the dynamics favor the marriage lasting.
Hugh Jackman as case in point.
RPG,
I think that a lot of men are also like that, but for different reasons. Just has something to do with being young. Most early 30s people are overconfident in nearly everything. I even feel that I’ve humbled a lot in recent years.
Unsure what is up with the woman with the 24 year old man. He must be really into older women or she has a lot to offer. My mother married a younger man, years ago. It didn’t last. Ultimately he may want kids of his own, or he’s going to cheat (or both). Then they will divorce and he will marry younger and she will marry older. At least, that’s how I’ve seen these weird marriages where a woman is substantially older. I think that the guy must have a mommy complex. I’ve seen it a lot in guys who had really controlling mothers.
Didn’t know you are 46. Would have assumed about 10 years younger. It makes sense though, because your viewpoints reflect a lot of experience that only comes with life.
I’m personally attracted to both younger and older women, but could not picture something long-term with an older woman. She’d have to be a damn unicorn or something, but I’m leary of dating divorcees after this experience. Especially those with kids.
Curious about the 53 year old. What’s her martial situation?
Saracen III,
The concern is that while his SMV ascends as he ages, hers will diminish. They might be at a balanced point now, but it will change with time. She’ll get insecure. Consider Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore.
“Actually, the dynamics favor the marriage lasting.
Hugh Jackman as case in point.”
Only because this guy is a Gamma at best. Honestly, no “attractive 24 year old” would otherwise marry a woman 10+ years his senior who has had 3 kids.
And everyone in Hollywood knows that Hugh Jackman is gay and his wife is his beard.
I will echo similar thoughts as others. The 36 yr old marrying a guy 24 … who thinks its GREAT !!! In 10 years when she finds out he’s cheated on her. And cheated with 8 different women over a period of years … SHE WILL BE DESTROYED and by then the wall and her market value … and her SHITTY ATTITUDE FOR BEING CHEATED ON … HER OWN STUPIDITY REALLY … means her odds of finding another man are essentially ZERO.
The moron in the group is not the young one rambling on at the mouth … its the MORON who thinks as a single mom she can nail down a man 12 years younger than her. She just ruined HER LIFE … RUINED HIS LIFE and probably the lives of her kids. Jesus. What a fucking idiot.
Here is the golden ratio … 2-1 though some think its 3-1. For every year below her age she should be considering 2X or 3X ABOVE HER AGE. For example … if she’s 36 she should be looking at 33-42 (2X) … 3 below to 6 above or 33-45 (3X) … 3 below to 9 above. Any woman who thinks she can nail down a man 12 years younger than her is mentally ill.
Before I took the Red Pill … I would have wished that chick … “best of luck with that” … now that I know the truth about women, men, and how the SMV works … that chick is a complete fucking moron who just nuked her life. Someone needs to talk sense to that moron … before she does more damage than she already has done. Frankly this chick is so fucked up in the head and delusional about how reality works … makes me think that men who call for Women’s Right to Vote … BE REVOKED … might jave some pretty good rationale right there. This same fucking moron probably voted for Hillary … because she had a Vagina and it was HER TURN.
Bloom … you missed it on this one. That 36 year old needs someone to talk straight to her … before she causes more damage than she already has.
We need to remember how cold and calculated women can be.
The 36 yo is not stupid.
She probably had her children with the alpha.
Now the 24 yo cuck is the beta bucks guy who will finance the family. (This is the biggest beta cuck i have ever heard of. She has even told him she wont have his children).
She may not care if he leaves on 5-10 years.
He wiill have served his purpose as beta provider. She will probably cheat before he does!
I am not going to say anymore on the 36 year old. We have all taken speculation too far, and let us wish her the best. As for the vain 33 year old, the stresses that life is prone to should make her humble. I am surprised that hasn’t happened yet. She is overdue.
Mega,
You didn’t say anything about the GF. I hope that all is well. From what you have said, she really likes you.
