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So just minutes ago, I randomly happened to see a post on Instagram with pink plastic reusable-but-also-disposable cups for — I am assuming — a bachelorette party (???) that say, “Same penis forever.” Along with a diamond engagement ring clip art image.
So naturally I had to write a post.
How depressingly red pill is that? Are the holders of said cups already regretting the end of the Alpha Fux, soon to be beta bux (AF/bb) era? Are the cups being both reusable (for a whole weekend!!!) but disposable a sign of the times?
Is this a healthy and marriage-ready or marriage-worthy sentiment? How long until that same penis gets old? What then?
Or am I just taking a joke and a lighthearted spin on the male version of this sentiment all too seriously?
As one manospherisn might say, (Drink!) And then discuss in the comments!
Notes From a Red Pill Girl 
Onya Rpgn
I am thinking that such a woman isn’t marriage-worthy
Pics?
I am not sure how to download a pic from Instagram but these cups are similar just a darker pink: https://www.etsy.com/listing/538984789/sale-bachelorette-party-cups-same-penis
Maybe not so popular, thank goodness, they are on sale for $3! Yay! (Not!)
Hopefully it’s a joke?
Omg if you swipe right thru the photos, it gets worse!
Who would buy this?!?!
‘Who would buy this?!?!’
Welcome to the state of modern women…how far you’ve ladies have fallen.
OMG, did you read any of the reviews? Scroll through some of the pics that customers posted. lol
Here’s another company to visit:
https://deviantdesserts.com/
https://deviantdesserts.com/collections/frontpage/products/penis-chocolates
Perhaps part of the red pill the ladies don’t easily digest is the fact men keep pointing this out about how this is how a lot of ‘ladies’ act…but they don’t want to believe it.
I did not read the reviews… now I am afraid to! Lol. But will look…
This strikes me as maybe a sorority girl thing?
3820 reviews?!? That’s a LOT of cups!
Another cup option/party theme is “last fling before the ring!” Hopefully also a joke?!?!
@fml are those supposed to be bitten off chocolate penises?!?! Complete w lipstick mark? Yikes! Who would order that?!?!
Personally i don’t see a problem with the cups. Yeah, maybe a bit crass, but so what. NBD.
I would order them, and have them sent to “someone special” 😜
I think that is supposed to be blood, not lipstick.
But I like your thinking 🤪
I thought it was the maid of honor’s job to arrange the “bachelorette” party?
Thought it was the “new age custom” to have a sort of “roast to single hood” that’s kind of an attempt to embarrass the bride (similar to the old bachelor parties) before the wedding.
So in that context, the bride wouldn’t have anything to do with these party favors.
Just as a disclaimer, I eloped so I never had one of these parties.
You could call them maids of dishonor then.
Those cakes are really creepy. Wonder if she used a 3D printer for that?
Never hosted a hen party or wedding shower, but I’ve hosted a lot of baby showers.
Co-hosted one baby shower with a married lady, at her home (middle aged, his second marriage). She had no children. It was obvious she’d never had children, because her entire theme was X-rated. She wanted to put vibrators and negligee and lotion and so forth in the baby basket as an “after pregnancy basket” that she “could use when she got home from the hospital”. All of her gifts were adult-themed. Fortunately I found out ahead of time and nipped (heh, pun dat) most of it in the bud, made it more appropriately themed and gifted. Our pregnant friend, who didn’t want to offend the lady hosting her shower but had caught wind of what was in store, was very very grateful.
These things are always socially awkward. It wasn’t fun to have to tell the woman, who was very excited and wanted to make the adult rated baby shower “fun”, that her idea was fucked up. She meant well, and it was her home and she was using her money to do the decorating (at least half, the other half was mine). In the same vein I’m sure it’s kind of awkward for the bride…maybe she loved it, otoh, maybe she hated it.
I know if I’d had a hen party my sister in law (whose best friends were all hookers and strippers at the time) would’ve come up with something truly awful and shudder-worthy.
