Lol, perhaps this poem from a book published in 1981 foretold the red pill:
Ladies First
Pamela Purse yelled, ‘Ladies first,’
Pushing in front of the ice cream line.
Pamela Purse yelled, ‘Ladies first,’
Grabbing the ketchup at dinnertime.
Climbing on the morning bus
She’d shove right by all of us
And there’d be a tiff or a fight or a fuss
When Pamela Purse yelled, ‘Ladies first.’
Pamela Purse screamed, ‘Ladies first,’
When we went off on our jungle trip.
Pamela Purse said her thirst was worse
And guzzled our water, every sip.
And when we got grabbed by that wild savage band,
Who tied us together and made us all stand
In a long line in front of the King of the land-
A cannibal known as Fry-‘Em-Up Dan,
Who sat on his throne in a bib so grand
With a lick of his lips and a fork in his hand,
As he tried to decide who’d be first in the pan-
From back of the line, in that shrill voice of hers,
Pamela Purse yelled, ‘Ladies first.’
What do you think? Please share in the comments!
As a child I loved many books by this author. My youngest brought home the book this poem is in from the school library w/o knowing that. Our bratty dog 🐕 ate the cover and back of the book, also not knowing I actually always loved it. So for a $22 fine we now read several poems a night! Lol. I guess the dog could not have picked a better school library book to destroy?
I’ll also buy a new one and donate it to the school library, on top of the fine, just to be extra nice!
I don’t remember many stories about women who acted this way. Most of them were about little bad boys who poked little girls and pulled their hair.
Women will stay on the selfish-vain train even to their demise.
@roman true — most kids stories support the narrative that little girls are sugar and spice while little boys are snails and puppy dog tails. Few show this side of things!
Given all the crap, particularly from churches, that we take on Fathers day, please spread this story far and wide.
THIS is a child who honours and truly loves his father just for the good man he is.
https://www.theglobeandmail.com/opinion/article-oh-to-have-one-more-pint-with-dad/
There is a new post at Spawny’s
https://spawnyspace.wordpress.com/2018/06/14/wonder-woman-versus-rey/
There seems to be a good life lesson in that story without pouring it on too thick
Shouldn’t you act like a lady first?
And the horseman is at it again … just making too much sense: “Given all the crap, particularly from churches, that we take on Fathers day, please spread this story far and wide.”
Reminds of why I walked away from my last church and why I haven’t been back there or any other church. Went to Mother’s Day and it was awful nice … all the blathering on about mothers and how awesome they are. Didn’t care for them shitting on men, but most of the sermon was decent. Women are great and mom’s are great too.
And then we got to Father’s Day … only to find out every male on the planet is disgusting worthless piece of garbage, unemployed, broke, drunk, drug using serial rapist and child molesters who beat women and make them do everything. The vitriol was off the charts. Fuck them.
Walked away. Haven’t been back. I do miss some of the spiritual aspects though, I will admit that. There was good there … in Christianity … but the bad, the evil couldn’t be ignored. Infested by Feminism and hate … and treating men like crap instead of the leaders they should be. No thanks !!! Pretty much ruined Fathers Day for me … although my father has passed, so wasn’t a special day anymore anyway.
Case anyone is wondering …. doc checkup went pretty well, not going to die anytime soon … as far as they know, anyway. Keep taking the meds and come back in 3 months for another CT Scan. Who knows, maybe the shit on my lungs will have gone away by then. Do admit though, the meds do seem to be working. Feeling quite a bit better.
On the relationship front, not sure what’s up with the GF. She seems to be drifting away. Maybe the marriage talk scared her off. All I know is if I don’t call her and set up a date … then we don’t talk, and don’t have a date. Ever. Getting tired of it. Maybe she just doesn’t care. Wouldn’t hurt her to pick up the phone if we haven’t talked for 4 days. Thinking of maybe looking around again. Why should I care, if she don’t. Just sayin. Woman, if you appreciate your man … get off your ass and show it. And … NO, WE CAN”T READ YOUR MINDS.
