In comments from the previous post something interesting came up, how feminism often portrays the worst case into the norm. But it’s not the norm, and thinking so leads to all kinds of problems.
For example, the idea that men are always the abusers all of the time. And the closely related “all men are rapists and abusers.”
Now clearly neither statement is truth nor do the stats even bear them out. Are some men abusers? Yes. But some is not most or all. The number of men who physically abuse women has always been a small number of the entire male population. And most men themselves feel revulsion at a “man” who abuses or victimizes anyone weaker than itself.
Another example, “All men leave.” Or the variation, “You always have to be independant in case he leaves.” Sure, statistically some men leave, but for the large part most men are more than willing to stay and are quite shocked themselves when their woman leaves them.
Another example is pay on the job. Yes, in some cases it has been revealed that men were making more for the same job. But in most cases, they aren’t. There is no secret keep women down society, there really isn’t.
So next time you find yourself accepting such statements as TRUTHS, look closer and see if it’s really so. More often than not it’s just another example of Apex fallacy, the belief that all men have it just like the top, most privileged men, when in reality they don’t. Sometimes, they have it worse, even much worse, than women! Yep.
Let those with ears hear.
mega – I never claimed to do anything for other men. I’m pretty sure that all I said is that men need to stick together.
I’ve not thrown any insults. Can you point to any specifically? I’d say that it’s the other way around.
What the fuck is wrong with you ? The Red Pill doesn’t set you free. The RP shows you how to recognize the truth. Like when you are dealing with a delusional moron. Know what’s causing this rage and blame … YOU REFUSING TO ADDRESS THE ISSUE … WHICH IS YOU ARE WRONG. INSTEAD YOU TAKE IT PERSONAL AND ATTACK ME.
You attack me. THEN FUCK YOU … I WILL ATTACK BACK. You want it personal … then have at it … just hope you can handle my response.
You’re really a piece of shit.
I’m still trying to figure out what I originally said, but you refuse to post a quote. You just posted a comment about how someone said something to blame other men, but you never said who or what it was.
Listen you condescending dickless mangina faggot … here is your own psychobabble … figure out the insults: But I’ll start with the first paragraph
– but all you’ve got now is rage and blame
– regarding your current girlfriend, I even sense fear.
-You speak that others are blaming everyone but themselves, but you actually post comments that blame fairly frequently
A Dad said:September 28, 2017 at 3:11 pm
mega – If I’m being completely honest, your red pill awareness hasn’t actually done what you think that it has. You now have the tools to handle life differently than you ever did before, but all you’ve got now is rage and blame. In some respects, regarding your current girlfriend, I even sense fear. You speak that others are blaming everyone but themselves, but you actually post comments that blame fairly frequently.
I don’t know your complete story. You’ve alluded to some of the pain in past posts. I am sympathetic. I truly am, because I and others have gone through it. But it sounds like you’ve got some things that you’ve still not come to terms with. You’ve got some things that haven’t yet been resolved.
We all are to blame because we have to own our own lives. None of it is easy. But that’s the way it all works. Ask yourself this. Do you hate your ex-wife now that you know her true nature? Do you blame her? Or do you blame yourself for the current situation? I ask you this question not to hurt you, or to be condescending. I ask you this because I think that it still eats away at you and I don’t want you to have to feel that way. The rage is like a cancer. You might project it on someone else, but it ultimately just eats you from the inside out.
Maybe we all handled things to the best of our abilities at the time. Sometimes things seem like the right decisions. The only thing that you can do is examine it and retrospectively correct it in the future. This experience has taught me many new things and has given me a new outlook on my future. I could let it destroy me, but I could also choose to reach my greatest potential as a man, father, etc. Finding RP and accepting the truth is very different than raging or crying in pain and wondering “How could she do this to me? That lying @&*^!”. We’ve got the tools now. We can step up and own it or suck down the purple pill and cherry pick the parts that we like.
Side note. I would recommend that you get more sleep, based upon your post timestamps. It really does wonders to fix the mind and body and you can’t physically and mentally grow without it.
mega – Where is the comment where I allegedly blame other men for this happening? That’s all I’m asking for. This is the post that you claim that someone made before all of this came about.
I think that you fabricated the whole thing based upon your own personal anger and regret. I could tell you the real reason why, but I think it’s going to strike a massive nerve.
If you want me to pull posts that you’ve made about your girlfriend, I can make this personal. All I was trying to do was address the pain and rage. You’ve got lots of it. Just a few days ago you threatened to kick someone’s ass for being a “faggot” for an honest post that they made. Now you are making the same comments to me.
Post the comment where I blame previous generations of men for these problems. I’d like to know when I said that.
Listen … this isn’t about what I posted … its about you being a fucking lunatic attacking me and expect me to do nothing about it. YOU WANT TO GET PERSONAL … WELL FUCKING BRING IT ON … DIP SHIT.
READ YOUR OWN FUCKING POST … AND I POSTED IT IN ITS ENTIRETY … YOU MORON … WHY DID YOU ATTACK ME ? READ YOUR OWN WORDS.
Since you’re obviously a fucked up in the head stalker freak … I have no doubts that you’d read thru every post I’ve ever made about the GF and try to twist it into something its not. Its what weirdos do. For the normal people reading this blog … they’d recognize that I love my GF and have probably spilled way too many details of a sexual nature, lol.
Actually, upon thinking of it … I got a challenge … Dad dig thru my posts … DARE YOU … all of them … relating to the GF and post ANYTHING and I mean ANYTHING that speaks ill of her OR … that indicates that I’m afraid of her.
