The other day I ran into a gal I don’t know super well and had not seen in awhile. I always liked her and her husband, a very striking couple with three picture perfect girls. They seemed happy in the photos on Facebook of them hiking, or in sappy happy anniversary posts to each other, or photos with the kids. She was active in church. Volunteered at the school. Seemed to have a very good life.
That’s why I was shocked to bump into her the other day and have her break the news they have divorced, but everything is good, and both are happier. I was in a hurry and didn’t have time to talk then but she wants to get together soon.
The youngest daughter just went off to college. (The mom is very attractive and young looking, my guess is they started their family young. She was in the Air Force when they met, so maybe she’s older than I think but… anyway…) I hate to predict this but my guess is she’s doing some version of empty nest, “Eat, Pray, Love.”
I wanted to tell her. Warn her. Advise her to go back and do whatever it takes to preserve her marriage. But I could tell by the hopeful gleam in her eye as she shared the news, she probably wouldn’t get it.
I suspect, like many do, she thinks I love being a strong independent female.
I think she will be surprised. I wonder if I won’t be.
Very sad.
What do you think? Please share in the comments.
Notes From a Red Pill Girl 
Ask her why she abandoned her husband, and if it wasn’t because of adultery or abandonment, cut her off.
She rode the cock carousel in the Air Force and now looks forward to doing it again. How hard is that to understand?
I take facebook photos and sappy posts with a grain of salt as far as marital health.
Isn’t it just easier to tell each other that in person rather than broadcasting it on the computer for outside attention?
What needs to be said that hasn’t been said already? deti pretty much details it every time.
those encounters seem to get more heartbreaking the older i get 😦
RPG, you know that you can’t fix stupid, right?
I take facebook photos and sappy posts with a grain of salt as far as marital health.
Yeah Facebook is about as real as those images of “happy” celebrities on magazine covers. Sometimes it’s genuine but I have to really know the family to know for sure.
About a year ago I knew a couple in a similar situation. But different…they were the “power couple”. With the three “power kids” who each had a thousand mandatory activities. She was an exec for some Colonel and…well, the rest of the story writes itself. Everyone talked about how wonderful she was and how the “had it all!”
I saw through her about as soon as I met her. And that Colonel wasn’t the first for her.
Einstein said insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. I met a very attractive woman who was interested in me and told me her and her soon to be ex-husband are still friends. This was back in my somewhat blue pill days and I didn’t want to get involved.
I know a couple and his wife pulled the same stunt. Her divorced friends were telling her how much fun they were having. She left her husband, but got nothing as the home was in her husbands family trust and she got nothing. Here divorced “friends” were not her friends after as they probably seen her as competition. This woman you wrote about will regret her decision more than likely.
We should get the majority of divorces women have are to bring some ‘excitement’ or attention into their lives and not because the guy is a terrible human being.
So just because she has the perfect setup doesn’t mean she’s thinks she’s got perfect feelz too.
You should definitely find out more about why they divorced before giving her any advice about a reconciliation.
You never know what really caused them to separate.
She was in the Air Force
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LOL the 1st red flag. I ain’t saying every girl in the military is a slut but most are and most have an extra dosage hypergammy with a drive for branch swinging
I know that I have odd ways of looking at things, but I am going to share a few thoughts anyways.
break the news they have divorced, but everything is good, and both are happier…… But I could tell by the hopeful gleam in her eye as she shared the news This right here is the place to start. She got what she wanted. No need to knock her choice or talk her out of it or try to bring some reality to her attention. She is not concerned with the kids or the grand kids. She doesn’t care what being 70 and alone is going to be like. She is happy, so be happy for her. Congratulate her. Wish her the best.
If she asks for your thought then you can share your concerns.
I wanted to tell her. Warn her. Advise her to go back and do whatever it takes to preserve her marriage. RPG you have a good heart. Right now is not the time to try and talk sense into her. Later in life, when reality knock her down a few times then you might be able to talk some sense into her.