One my husband’s family members had this kind of bachelorette party thing… and she was “pinning” those kinds of favors herself onto her pinterest… which then showed up on her facebook where even her dad can view it (along with all the rest of the family members connected to her)! Thought it was awful… but apparently we’re not with the times lol. And no I never had anything like that… we went out for a night of dancing, but even that felt strange to me and I didn’t want to dance with anyone (getting married should do that to an engaged woman)!
The said family memeber married this guy at 34, and definitely rode the carousel 😦 so hopefully it works out, but bachelorette parties like that seem more normal for women who get married older.
Haven’t seen it mentioned yet. These cups, and the rest, are custom made.
The name of the company that custome makes these things?
EarlesFolly
“EarlesFolly”
Heh.
Great post, Bloom. And I really like Earl’s comments.
It makes me think of a comment someone once wrote about American society. The author said that more so an other societies, American society has an incredible amount of inertia. He said that it is incredibly difficult to change the trajectory of American society. However, once American society has adopted a change, that change continues to get expressed for generations.
Sixty years after the initiation of second-wave feminism American women are completely different and American men are virtually the same. The only reason why we have an American society to speak of is that men have been slow to adapt to the revolution in sexual politics.
It takes a long time to reverse a freight train. Miles of track go under the wheels before the train comes to a complete stop.
What happens when the common sense changes from the saying, “Men are dogs; they will cheat on you every time,” to “Women are dogs; they will cheat on you every time?”
Most bachelorette party decor is tacky and gross. I have no desire to ever touch another penis.
I spent much of my life as an investigator in labour relations; first thing I learned is choice of words screams meaning.
E.g. Bloom refers to herself as girl. The image: innocence, youth. Others use Woman.
Matron. Female.
Manosphere uses wamen, wemenz, etc.
Some use Lady as contrast yesteryear.
How you express yourself shows how you truly feel.
So what does this, and the general state of the union tell you.
P.s. notice the differences in how I write vs a few years ago. Reflects my changed attitude.
What do these cups, pictures and the associated comments and their use of languasge tell you?
E.g. the common babymamma vs the hushed unwed mother of yore??
How you express yourself shows how you truly feel.
Words mattrer, right? Class act. She ain’t no hollaback girl. Makes em wife material, right?
The cups are a sign of the times. The end of alpha fucks. The disposability of marriage. I’m not surprised, but I’m not impressed either. Enjoy the Decline.
How old are these women?
I’m guessing immature women under 25 would be seen with such party favors. Just another reason why marrying young can be part of the tragedy.
Welcome to the “post-modern”: what’s shown in mockery references the thing that these people would abolish altogether, if they actually had the power to do so.
You used to see this sort of thing mostly in the formal arts, especially in architecture where some aspiring architect would think it prudent to include neo-classical motifs in their designs not because they’re beautiful, but instead because they can be mocked and shown as the supposed “excesses” that these people claim them to be.
Now the principle of the “art of devolution” has made its way to the masses: some Etsy crafts chick decided to make “an art” and created a number of riffs on it.
But you are truly missing the depths of depravity to be sought here by missing completely the “pop-up penis” greeting cards …
No, go on, you really do have to see them for yourself.
The bottom line: for these people, marriage is the thing that would be abolished altogether, at least in its present-day form, especially if that means that “one penis to rule them all” in a marriage, along with the one ring.
Given the fact that in Western countries, you’re not really marrying the other person in the relationship but instead are marrying the State and its various laws on the “institution of marriage”, this might not be such a bad thing.
So go ahead women of bad taste and low morals, bring forth a multitude of this crap!
It serves the purpose of waking up men in the West to the bad deal they’re getting at the hands of the State.
As far as the humour goes, it’s only funny because it points out an unspoken truth: if more men were awake to the bad deal, these things really would not fly off the shelves into shipping boxes.
Unless, of course, women decided to marry each other in sham ceremonies that not only ignore the traditions of marriage, but also mock them in open contempt, in which case these might remain semi-popular as “ironic art” …
The “pop art as religion” group The Church of the SubGenius back in the 1980s used to offer “short-duration marriage certificates” in which you could be joined to the other revocably by such luminances as The Bleeding Head of Arnold Palmer.