Fuzzie … still going great. Spent Fri nite together. She came over on Sat and had dinner and spent the nite. I took her to the driving range … been teaching her how to play golf. Kinda of an interesting experience for me … I had such a hard time with the Ex … she absolutely HATED me teaching her anything … cause it implied that I knew more than her, lol. Yeah, Feminist. Anyway I had such horrible experiences with the Ex that I was more than a little hesitant to do something like teach the GF golf … but its actually been a an good experience so far. And I do have to say that I think she had similar reservations … her Ex was highly critical … so she’s a little gun shy on that … expecting to be yelled at if she did something wrong. That I honestly want to help her and want her to get better … has done wonders … so she tries hard … guess it just works, we just get along so well. Anyway, she’s not any good yet … obviously … we’ve been to the driving range 4 times and I took her on the course once and had her chip/put around the greens.
I do think there is a lot of Red Pill wisdom in the entire exercise though. And its this. As some people may know … about 10 weeks ago I had hip replacement surgery. And it had been bothering me more and more over the last year … basically I hadn’t swung a golf club in nearly a year and at times earlier this year I had a hard time even walking. And the first couple of times we went to the range … I didn’t even hit balls … wasn’t cleared from the Doc yet, just taught her and showed her want to do. Once cleared, we went to the range … so I could see if I could still swing a club. I could. So we went from the range directly to the course which was across the street. She would chip and put and I would see if I could still play.
I had 2 pars and a birdie on the front and 4 pars on the back. Bogeys mostly other than that with a couple of doubles. Not bad considering the circumstances.
The lesson is this. Men … be a master at something … whatever that something may be … women respect that. And even though she’d never seen me play golf before … I had spoken with confidence about my abilities … just like I’d spoken about other things. And it wasn’t an idle boast, I never boast about anything. If I said I was pretty good … then I was. Six holes into the front nine I hit an 8 iron 140 yrs to within 2 ft of the cup and made the put. Not bad considering the circumstances …
Fuzzie as for the 36 year old, I’m surprised RPG missed that and missed it so bad. Jesus … that’s a bad thing. That girl should be looking for 35-40 yr old or maybe even 45 … but a 24 yr old. Holy cripes !!! That’s not going to turn out well !!
Mega,
Good to hear.
Lol yeah a dad, I am getting up there! The 53 year old was married to her high school sweetie still!
@mega, agreed I would never predict that working usually but they oddly seem very right together. Normally I would never advise a gal go that much younger. His mom was REALLY opposed to it, likely for the reasons you state. I guess time will tell, for now they seem very smitten.
Years ago, in my brief foray into the IMHO very odd world of online dating, (did NOT like it, too weird!) I went out on one date w a man who had married a much older woman, then at age 50 decided apparently out of the blue he HAD to be a biological dad (they never had kids.) That wasn’t in his profile, but w/I 5 minutes of meeting him for the first face to face he was basically asking if I would have his kid ASAP. Ummmm… awkward. I did my best to warn him that choosing the woman to be mother of his child was not something to do hastily, then made some excuses to leave and exited stage right! Yikes! I worried about him long after and hope that did not end in a huge disaster for all involved. Desperation is not a good place to approach such huge life choices from, and he was truly DESPERATE to sow seed. He said the marriage had been great, but he could not let the kid thought go. So yeah, it happens!
A dad people mistake me all the time for around 36 years old. So far I have been lucky w the wall…
To clarify, I should have hit the wall long ago but for some reason I still get checked out on a surprisingly regular basis. I have been accused of having wicked good pheromones, bc personally I don’t think I am all that “pretty” or at least not in a head turner way but I often do turn heads nonetheless. Not sure why. More so than when I was in my youth, even. But that’s likely due to my post red pill awakening to playing up the feminine (dresses and skirts, longer hair, makeup, being positive, friendly and bubbly, etc.) vs in my younger days when I formerly bought the blue pill “pretty is weak, downplay your feminine or you’ll be a victim” approach to life. I wish I could rewind life sometimes, get a do-over, but all I can do is share what I have learned and hope it does help a younger gal! My sun is setting, but I am ok with it. I have many interesting pursuits and such, I don’t fear getting older, but I do plan to always try to look my best at any age and won’t neglect that ever again.
RPG … regarding get the “babies rabies” happens to men too. Probably will happen to that 24. But most women who get the disease are women … women who “realize” but won’t admit that they are not attractive to lock down a man for marriage … so they go kinda crazy and want to have a kid at all costs. Regardless of whether their is a father in the child’s life or not. These women usually have random pickup with a hot guy and tell them they are on BC when they’re not.