Thats what I think. Maybe it makes me a bad person, but I am not one of those who thinks we should protect people from their poor choices.
goFigure – Thats what I think. Maybe it makes me a bad person, but I am not one of those who thinks we should protect people from their poor choices.
interesting perspective … one i’m adopting more the older i get b/c, quite honestly, i’m finding this to be more and more true: Later in life, when reality knock her down a few times then you might be able to talk some sense into her.
i agree that hopeful gleam in her eye showed she is more interested in herself right now than the kids or anything else.
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i would guess that Bloom’s greatest concern is the long-term effects of the children and wishing she could do something that would thwart that 😦
“I think she will be surprised. I wonder if I won’t be.” You know damn well you won’t be surprised. You wonder? lolozlzozlzozzlzzzzz
I’ll go with your gut. It does sound like “empty nest”. She wants to go out and play while he was hoping for rebonding. She won’t get to play and he definitely won’t get to rebond. Everybody loses.
Sorry. I am turning into a sad bear.
THE Best article ever written on this
http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2013/03/youre-just-going-through-stage.html
Then consider this: if your 70 year-old self could come back and advise you about your present situation, would she tell you that yes, you aren’t really appreciated by the man whose children you bore or even your offspring, and you will be far, far better off on your own . . . or will she tell you that your sudden longing for new places and new experiences and a man who “truly appreciates you” in the approved romance-novel fashion will lead to a miserable existence of a slowly decreasing circle of old women who lean on each other for support because no one else values and appreciates them any more?
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Will your 70 year-old self tell you that making a decision like this based on “going through a stage” is the moral equivalent of getting married at 19 because you’re “in love” with some uneducated goober? Will she tell you that the hours of “me” time you fantasize about now will all-too-soon become endless stretches of loneliness and solitary despair? That the guilty pleasure of reading or watching movies or gardening you covet now will become the essential distractions of the next thirty years to keep you from dwelling on your solitude, your bitterness, your regret for the decisions you’ve made and the knowledge that you will most likely die alone?
Everyone loses? Not if the dude is decent look, semi fit with half ass game
About all it takes to start banging girls 20 years younger then his ex wife. Which is all manners of wining
There is more. Facebook was mentioned and it has become a problem. Two women, out of my past, have been leaving links. They are both in relationships. What sane man wants to be a beta orbiter?
There are NO better men or women.
Look at your work, the crowd at the mall, starbucks, walking down the street.
This is proportionately representative of the population you or anyone has to choose from. How many are even a 7 attractive? How many are financially stable let slone hidden millionaires?
And you are that much older than last time. And the new person will have 20/20 vision not spouse goggles. They will see you AS YOU ARE!
My advice to anyone thinking divorce?
Take them to the local coffee shop at 9 am.
You can leave anytime you want.
But you cannot leave unless you point out who that comes thru the shop you would choose to replace your spouse. Not some fantasy, not what if. Point out an actual person.
Oh you can leave alone but you are not allowed to pick again. Ever.
Aaaand you cannot pick your current spouse.
Go!
“Everyone loses? Not if the dude is decent look, semi fit with half ass game
About all it takes to start banging girls 20 years younger then his ex wife. ”
Exactly! Let the ex evaporate and get another MUCH younger to bang.
LarryG,
The divorce wasn’t his idea. That does not make it winning. That is the problem with seventy to eighty percent of women initiating divorce. A lot of men never recover from that betrayal.
Fuzzy’
“The divorce wasn’t his idea. That does not make it winning. That is the problem with seventy to eighty percent of women initiating divorce. A lot of men never recover from that betrayal.”
Yes, That was obvious it was not his idea to get divorced. But as someone who went through the same bullshit brought on by a betraying bitch, I can say that moving on to other women is both necessary and possible. A man does not have to settle for any seconds. If a female blows up the marriage, treat her as she deserves, garbage to be thrown out.
After I shitcanned my ex, got me a pretty girl who is 18 years younger.
The difference is that you found another wife. You didn’t turn into an alley cat, which brings up something about game. Those who would say that it is as powerful as a hammer to a nail are selling manure. At best, it can improve overall chances. As for PUA, that is all dead now. With #metoo, Yes Means Yes, and women being allowed to withdraw consent after the fact, it’s too dangerous. What adds to this is that Bill Cosby was convicted of rape in Pennsylvania last year. He is going to prison at 81 and legally blind. There is a problem with prosecuting this case. The Statue of Limitations in Pennsylvania for rape is two years. So much for the rule of law.