Peace
Something for you guys to chew on:
Dear Joan Letter to Feminism
May 19, 2018Dr. Taylor Burrowes
I’m MAD that you took away my right to choose what I wanted AS A WOMAN. I’m angry that you took things too far when you pushed me out of my natural nurturing role and into a man’s world. The expectation to strive and succeed amongst men killed my femininity, thank you FEMINISM!
Why did you have to go and steal my hopes and dreams from me? You’re selfish and never cared enough about what I really wanted to even ask me first. Maybe I didn’t want to spend 18 years in post-grad school when I would have rather been prioritizing prospects for finding a good partner.
I would’ve never let you swindle me out of my prime years in the name of PROGRESS. I would rather have used my god-given gifts on what is truly important to me.
My PhD can’t defend me in an attack or keep me safe from harm. It doesn’t even guarantee that I’ll be financially robust
Sure, it’s impressive to OTHER WOMEN in the game of competition, but what the heck are we competing for?
Men don’t care that I have a PhD, in fact, it limits my options in the dating pool. It’s like height, I’m tall – so average height men are mainly out of the market for me.
I can’t pair with a man beneath me, literally and figuratively. You forgot to discuss this temper tantrum you had decades ago with your older sister HYPERGAMY.
If you had, she would have put you in your place long time ago. But you had to go rogue and try to prove your point.
I just can’t believe I let you manipulate me into neglecting my feminine ideals & self-sabotaging to the point that I may have set myself up for being alone without any family of my own; all while I help other people find and keep their happy lives with their partners and families going.
I know somewhere along the way you probably thought you were right for doing what you did, but I need you to stop and reconsider things now.
I can’t go back and redo my twenties or even go back to puberty and start my socialization over so that I understand male/female dynamics REALISTICALLY
My life may be irreversible and I’ll have to make peace with the consequences of what you did. However, I know you’re still out there doing this to other people.
I’m just asking you to stop for the sake of LOVE and FAMILY VALUES. Let WOMEN be WOMEN again and for goodness sake LET MEN BE MEN!!!
If there’s anything I can say to appeal to your senses, this is it: THANK YOU for showing me I am powerful & smart when I need to be. I will take that with me. It’s just not the WHOLE STORY. I need to RESPECT HONOR & ADMIRE a partner.
This is what I needed to learn:
Men are awesome creatures when they are at their best and I need one in my life to love and keep me safe and ensure a healthy and happy home and life.
Find a man that inspires your whole being so that even when you disagree, you defer to his leadership.
There is no need to rebel against his leadership if you choose wisely. When you do, know that “the ship has sailed” and you with be on course for a lifetime of adventure together. You can strategize our teamwork to plan according to all the challenges at sea, but we must not waver.
Being feminine is everything. denying our BEAUTY is a sin on humanity. Embrace and celebrate your inner and outer sensual essence by being graceful, selective, kind, joyful, warm, loving & intuitive. You can do so without being weak or meek or insignificant.
I was put on this earth to LOVE and to HEAL and to HELP and SUPPORT someone, my someone! There’s is no PROGRESS without leadership, there is no leadership without followership, there is no HOME without a healthy system to guide & protect it and there is no love without a HOME.
Enough FEMINISM, you have done enough damage…
You’ve proven your twisted point. If you carry on any further you are going to DESTROY life & love as we (used to) know it.
Women will rule the world with subservient masses of weak men. THEN WHAT? Will you stop then? Will you be happy when you look around at the mess you’ve created and smile? I don’t think so! I think you’ll wail like you’ve never felt sadness and despair before once you understand what you’ve “created.”
The destruction will be catastrophic and it’s already begun. But it’s not too late, for our future even if it’s too late for some. So, I beg you FEMINISM:
Enough! You’ve had your run, let go of the death grip on “EQUALITY” and listen to your inner voice I know you still have it. You don’t have to fight anymore. I’m sorry if you’re hurt by my leaving…
But, I’m done.
All the best,
The generations of women from whom you squandered youth and the Divine Feminine for too long
***
I am a professional Marriage & Family Therapist/Consultant, and I want to help women & men find their true calling together. If you want to explore these ideas more: get on my email list and we can stay connected.
‘I’m MAD that you took away my right to choose what I wanted AS A WOMAN. I’m angry that you took things too far when you pushed me out of my natural nurturing role and into a man’s world. The expectation to strive and succeed amongst men killed my femininity, thank you FEMINISM!’