Please use the quote feature. And reference the date and time … so honest observers can view for themselves. And I think we’ll learn the truth. Again … reminder … please use the quote feature and reference date and time. No lying. No speaking out of context. QUOTE WHAT I SAID …
It’s absolutely about what you’ve posted, because you fabricate things that people say to make bogus claims and post long tirades.
What’s the real issue here? Why did you strike out when I made comments about the fact that I didn’t walk out on my kid? Is that what I said that really stuck a nerve?
You know what A DAD … you remind me of a woman … who just make things up to justify what they want.
I didn’t fabricate anything. YOU ATTACKED ME.
I didn’t make bogus claims.
I didn’t post long tirades.
YOU ARE A FUCKING TWO FACED LYING FAGGOT WHO ATTACKED ME. AND I”M PISSED AND DEFENDING MYSELF. NONE OF YOUR LIES ARE GOING TO CHANGE THAT.
What’s the real issue here ? And I don’t give a fuck if you walked out on your kid or not. That’s your issue to deal, with not mine. The issue here is YOU PERSONALLY ATTACKED ME.
Is that what struck a nerve ? YEAH DUDE … YOU ACT LIKE A CONDESCENDING PRICK … ATTACK ME AND THEN DENY EVERYTHING. AIN”T YOUR FAULT … DUDE IT IS. LOOK AT YOUR ENTIRE POST THAT I QUOTED. THE ENTIRE THING IS NOTHING BUT LIES AND BULLSHIT DESIGNED TO PUT ME DOWN AND MAKE YOU LOOK LIKE A HERO.
You tried using my relationship with my GF to put me down. I asked that you provide evidence. CAN YOU ? Yes … its easy … if it happend use the quote feature … date and time of post. Of course … if you’re a lying asshole who is just trying to treat someone who disagrees with him … LIKE SHIT … you won’t do a thing. So dude … prove it … the GF … QUOTE ME ASSHOLE !!!
I’m going to bed … since Dad monitors the date/time of every post I make … guess he can see its late. Better not wake up early and post again !!!!
And, yeah, he’ll probably spend the night digging through my posting history about the GF and realize … what I said was true … so instead he will MAKE UP MORE LIES !!!
What the fuck is wrong with people ????
Ok guys, not sure what this is about but can we please just agree to disagree? I value you both and enjoy your comments. Lets not get personal. For me, k? Just ignore each others posts if needed. We are all at different points in the journey and all have different experiences and backgrounds so that’s bound to cause stuff at times but really the way the world is and those trying to keep everyone blind are the enemies, not each other ok? Peace.
P.s. I probably have the worst sleep habits of all! I wish I slept better but I pretty much seem to have chronic insomnia so when I wake up I just catch up on the blog and then fall back asleep! My bf wants me to get a sleep study and I plan to but I hope I don’t need that dearth vader mask thing.
Horseman, I definitely and wholeheartedly believe in romantic love. I live it everyday and it is hard to describe how fulfilling it is. Definitely thankful I married a good man.
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Romantic love = all lubed up over some particular man
Which is good right and just but let’s be adults enough not to church shit up.
Water is wet, dogs like sniffing butts and mega is going to vomit nonsense pretty damn often.
It’s all just is what it is
me, too. i did that sleep study last year and totally freaked out when they tried those vader mask things on me. shocked me that they freaked me out, but they did. so … not doing them. i’ve found melatonin helps me, but only one brand and a low dose. my daughter has found Boiron Coffea Cruda 200 CK Homeopathic Medicine for Sleeplessness helps her most of the time.
Ton-son :
“Water is wet, dogs like sniffing butts and mega is going to vomit nonsense pretty damn often.
It’s all just is what it is”
Yup. Just like retarded, southerners are inbred hillbillies. They sniff butts like dogs because they’re too stupid to speak standard English. And most of them would prefer to fuck their sister or their cousin or their own mom … cause they’d actually have to take a a shower and go out of the house to meet a real woman. So … fucking their sister … looks pretty damn good better than the mutt in the backyard and sheep aren’t out of the question either.
No wonder the “south” got their ass kicked in the Civil War and they even had Slaves to fight for them … because the whites would have shit their pants if the actually had to meet someone in combat.
Bet careful who you fuck with … you might not get the reaction you expected. Oh and fuck you for being a coward and talking shit behind my back …
You get way too bent out of shape. Cool off. We’re all on the same team.
FYI, Dad … there is another board where Ton and I post. I posted there that I wasn’t coming back here anymore. So the pathetic lying bastard snuck here and posted behind my back, insulting me … thinking I wouldn’t see it. And even if I did … I wouldn’t respond. Because I said I wasn’t posting here anymore. And since I have integrity and Ton doesn’t … the pathetic lying faggot thought he could get away with it. Well, I reneged … posted anyway and called him out on his deceptive behavior.
You’re welcome … for seeing how slime bags get called out on their behavior. Somebody takes a cheap shot … you hit them back 10x. Don’t like it … don’t take cheap shots on somebody. FYI.
Guess I should follow up with the Red Pill Girl is on the other blog too. So she knows that I said I wasn’t going to be posting here anymore after the latest shitfest. And then Ton posted here insulting me after he thought I wasn’t going to know about it. It is what it is. And yeah … I hit back 10x hard.
Ok Mega, we understand. Peace! And I wish you much happiness. Thanks for not engaging any further, it’s gone far enough.