Another thought about game. It works by pandering to a woman’s ego.
They don’t need any more pandering.
Ya know, I just find Bloom’s story sad. So sad. Heard it a million times. And had my ex turn on me like that too. And Bloom’s figuring it out.
All these stupid women, believing the lies told to them by society and by other women. They think LIFE IS GOING TO BE WONDERFUL !!!! and all the cock they’ve been missing out on is just going to show up and all the tall, dark, handsome, well endowed studs will be throwing themselves at her !!! Just like when she was 22 and skinny and hot and naive !!! Only now she’s older, less attractive, bitchy, overweight and men can sense her entitlement a million miles away. Oh, and if she divorced raped one guy, why would’t she do another ? So, even if she can find someone decent to fuck her, it’ll be a pump and dump. Commitment ? Not likely. And probably not for years. Many years of being lonely and if you get sex, its with a retard who uses you like a whore.
And eventually she figures out that her Ex now effing HATES HER. And why wouldn’t he after the divorce rape. No, he won’t say it … but she’ll know it anyway. Hell, I know fathers that wrote off their own kids … refused to see them if it meant being anywhere near her again. FOR LITERALLY … YEARS. And the kids end up fucked up in the head; mostly from HER and what SHE IS PUTTING THEM THRU. And then she ends up broke … no matter how much she uses the court system to steal from the father who can’t even be a father to his own kids (no wonder they end up hating her) and … you guessed it, she ends up working some shitty job she hates.
Yep. Life is great. That’s sarcasm … no, it pretty much sucks for the vast majority of women who do this. And its even worse for the men they destroy.
What I’ve never been able to understand is why these women don’t end up hating other women … for convincing them it was a good idea in the first place. But, NOPE, its always a man’s fault. I think that is one of the biggest things that people overlook. Even in the Sphere. One of the absolute worst traits in women. The GENDER BIAS. They always take the women’s side. ALWAYS. They would rather destroy their lives. Destroy the lives of their own children. Rather than admit another woman gave them bad advice.
Where’s Deti when you need him …
Mega – women actually DO hate other women, and this woman is going to find out how few female friends she actually has.
a woman i know divorced her husband claiming ‘abuse’ several years ago. he remarried and has a new family (yours, mine & ours). they have a child together. child said, “I am used to kissing. My dad and step mom kiss all the time!”
sooo … was it really abuse? i seriously doubt it. my guess is sex became non-existent and she became an excessive nag.
but … another huge factor … her dad did not like her husband and bad-mouthed him all.the.time. woman was a Daddy’s Girl.
bottom line – wife’s dad broke up the marriage.
years later – divorced wife is still floundering, trying to find her way in life.
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in my own first marriage … his parents loved me and adored me when we first married. but over the years when they learned they couldn’t control me, they began to hate me. and passive-aggressively made him choose between them and me. he chose them.
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in both these real and relatively recent cases, if the parents had taken a staunch No Divorce stance, sided with the marriage over their own offspring, both marriages would still be together.
Mega: GENDER BIAS, women always blame men.
Ame: “bottom line – wife’s dad broke up the marriage.”
It wasn’t the wife who nuked her marriage. Or her friends who urged her to do it. Wasn’t her sister or her mom, who did the same. Or her female coworkers. Or the female dominated media. NOPE. There was absolutely no FEMALE involved in this at all. ITS ALL HER DAD”S FAULT. “wife’s dad broke up the marriage” and those are your very own words.
But that’s not a shock at all. Because, since you have a vagina … EVERY PROBLEM THAT EVER EXISTED WAS CREATED BY A MAN AND YOU KNOW THAT IS THE ABSOLUTE TRUTH … BECAUSE YOU HAVE A VAGINA !!!
Exaggerating to make a point.