Interestingly an insightful column from Prager.
https://www.dailywire.com/news/38916/prager-message-young-women-career-woman-dennis-prager
“Dennis, I want to get right to it. I’m 50 years old with four college degrees. I was raised by a feminist mother with no father in the home. My mother told me get an education to the maximum level so that you can get out in the world, make a lot of money. And that’s the path I followed. I make adequate money. I don’t make a ton of money. But I do make enough to support my own household.
…
“And by the time you have your own household with all your own bills, you can’t get off that track, because now you’ve got to make the money to pay your bills. It’s hard to find a partner in your late 40s to date because you also start losing self-confidence about your looks, your body. It’s not the same as it was in your 20s. You try to do what you can to make your life fulfilling. I have cats and dogs. But it’s lonely when you see your friends having children, going on vacations, planning the lives of their children, and you don’t do anything at night but come home to your cats and dogs.
…
She responded: “It was. I want to be anonymous because I don’t want people that I know to really know my true feelings. Because you do act like ‘My career is everything. I love working.’ But it’s a lie on the inside for me. It’s unfortunate. I didn’t realize this until it’s too late. I don’t know if it’s too late. I would like to find somebody to go on vacation with.
“You have other concerns when you get older and you live alone. Who’s going to take you to your medical appointments? If something should happen to you, there’s no other income there to help you. These are things you don’t understand when you’re in your 20s because you don’t think you’ll ever get old and have health problems.
“I’m stuck now because I go to work every day. I smile like I love it, but it’s very painful to not plan a vacation with someone. It’s painful to not have a Thanksgiving dinner with someone. You sit home alone and you do nothing. I avoid my friends now that have children because I have nothing in common with them.
“Somebody asked me the other day, ‘Why did you stay single and never have kids?’ There’s answers: Because I was brainwashed by my mother into this. But it’s hard and it’s shameful to tell people, ‘I don’t know. I ran out of time.”
The truthbomb. I ran out of time.
Womenz think they have all the time.
Realistically you have until 30 to meet someone.
Its going to take 5 years from first date thru commitment thru marriage ceremony.
Even then on the wedding day…his cold feet…
“I am marrying her…at 35…her beauty, fertility, amiability will only go down from here. As upposed to that 25 year old cousin in the third row.”
And the 5 year itch hits….the day you hit 40.
No ladies….you are out of time.
I was talking to my provider yesterday (that’s how hookers refer to themselves these days) and I said, “It’s not that men won’t love you and marry you. It’s that we don’t believe that you are capable of going the next forty years without strange dick.”
Bachelorettes are pretty crass. They do not promote women all that well. Then, there is Belle of the Library. I’d like to know how they think they can get away with this indefinitely. There are only as many men as there are women and, as we age, mortality makes men even more scarce. If women foster an abundance mentality in themselves, they are buying into a delusion.
mgtowhorseman, from the quoted article: “… it’s hard to find a partner in your late 40s …”
Hold up on that car wash, gentlemen. 🙂
The purpose of marriage within the Christian faith is to have a family unit for the purpose of having and raising children.
Late 40s? No eggs, no children … so what precisely would be the point of marrying such a woman?
I understand that there are weak men in America who actually enjoy giving away a large portion of their earnings and belongings to women that they’ve grown to hate and who provide no benefits to them whatsoever, but this really needs to stop.
An insightful followup to undead chronic’s video of the egg freezing woman.
Shows the egg freeze video in its entirety unintterrupted.
Hammerhand at least has pity for the poopr woman who believed the lies.
Unfortunately you can imagine the number of nice stable marriageable guys she ignored over the years. She even says she was chasing the wrong type of guys.
Womenz at 36 get pity cause their biological clock has run out.
What about the 36 year old guy. The romantic guy. The guy who Believed!!
Summered over and over again.
Now too jaded to ever pair bond again.
Same lonely boat.
But do we have pity for him??
Thought not.
P.a.c.
Bingo.
What does a wife proved that a man cannot do for himself as a bachelor?