Not saying that guy you meet online wasn’t a perv … just saying weird, unethical behavior happens to both sexes when they get the Baby Rabies.
Definition “Baby Rabies”: https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=baby%20rabies
As to your comment about how you get checked out by men … maybe ever more so than when you are younger. That is easily believable using RP concepts. First … as men age … sex becomes less important … yes they still want sex but not like when you are in your 20s. Middle aged men … prefer a relationship with women around their age … though women still deny this … usually because THEY aren’t the ones being chosen. And as you know … Men’s market value usually increases into their 40s while women’s decreases. This means men become MORE choosey .. especially after divorce … the vet like mad. Long way of saying … if you have kept yourself in shape, dress tastefully, act like a lady, treat men with respect … yes, you will get lots of attention. Because most men your age … the one’s checking you out … are done looking for some slut … they want a girl who has her shit together.
Another way of looking at it is … you may not have hit the wall … but your SMV probably has declined anyway. But look what has happened to your competition … other women around your age. When 60% of other women are OBESE, and most of the other women have hit the wall hard or have so much baggage men want nothing to do with them …. YOU WILL LOOK PRETTY DARNED GOOD !!!
There is a phrase in the RP world about this … men competing to be the Top Alpha … it kinda goes like this … you don’t have to be the BEST … but you do need to be in the top 20% (or 10%) or whatever. There will be men better looking that you, more charming that you, have more money than you … but if you are in that top 20% … you got a pretty good chance. So … in your situation … you were probably desirable all along … say a 6 in men’s eyes … and now you’re a 7 or even an 8. In other words … you’ve moved to towards the top … just by having your shit together. And that would be a good lesson for other women to learn …
33 really? Unless reeeeeeeaaaally luck by 35 you are basically DONE as far as MMV is concerned.
Oh and I came up with a response to the six 6s. (As someone with 4 out of 6)
Introducing the Five 5s for the MMV (not SMV cause any skank can date)
Six feet tall. ….over five foot 5.
Cause any shorter and next to my 6-2 you look like a hobbit
Six figure income….less than 5 months salary in non housing debt.
Cause I’m not servicing your debt with my salary, i manage my money.
Six months out of a relationship…..N no more than 5
1 in high school, 2 in college, 2 ltr that didn’t work out. Justify more??
Six pack abs….BMI under twenty 5. (150lb max at 5-5)
If I’m in shape why do I want a fatty? Seriously why?
Six in the pants….under 35.
Sorry but compared to the entire MMP is 36 passin the boner test?
Six hundred horse car…..NA.
Im the guy. I drive. My car. Period.
Been married 30 years and a 500 hp car.
Before Y’all get your knickers in a knot.
A six 6s guy (or four 6s) is desired. He has choices of the entire 20-55 marketplace.
Just being realistic. Truth bombs hurt.
RPG,
About the desperation in your date, online dating does that to guys. Privateman said that he had to send out one hundred messages to get a date. Odds like that tend to frustrate any guy.
For those that missed the “Exit stage right” reference.
Horseman,
The ones setting all those conditions are doing it to exclude men. Even if the find someone that fulfills ll their conditions, they will find another and set the bar even higher, to exclude him. Since we were all teenagers, we have known this to be baloney.
You know what? Let them keep setting conditions. It has gone beyond ridiculous.
Guess I wanted to weigh in and clarify a couple of things. First was RPG’s bizarre date’s behavior … the Baby Rabies. Dude wanted a kid and needed a woman to do that. I pointed out that its usually Women who get the Baby Rabies and I will even say they usually get them around 30 to their early 30s … they feel the biological clock ticking and want to get married and have a kid PRONTO !!! And if that fails … get completely delusional and usually try to pick someone Alpha … like a boss at work … and trick them into a fling in order to get pregnant. This is were those bizarre cases with the man actually using a condom and the woman fishing it out of the trash and using the sperm in it to get pregnant … come from. What I wanted to point out to RPG is these bizarre behaviors exist in both sexes and here is the news THAT IS USUALLY THE CASE. For example … in most cases where someone is a rude, opinionated, asshole, who shoots their mouth off … someone like Trump … they are usually men. But a small subset of women do this do … as was recently discussed. And that is usually the case … take some GENERALITY … some basic behavior that people don’t like and attribute that to men or attribute it to women AND you will find a small percentage of the opposite sex will do the same thing. I think that’s pretty obvious … but it didn’t seem to occur to the RPG when she discussed her strange date … and she’s pretty astute at reading people.