They didn’t take away her right to choose…she chose that path and now is mad at the consequences.
Too bad this Taylor is a man writing as a woman.
Too forthright, introspective and honest for a modern woman.
Even if all she wanted comes to pass, Men have left the building.
We wouldn’t believe it, we’d be looking for the hidden motive.
The Biggest concern women who may feel this way….
WE DO NOT TRUST YOU!
ANY of you.
Period.
“I was put on this earth to LOVE and to HEAL and to HELP and SUPPORT someone, my someone! ”
And “oh he won’t bite”, and ” no really, I didn’t get your text” and “North Korea will give up its nukes.”
There is a 1% chance that you, personally, are being sincere in This situation….
But our response is still….
Ahahahahahahahahaha…oh, you’re serious?…ahahahahaha.
https://www.instagram.com/drbabelovelife/?hl=en
These is her instagram page…
‘Too bad this Taylor is a man writing as a woman.’
@horseman…
Pretty sure it’s a woman, considering she made a choice and now is looking for someone to blame for the consequences and she never had a choice in the matter.
Although the not shocking thing is how she refers to herself as ‘Dr. Babe’.
Yeah that PhD really doesn’t matter.
Who knows, maybe one night she was stressed out and depressed that feminism wasn’t bringing her great success in life and she stumbled into the sphere got a dose of truth and learned terms like hypergamy, why men don’t care about her awesome degree, and why she sees most men as beneath her. Where else was she going to find that?
See what I mean about Father’s day, front page of the CBC.
http://www.cbc.ca/parents/learning/view/how-i-handle-being-a-mom-and-dad-on-fathers-day
How is it that most marriage counselors, matchmakers are single women? How can they counsel other people on relationships while being single?
I stand corrected.
Dr Babe Lovelife….hmmm yes I will trust her…..
‘How is it that most marriage counselors, matchmakers are single women? How can they counsel other people on relationships while being single?’
It’s probably along the same lines of reasoning that when a woman owns a dog it somehow makes her a mother.
‘For 364 days of the year, she seems relatively unscathed by the concept of divorce and her dad’s absence from her life. ‘
Once again showing often how little self-awareness these single mothers have about the damage they create for their children when they take dad out of the picture.
“Maybe I didn’t want to spend 18 years in post-grad school”
EIGHTEEN YEARS in post-grad school? How is that even possible?
Must be typo…8
Womnenz are no good at math.
Fertility ends at 35… But I want a baby at 45. Therefore 35=45, ok 45+1!
Also 7 at 25 = 9 at 39 riiiiight!!
See bad math…
Btw
WE DO NOT TRUST YOU!
ANY of you.
Period.
Nor do we care
I walked out of church on a fathers day and aint been back
Dr Babe Lovelife….hmmm yes I will trust her…..
Yes of course. If your name is your profession, then that adds credibility. Kinda like “The Professor” on Gilligan’s Island
I always loved this! When you demand more, instead of being grateful for your natural place in the order of things, you end up with nothing.
That’s a lesson for modern-minded and/or feminist women, if ever I heard one.
um, no? Not written by a woman but some guy who wishes he had tits…
“Dear Joan Letter to Feminism
May 19, 2018Dr. Taylor Burrowes”
Man I HOPE he’s a better therapist than a fake femwriter…have my doubts but what the hell, I’ve been wrong once in my life before this..
“I am a professional Marriage & Family Therapist/Consultant, and I want to help women & men find their true calling together”
For cat lovers…
ah jeez…I’m not a Marriage & Family Therapist/Consultant, I just play one on TV. “I want to help women & men find their true calling together” In a nutshell, men bang women and work to earn money, women pop out babies and spend the money men make after making sammiches..that is their “true calling”. You’re welcome.
Ton: “I walked out of church on a fathers day and aint been back”.
Wow … we finally got something in common … I did exactly the same thing. I always wondered why men in the church got treated like such retards … after that, I figured it out. Probably should have done it sooner but was still pretty Blue Pill back then … why would I suspect the church to be cutting my nuts off ??? But yeah, anyone with 1/2 brain won’t put up with being treated like garbage. Vote with the feet. Leave. Its been happening for decades that why most churches are garbage these days. All the real men left.