1. Kids
2. Intimacy (both sex and spiritual)
3. Home and hearth
Every thing else a man can do for himself with a dog ; money, stability, fun, companionship, adventure.
A man who can cook and clean for himself, has a good spiritual foundation in hs god, who is beyond or does not want fatherhood……
Has ZERO need for anything anyone, man, woman, green eyed sloth can give him.
By the time a man reaches 35 when these women decide, what has he been doing for 15+ years? Becoming all those things, becoming used to aloneness (men dont get lonely, we dont), becoming aclimatized to doing for himself.
The 15 years when he should be learning to be the ultimate mate and father….
He spends learning to be the ultimate independent man.
Forget the jaded, bitter, men, they exist anyway just like harpy womwn exist.
Just as feminism turns good women into thots and career womanz,
Feminism turns good men into contented bachelors.
We just adapted to our training.
P.s. hammerhand is a good example.
He still feels for the blonde above even though he knows her and would not help her.
I used to be that. An empathetic honourable good man
Now?
You did it to yourself bitch, stop the crying, no one cares, suck it up. Men do.
(At least I am not laughing at her……yet.)
All the lovely feminists born in the 70s, college in the 90s, taking business by storm at the turn of the century.
Now in their mid forties……aging out of the cause, the dating market, motherhood.
Why feminism will only last 1 maybe 2 generations.
It literally cannot be passed on to the next generation.
P.s. at 45 you still statistically have HALF your life to live…
Alone….
All alone…..
A decade…alone
And another….alone still working
And another in retirement….alone
And another in failing health…alone
And part of another in care, waiting for the end …alone
What?
What??
Just sayin.
“What about the 36 year old guy. The romantic guy. The guy who Believed!!
Summered over and over again.
Now too jaded to ever pair bond again.
Same lonely boat.
But do we have pity for him??
Thought not.”
Guess this is supposed to be rhetorical since you answered your own question, but I actually have a few friends in the boat, and I do feel for them.
This video ended up in my Facebook feed, from whom I can’t remember.
http://sadgirlblog.com/2017/10/16/its-not-you-its-him/
It is a video from Babe.net. Babe.net is that rancid feminist Web Site that published that stupid story about Aziz Ansari and his dumbass behavior on a date. I tried to find the proper URL for the video on Babe.net’s Web Site, but I couldn’t. All I could find is this blog post with the Facebook video embedded into it. The video exists on Facebook.
In the video a twenty-something woman walks around a college campus and asks guys if they paid attention to whether their female partner had an orgasm during their last sexual encounter.
Now I don’t mind this sort of thing. The woman has a point. I get it. In fact, I make sure that all of my providers get off.
Here is my problem with this and all feminist discourse: It totally ignores the reality of alpha fux/beta bucks (hypergamy). I make sure that my providers have an orgasm too. But guess what? I’m not the kind of guy who floats their boat. Oh, I’m good-looking. I’m clean-cut and buffed-out. My hookers are afraid of me because I look like a cop. (The look that I’m aiming for is that of a commander in the navy.) I’m a suit-up, show-up guy with a good job and plenty of money for them and whatever else. I always bring extra condoms for them, which they appreciate. But when it’s all said and done, I’m just a beta bucks.
I tell my providers that I have to pay them because I’m not the kind of guy that they would have sex with for free. One provider admitted that she has a boyfriend and that he is in prison. Another provider freely admitted that she falls for assholes and bad boys.
If you are feeling brave today and would like to take a walk on the wild side, you can go to Youtube and listen to the podcast that C Boogie Productions posted last night entitled Red Pill: The Dark Side of Black Female Nature. The idea is that the secret to dealing with women is understanding that they love disrespect.
I will not disrespect women. Therefore I have no success with women. Therefore, I have to pay hookers.
Commenting on the cups that RPG found;
I am a firm believer in giving people what they want. So, if it was my woman that used the cups and felt down about only having one unit for the rest of her life; rest assured I would fix that problem for her. My unit would not be one of her options.
Mike stayed at a Hilton for 2 months for training, recently. Because the company was paying, he suspected he wouldn’t be able to swing it, but decided to call and try for the Hilton club diamond membership anyway, just to see.