The second thing is a similar clarification and in this case its most guys who get it wrong and don’t understand the true picture. In talking about The Wall many guys act like its some sort of switch that goes off … there’s an expiration date and at 30 yrs and 6 months … BING !!! The timer goes off and The Wall hits and its over for her !!! That is just not true at all. Its not nearly that black and white and there are a million shades of gray in the middle.
First … The Wall hits every woman different and at different times. In fact … before she even recognizes that the wall has hit … its usually been many years of slow decline … during which she noticed nothing at all. This is usually the case where a women dumps her hubby in mid life … like the 40s. Doesn’t respect hubby any more and thinks she can do better. So dumps his ass, treats him like shit … and then enters the dating market to a HUGE SURPRISE … nobody told you sweetie … but men don’t think you are so hot anymore and the men who used to think you were sexy … JUST DON”T CARE ANYMORE. Its usually a huge shock and they do not handle it well at all. I’ve said here many times that most divorced middle aged women today (in the US) are mentally ill and this is a huge part of it. Society tells them that they are the top of the heap and men are supposed to find them sexy … even if they are 50 lbs overweight .. you go girl … divorce your hubby and everything will be great !!! And its crushing blow for them to find out that men just don’t care anymore and the kind of man they can attract … is some disgusting jerk they don’t want. Frankly this drives a lot of them into denial, delusion, and a trip in to la-la land.
And The Wall has ramifications in other ways too. It can … be staved off … for years … with diet and exercise and in keeping a good attitude. Many women into there 40s and 50s will still have the attention of men as long as they stay fit. It doesn’t drop off the face of a cliff. In fact, in some cases … like RPG here … she has maintained her figure, actually become more feminine and embraced that, learned how to treat men with respect, and in addition … runs a business and supports herself and her family. All things men find highly desirable. So over the years … she has maintained her SMV or even improved it … while almost her competition has seen huge declines … the result for her ??? She’s more popular than ever … according to her, lol, but I have no reason to doubt her claims … because it can and does happen. Again … many shades of gray … the wall can be held off for years and in some rare cases actually result in a woman increasing her SMV.
Guess the point here is that things are not so black and white. A lot of of things women do … some men do. A lot of things men do … some women do. The Wall is real … but its not a cliff, it applies to every woman differently, and hits at different times and for different reasons. And in some cases, like RPG … it can work to her advantage … because it ends up increasing her value not decreasing it.
Anyway, that’s all I got to say about that (thanks karen) … where is the Deti or some other guru when you need them …
Mega,
Women over fifty don’t seem to have the luck they want with dating. I heard from one that had a first date with someone she was so politically incompatible with that she deleted her OkCupid profile. That is a little extreme and easily preventable.
There is a new post at Spawny’s
https://spawnyspace.wordpress.com/2017/08/08/teach-the-children-well/
To mega’s point
WIFE GOGGLES!!!
The only know cure for the Wall.
They are Irreplaceable.
I wrote a much longer post but it didnt seem to make it… but basically yes, horseman. Agreed re wife goggles. The woman re entering the smp post fri orcs will soon find this put, but sadly even if she tries to go back to her marriage, the wife goggles will be gone there, too.
I’ll write a post on this, many women have no idea…
@mega, also agreed you are likely right re my experience not being the norm and why. Plus since I met my ex at 19, married at 24, and was so for over a dozen years, I wasn’t on the market for all that time… I didn’t want to be back on the market either, but yes dating at 35+ is NOT the same as dating at 18. For sure! The world had changed. I mostly kept to myself and waited bc I just couldn’t do the casual/hook up and hope thing. Not my thing, which limited my options but also likely increased my value unknowingly compared to the carousel rider gals.
Being single sucks, I thought! Overrated. Gals who think its going to be “fun” are in for a huge shock!
RPG, yep, that would be a good post to write about….
“Agreed re wife goggles. The woman re entering the smp post frivorce will soon find this put, but sadly even if she tries to go back to her marriage, the wife goggles will be gone there, too.”
A husband who wears wife-goggles does so willingly, not unwittingly. A wise woman won’t screw that up.