From the stuff Dalrock has brought up with the Southern Baptist Church hating on men and fathers…I’d walk out of there too.
Roman Lance said: I don’t remember many stories about women who acted this way.
There Was a Little Girl
In case anyone cares, I just read thru the comments on the last several posts, looking for posts I’ve made or those that responded to me. Truth is … I haven’t been here much lately and just show up and blast away a bit when things piss me off … and then go away. Trying to cut my time in the sphere … not sure its healthy for me. Anyway, I finally read the responses to my posts and they were actually quite good, better then expected, maybe better than deserved. Several people understood that I’m going thru a difficult time and was probably just lashing out … and truth be told, that’s probably true.
So anyway, thanks for the comments and the concern. Life just seems pretty effed up right now. Everywhere I turn, its seems to be nothing but crap, garbage, and bad shit happening. And, dang, sometimes that’s hard to deal with. Yeah, cry me a river, lol.
Guess I should apologize to Warwicke. Man, I went off on him pretty good … and he took the high-road. Much appreciated, man … props to you.
Still not sure what Steph was pissed about awhile back, guess I told her she was wrong about something and since she has a Vagina … yeah. And probably not worth pursuing given my current mood and the shit going down at the FBI. You know, with it being inhabited by criminals getting away with stuff that would put anyone but another COP in prison for decades making little rocks out of bigger ones. Or maybe executed for treason. But free pass given if you’re an asshole fucking the public and hiding behind a badge; because the BLUE LINE and all. So … maybe I better just shut up now. Here’s a hint to Steph … don’t ever go on Youtube and search for “police abuse” … you aren’t going to like what you find. And what you see there … multiple by 1,000. And, yeah, I just deleted a bunch of nasty, nasty stuff … so as not to be an ahole and and be accused of going on personal attack … you’re welcome Bloom (I tried, I really, really did). Delete. Delete. Delete some more. Don’t go there … just delete. Stephanie will get what she deserves, one way or another. Not saying she married SATAN … but if the show fits …
Damn, I’m on a bad tangent these days. Can’t seem to tell the truth without getting pissed and rubbing it in. Think that’s what society needs though. Arrest all the lying mofos and round them up. French revolution style seems fitting. Round them up. Make a public spectical … put it on display. Round up the public. Let them watch. Make them watch. Make them understand. You are in power … the citizens are … and the lying faggot, Satan loving, pedophiles aren’t. Badges/Cops ain’t going to be able to protect the EVIL and will go down with them. SO LET THE GUILLOTINES FALL, is how I think this probably ends. Has in the past. The past predicts the future.
Pretty sure how this ends. Unless God steps in. Is it the end of times ?
Been thinking of doing something radical … like set up a Patreon site … who’s willing to donate to put a bullet into Hillary’s head ? Obama’s ? Comey’s ? Holder’s ? The list goes on … donate a $100 and you’ll get entered into a raffle and when the criminals are held accountable by a court and a jury … you’ll be able to pull the trigger or pull the switch, or inject the meds, or let the Guillotine fall … whatever the end method is. How many millions of people wouldn’t pay to finally get justice ? How many voted for Trump …50 million ? How many would pay to actually be able to participate in hold the criminals accountable ? To take back our society ?
BUT THEN AGAIN … reality kicks in. The criminals control all the tech sites. No chance in hell I’d ever to be able to take donations to hold the scum responsible. NOT GONNA HAPPEN.
Guess that’s why I’m pissed these days. Everywhere you look, the scum are in control and there is no way to fight back. Say something and you end up in prison … heck, 1/2 of what I said here could end me in prison. What’s a person to do ?
Yeah Mega, not sure what will happen but the wheels of Justice often turn more slowly than one would like. And mob rules can just as swiftly turn the other way, probably not good even if it feels good at the time. Regardless, there’s Justice in the here and now and eternal Justice… nothing is unseen. The day will come one way or another. Justice of the eternal kind is the one to fear. No escaping that.