He spoke to a woman on the phone and explained the situation.
After talking to her for a few minutes she said that everyone was gone for the day, so she wasn’t sure and couldn’t ask, but decided to make a command decision and give him the diamond membership.
So, now he gets free breakfast, snacks, occasionally drinks and some other perks while traveling and staying at the Hilton. He told others about it but for whatever reason they weren’t able to do it (maybe he was lucky and got the right person at the right time). I do know for certain he wasn’t able to do that by being an asshole.
There is a new post at Spawny’s
https://spawnyspace.wordpress.com/2018/12/03/and-everything-nice/
Liz,
If your comment was to me, not sure how it applies.
I don’t like playing around with other people. If my partner liked that I would let them go, so they could enjoy their life. I would not hold them back or fence in their desires.
Sorry goFigure, no it wasn’t to you.
I’ve never understood the “only assholes are attractive to women” theory.
I’ll leave it at that.
The equivalent would be “only bitches are attractive to men.”
Obviously, by their behaviour, many women believe this.
Hence the lonely post wall crowd.
Cappy’s take on egg freezing lady.
Note his brilliant observation between
1 a woman who wants to have kids and get married vs
2 a woman who wants to be a mother and wife.
The former just requires spreading your legs and saying I do.
The latter requires a sincere years long dedication to the well being of others.
And he tries, he really does, to have sympathy for her.
(But like most of us we are too far gone to care about Generation S..Spinster)
There is a new post at Spawny’s
https://spawnyspace.wordpress.com/2018/12/05/advice-to-dads/
So that prior video of hers was 5 years old…
Sounds like she’s promoting dating for beta traits, rather than any kind of sexual attraction to a man now (below)
And she hasnt learned a thing.
Now that she is closer to 60 than 20.
Just sayin.
Posterchild to gauge the rift between the sexes.
Even ten years ago majority of men would buy the she was lied to and feel sorry for her.
Now the majority is somewhere between are “you really that stupid”,” you did it to yourself”, and “BWAHAHA…..Bitch.”
Basically freeze all the eggs you want and advise all you want, no one is taking you up on it and no one gives a fuck.
Seems pretty damned cold to this old cowboy, no spark whatsoever?
Not sure if this will make it thru. Probably not but it really doesn’t matter. Guess I’m just restless tonight. Wifey went to sleep early, so I’m staying up late and had a couple more than I should. Yup. Its me. Evil asshole from hell who burned it down on this very website not so long ago.
Don’t remember the details. Was kinda drunk at the time. Thanks Pink Floyd, captured the moment. So, some retard spews retard crap. Regenerated the obvious for the 18th thousand time, but spoken like he’s a fucking genius who just discovered that 1 + 1 IT ACTUALLY EQUALS 2 !!! Who woulda thought ???.
So I attack, to send the fucker away and maybe learn a lesson (don’t state the obvious). And I’ve done it before … been a dick … sue me, low tolerance for conceited morons who think they are smart. Ton … you still there ?
Anyway, guess Bloom had had enough of my blowups or was maybe having a bad day. Don’t blame her a bit, lol. She attacked me. YUP. And it didn’t go over well. Imagine that. Never looked for the damage. Figure the posts got deleted. Who knows. Maybe all my posts did. Got erased from history, banned, censured. Happening to lots of conservatives these days on twitter, facebook, etc.
Anyway, just stopping by to tell the audience (assuming I’m not banned) … that I actually followed thru and am now married. We do get along great. Always have. And I now have 2 dogs and a cat as we;;. She moved in after the marriage and once her son moves out we will be selling her house in the spring when the weather is better.
Did see Bloom’s post on Post Red Pill and can understand that sentiment. At some point you just want to abandon the garbage and move on. You have to have some hope in life. Some faith in people. So I took the gun barrel into my mouth and on a leap of faith hope she doesn’t blow my brains out. Leap of faith ??? Can you say that and not get banned ?
Guess that’s all I have to say, people need to have some faith. Believe in people. Yes, as men, we have a gun to our heads. Deal with it. Trust. Have faith. Or end up alone. Is that what you want ? To end up old and alone ? Nope. I didn’t think so.