I do believe in wife goggles. They can be a very powerful ally to a loyal wife. However, a while ago, I read a post for, a man who felt betrayed by his wife, She may have threatened divorce. The wife goggles came off. Any disloyalty and the advantage is lost.
So true re wife goggles, I will do a post.
And really, had I not found the red pill, I would still be as clueless as those women who don’t get the reality if the dating and marriage marketplace they face. I am glad I was able to learn to do and be different, because while I was nice and well meaning before, I simply did not get it. The way society says it works, doesn’t work. But despite it NOT working, I am amazed how many keep trying to make it work, and have no clue why they are getting the results (or non results) they are. I very likely would have stumbled along clueless, only to find myself alone and not getting “where all the good guys went.”
RPG,
The ones who believe the false narrative are confounding. Because they believe it, it becomes truth in their perception. That is hard to work with.
Seriously, no desireable man, i.e. he has options 25 to 55
EVER EVER EVER
said “Wow that 40 year old is hot, I want her out of ALL the available women in his field of view.
He might say ” Wow hot for 40.” But if there is even a plain 25 year old in the room the 25 wins at first glance.
And ladies, its is ALL about the First Glance.
Cause if he dont latch on immediately there will be no witty conversation or the fabulous meeting. He will simply say “Opps, excuse me” as he bumps into you walking past to approach the Hot because of her Youth 25 year old. Even if he has no shot.
Wife goggles locks you in at 25 or whenever you met.
I now know the Mrs behaviour from the Year From Hell and don’t think she wouldn’t fall into old habits if I let down my frame…
But….I still, willingly, knowingly as Larry says have wife goggles when I see her.
I see a slightly curvy 24 year old farm girl. Not a 53 year old size 20.
The Man of your Dreams out in The Dating Pool, because he is that,
Has Options.
Look in the mirror.
Really?
Your the best option?
The boring dude on your couch still thinks so.
True overheard this weekend.
Girls were a little tipsy, all mid 40s to 58.
One bitched that hubby still wanted it.
Mrs was “thank god he still does.”
Various pros and nos.
Led to how often, how long has it been.
Asked the only divorced one there. (She frivorced four years ago)
“2 summers ago. Summer we broke up.”
“Um…Hunny,….that was four years ago.”
A very quiet “shit.”
She then got reeeaaaly hammered.
She is a very well kept 45. ….but 45.
We weren’t talking about anything particularly heavy, just chit chat about fashion, trends, makeup, and the like
………
Which is why the most important thing to ever come out of a woman’s mouth is a penis
“A very quiet “shit.”
She then got reeeaaaly hammered.”
Women need to hear this before they nuke the marriage. Somehow, this gets overlooked in the “Dump him!” chorus.
“A very quiet “shit.”
She then got reeeaaaly hammered.”
So … she frivorced at 41 and at 45 has had sex once in 4 years. YUP. That’s how it works. She’s alone. Getting older by the day. No prospects except those BELOW what she thinks she deserves. Better get some cats lady … and get used to being alone. And why did this occur ? Because OTHER WOMEN LIED TO HER .. that’s why.
Mega,
It keeps happening. Someone wants to believe it. What I find difficult to believe is that the spinsters haven’t started howling.
I do believe in wife goggles.
Make boobs look bigger they do?
What I find difficult to believe is that the spinsters haven’t started howling.
Not given a megaphone they are,
unlike favored groups of women would be
Yoda,
“I do believe in wife goggles.
Make boobs look bigger they do?”
x3 magnification, very handy to keep by the bed
you do realize that if you let your wife wear the goggles for a bit, she ALSO sees a 3x magnification, right? Happy wifee?
Interesting things happen with googles. The cat wants to put them on the dog.
yoda
bigger and perkier. like in zero G.
and the turkey neck and hand veins…gone. the smooth skin of a 25 year old.
Those aren’t liver spots, they’re freckles, and so cute.
Nobody has ever mentioned it, but are there “husband goggles”?
There is a new post at Spawny’s
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Fuzzie … Husband googles work in reverse. SHIT ON WHAT YOU ALREADY HAVE … BECAUSE THERE IS SOMETHING BETTER OUT THERE. Its called Hypergamy.
Mega,
I had better keep the cat away from the wife goggles, then. Who knows what will happen if she puts them on the dog?