Sorry about the girlfriend. She may just be processing the trip and the health scare and all that. With time and some stoicism from you, she may get past the emotions of the moment. Try not to react too much one way or the other would be my advice…
love that poem!
bitchy little girls really begin to reveal their true nature by 3rd grade. kinder thru 2nd, they can usually contain it. but by 3rd, all bets are off. then their mama’s get behind them, and it’s terrible.
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church. sigh. liked us till my husband left … and i was a single mom with a special needs little one who didn’t fit into the mold of their children’s ministry … and couldn’t volunteer b/c of my special needs daughter. after so many weeks of having at least one of my kids crying on the way home from church, i decided that was not how i wanted my girls to relate to God, so i separated God from church, stopped going to church, kept God in our lives, and now my girls love Jesus but don’t trust church people. doesn’t help that their dad’s parents are retired from pastoral ministry and have done lots of terrible things to all three of us. but, alas, that’s another story.
it would be nice to find a place where they simply teach the Bible, help those who need help, and take care of one another. i miss the spiritual parts, too. but it will take something huge for me to trust enough to go to church again.
mgtowhorsemansaid:June 14, 2018 at 8:42 pm
Given all the crap, particularly from churches, that we take on Fathers day, please spread this story far and wide.
THIS is a child who honours and truly loves his father just for the good man he is.
https://www.theglobeandmail.com/opinion/article-oh-to-have-one-more-pint-with-dad/
oh.my.gawash. that made me cry. what an amazing gift both those men were to each other.
Father’s Day is a rough day for us … i’ll send my dad the obligatory happy father’s day text message, and my girls will try to stay busy and forget what the day is. they miss their Daddy. we’d probably think about visiting his grave but we need to pick a time his parents are not likely to be there, too. so, probably not.
Mega – Stephanie doesn’t hate you. but she is head-over-heels in love with her Husband, and she supports him and his career and profession with her whole being – as she should.
and … we need good cops out there. i’m thankful her husband is willing to risk his life and be a good cop.
Hugs Ame. Father’s Day was always hard for me too, having lost my dad to a car accident (I wasn’t in) when I was 2. My youngest brought home a book they made at school for Father’s Day, a fill in the blank type thing. I thought how hard such a project must be for some kids who, like myself at that age, had nobody to give it to. 😦 Hugs to your girls! And you. I now celebrate my dad by celebrating all dads by giving something away to dads via my biz for free for Father’s Day.
ahhh, Bloom, you are amazing! what a gift your life is!
(((hugs))) to you, too 🙂
True Ame, to say all cops are bad cops is similar to saying all men are bad men. Are there bad cops? Absolutely. Does that make every cop a bad cop? No. I would like to think Stephanie’s hubby is one of the good ones!
From the stuff Dalrock has brought up with the Southern Baptist Church hating on men and fathers…I’d walk out of there too.
……..
But you’ll stay with a church which favors child rapist over childern?
There is a new post at Spawny’s
https://spawnyspace.wordpress.com/2018/06/16/shit-test-diagnosis-and-cure/
Christ is the cornerstone and it’s the only place that has the sacrament of the Eucharist.
Why not go on various media, meetup, etc. and start your own bible discussion group?
Try being a large white man who is a serious Toaist in a small rural christian town.
Closest temple is in Toronto, 2 hours away.
But there are several good Toaist websites that I read and contribute to that provides the sharing of faith.
To paraphrase Earl, your gods are within you, know them through your own relationship with them.
LOL the voice of the brain washed right there but going on supporting the child rapists. Just don’t expect me to give you, or any Catholic, any sort of moral cred
Its 5:00 on a Saturday afternoon. It should be time for the Bugs Bunny\Road Runner Hour.
Sigh.
@Mega All’s well. You’ll find that I rarely disagree with a fellow conservative/traditionalist. I do, however, sometimes take the position of agreement with some caveats attached to it. This can pretty easily be mistaken for disagreement on my part.
Since someone brought up churches, I must ask: anyone here tried Eastern Orthodoxy or Byzantine Catholicism?
You might be pleasantly surprised if you do. They have consistently refused to budge on traditional marriage & traditional gender roles. Plus they have ways for the laity, not just the monks, to pursue direct spiritual insight to some extent. There are parishes being started all the time here in the South, and not just in the coastal areas. In fact, many of them consist mostly of Western converts—even the priest being one himself!