Anyway, on the slim chance this makes it thru. Hope everyone is doing well. Things can work out, thought society has made it very, very difficult. But I did it. I took the chance. Congratulate me. Or pity me. I really don’t care. I did it for me. And for her. Both our lives are better, together. Hope it stays that way.
Peace
Best of luck to you and the frau, Mega.
Per “the man whisperer”, I don’t disagree with what she said, but why did a “man whisperer” have to freeze her eggs? If a person isn’t successful there’s not a whole lot of point in listening to them pontificate about success in hypothetical-land on the internet.
“I don’t disagree with what she said, but why did a “man whisperer” have to freeze her eggs? If a person isn’t successful there’s not a whole lot of point in listening to them pontificate about success in hypothetical-land on the internet.”
I think what I got from it was… use your head but marry them even if there wasn’t a spark at first.
I think hasnt’ Rollo in the past explained that as “negotiated desire?” And I think, at least from real life examples of women who I’ve seen do what she’s suggesting, it doesn’t seem like a very passionately in love marriage. Not that that’s wrong, but it doesn’t sound very happy or nice longterm.
And to answer your question on why did she have to freeze her eggs if she was the man-whisperer, I think it’s because she couldn’t lock down anyone she was super attracted to (they kept breaking up with her – she said in one video) and so now she’s concluded that sexual attraction isn’t that important. Hence… she probably married a beta, and she’s probably not that into him 😦
It’s that old manosphere question of is attraction on a sliding scale? Can a marriage work out longterm when she obviously settled for someone her “head” agreed with more than her heart?
What the man-whisperer lady said makes sense to me.
I would like to point out that the three-minute spot was also an advertisement for Beverly Hills’ plastic surgeons. Three cheers for the plastic surgeons of Beverly Hills. They do good work.
congratulations, Mega … may y’all have a great life together 🙂
I would like to point out that the three-minute spot was also an advertisement for Beverly Hills’ plastic surgeons. Three cheers for the plastic surgeons of Beverly Hills. They do good work.
LOL!
“I think what I got from it was… use your head but marry them even if there wasn’t a spark at first.
I think hasnt’ Rollo in the past explained that as “negotiated desire?” And I think, at least from real life examples of women who I’ve seen do what she’s suggesting, it doesn’t seem like a very passionately in love marriage. Not that that’s wrong, but it doesn’t sound very happy or nice longterm.”
I kind of have two minds on that one. It depends…
I buy that there might not be a spark at first and then it can happen. I wasn’t attracted to Mike the moment I saw him, it developed over time (didn’t take long of course). I’m not sure I’m capable of being attracted to someone without some interaction that tells me what they’re about. But I also think male “erotic dancers” all look like flaming queers…
Just don’t see what relationship expertise this woman has to offer, aside from the advice of “don’t be like me” which takes only a couple of minutes.
Her profile: “Personally I am…
40 years old. I have been proposed to 10 times. I was married at the age of 21 for 6 months, 23 for 4 years, and for the 3rd and final time last October. I met my husband on a dating app. I activated my strategy and he proposed on our 5th date- our make or break vacation date… I also have a 3 year old son.”
So, she’s been married 3 times and no longer than a total of 6 1/2 years at most as of this writing.
One kid, late in life, not apparently with any of her 3 husbands…
this kind of screams train wreck to me. So…it’s a bit like an obese person lecturing on how to be thin. Can they? Sure, but why would anyone listen to them?
I’m kind of reminded of the monty python skit “how to do it”
Here’s Jackie to tell you how to rid the world of all known diseases.
Jackie: Hello Alan.
Alan: Hello Jackie.
Jackie: Well, first of all become a doctor and discover a marvelous cure for something, and then, when the medical world really starts to take notice of you, you can jolly well tell them what to do and make sure they get everything right so there’ll never be diseases any more.
Alan: Thanks Jackie, that was great.
Noel: Fantastic.
Alan: Now, how to play the flute. (picking up a flute) Well you blow in one end and move your fingers up and down the outside.