I thought what you refer to was influence from the wife’s peers.
I haven’t followed Cappy in several years … since he declared MGTOW men to be nothing but overweight losers living in their mothers basements. Despite being an Economist … he never could grasp that MGTOW is a rationale choice in the sexual marketplace. If society and the rules are against you … ensuring you cannot achieve the goals you have … then don’t play. Always seemed pretty simple to understand to me … yet Cappy insisted on shitting on MGTOW’s every chance he got. Maybe it made him feel better … because he’s short and women didn’t want him anyhow. Whatever … I moved on. Anyway, admit it was a pretty good clip by him. Women … are you overweight and over 50 ? Then, yes, you are invisible to men.
Horseman,
Woman may talk about this among themselves, but it is withheld from general knowledge. It is the fault of feminism encouraging them to burn through men.
Mega,
I don’t think he understands the young ones. The most motivated MGTOWs are still in or fresh out of high school. Why? Because they have seen far too much at second hand. Their parents, their neighbors’ parents, and contemporary girls have given them more insight than I have.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4754914/Where-good-men-gone.html
The youngest is 42!!!
Really.
If yiu wanna slam the menz at least use women who have a better than 1% chance.
Yeah single women 45+ outnumber men 7:1. But 80% wont date past 30 so its really 12:1.
Women. Really, if you are passed 45. GIVE UP. ITS NOT GOING TO HAPPEN!
(Ok for 1, singular, it will. But the other 546,386 of you… Nahuh)
Horseman,
There is something terribly wrong with that Daily Mail article. To begin with, I have no idea how they came up with the seven women for every man number. I think the whole article is a cryfest for not having the same demographic advantage they had in their twenties. To add to that, these are all UK women. Years ago, I read a profile of a woman in the UK listing all the dirty tricks she wouldn’t do. I can’t remember them but they are rare in the US. What I think has happened is that UK women have burnt through all the men in that age group and the women still want to play games with hypergamy. I am having a hard time feeling sorry for them.
Maybe I failed to see that for what it is. I have been wondering when the older women were going to start howling. This may be it. Silly me for thinking that men need to be defended. Of course they are going to blame men. I guess they have gone and done it. Men are withdrawing, something they never thought possible, given the strength of the male libido. While women may reject men individually, men reject collectively by not participating.
mgtowhorseman – I laughed at all of the comments in that article, but the one that really was humorous was the woman who dated the kid who was 23. Young guys are only looking to score if he sees she’s an easy target.
Honestly, none of the women in that article appeal to me at all. Trying way too hard. Even the youngest one looks way too old for me and she isn’t even really that much older than me, yet wouldn’t make the cut. 7:1 ratio? Those seem like incredible odds. I mean, I can’t imagine dating anyone older than mid-late 20’s, when the time comes, so I guess it’s accurate.
And the number one thing these women forget.
(Unless you are the 10% that legitimately got blindided by a hubby divorce)
If you are single at 40+ YOU ARE FLAWED.
You either were never marriageable or you blew up a marriage.
Before you scream You’re flawed too,
Yes. Yes we are.
But at 40+ it is men doing the choosing. Period.
And for the most part we don’t want to choosing at ALL
And if we do its out of the entire pool 25-50.
Not just the shallow end.
Remember MEN CHOOSE.
And we don’t choose Flawed.
(So take your 45 point list and reduce it to 1. Will he CHOOSE me?)
Horseman,
They aren’t going to accept this. Women have dominated the sexual marketplace from puberty. They got used to it, presuming the male sex drive was a lever to enslave any man. What? Make him a sandwich?
They own 15 to 35 absolutely.
Then the switch flips.
And at 20 the ratio is roughly 50:50.
At 40 after mgtow, frivorce, etc. It 25:50 as half the men self select out.
That is why Men Choose.
Its the half left that get to choose.
While that may be the reality, it doesn’t mean that women will accept it. They’ll drink their box wine at home believing otherwise.
Where did all the good men go? They are retired from the SMP( mgtow, married, ltrs etc) or banging chicks in their 20’s because younger gals want the exact same thing in a man as 40 + year olds. And a 20 year old HB7-8 Is mother fucking kryptonite to a 50 year old dude fresh out of a sexless marriage to aging bitch