But, yes, that’s called GENDER BIAS. Men don’t suffer from it. Women do. And women are so screwed up in the head they think that because THEY DO, men do also. Speaking as a man, SORRY, BUT WE DON”T. But … that how came the fabricated PATRIARCHY. Its totally imaginary. Men … all over the world, different cultures, different religions, different languages, all engaged in some mass conspiracy to deny all forms of power to WOMEN. Women believe such crap. Men don’t. Because men don’t act like that. But GENDER BIAS … women automatically believing other women over men ? Yup, actual truth in that. Men don’t do that. Women do.
And, yes, thanks for confirming that. And now you can blame me for pointing out that you confirmed I was correct. “wife’s dad broke up the marriage”. Classic, bias. Women always blame men for anything that goes wrong.
you are actually right, Mega, that SHE is responsible for the divorce – thanks for calling me out on that.
rewording:
reality: her father will have to take some responsibility for the divorce as he encouraged her repeatedly to leave him and continuously expressed his contempt for her husband. she was and is a Daddy’s Girl and has always been very close to him. her parents picked favorites, and she was her Daddy’s.
bottom line: she is ultimately responsible for the divorce – especially as she did have Truth spoken to her b/c i did so myself.
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reality: my ex-in-laws will have to take some responsibility for the end of my marriage, and i don’t want to be anywhere around when they have to answer to God someday for that and all the other evil things they’ve done … (and i have repeatedly stated i was not a perfect wife but am not going to go into all that again).
bottom line: my ex is the one who chose to leave and file for divorce, and he is responsible for the divorce.
Welcome to all the new first time commenters and a hello to all those who are back despite my prolonged lack of posting! Happy to see you all.
I would sadly bet $50 the story would be what I think And I have learned people don’t want to hear what they don’t want to hear. It’s all exciting and new and fun now. In 5 years? 10 years? Doubt it.
Her ex is a fine looking successful man. I predict he will do well. She’s fit and very pretty, but once the house settlement money is gone? Will the retail/service job that’s fun now be fun when it’s not nearly enough? (She’s working at an upscale watering hole.) A quick glance at her Facebook shows her beaming and smiling w a mystery man. Wonder if he’s married?
At one time I would have tried. Now I am just thinking, “you already know the story… don’t get involved!” Sadly
RPG,
I would not risk a doughnut. (I hate losing doughnuts.) It is best that you stay out of it as it does not sound as if you know either of them well. The thought did occur to me that men have no defense against this. How can you vet someone for what they will do twelve to twenty years from now?
It would be nice if he does recover from this, but if he sounds committed to the hilt.
Life ain’t much different then a boxing match.
The other side has their own plan trying to win their own fight at your expense and it’s unrealistic to think you’ll win every round but you can always win the next round. Or maybe the best you can manage is winning the next fight. Sometimes you knock so,e fucker out in the 1st round. Other times You get caught by supirse and it’s your knees buckling in the 1st round. You get knocked down, you do your best to come back swinging smarter and harder. Sometimes you fight hard as hell for 15 rounds and the best you can manage is loosing. Don’t rightly matter because if you fight hard and loose folks will still pay to see you fight again and you’re still in the money.
Divroced against your will, so to speak,? Well you probably can’t win that round but you can win the next round and the next fight.
Or you can loose a couple of rounds then lay down and die. Just don’t expect anyone to respect that shit.
Pandering to a woman’s ego is the exact opposite of game
Denial is not just a river in Egypt. You’re not fooling me and you’re not fooling women. Paul Elam was right years ago.
True, Fuzzy. I don’t disagree with you.
“The difference is that you found another wife. You didn’t turn into an alley cat, which brings up something about game. ”
Way back in the PC era (pre-computer) no one had heard of Game or computers or internet..all that useless dumb shit (meeting and bedding females) was still done by hand, face to makeup. One thing was still true though, I had zero desire to ever interact with, let alone date or marry, an American woman again with the common fucked up feminist attitude. Either I found an overseas lady to marry or would stay single. Luckily I found a young model in an obscure part of the planet who was affordable, so I bought that one….changed fishing holes
“Another thought about game. It works by pandering to a woman’s ego.
They don’t need any more pandering.”
LOL! If Game has to pander to a idiot woman’s ego, then totally not interested! From what I have seen, modern bitches have already have egos the size of the Hindenburg zeppelin and don’t need any more pumping up….
Larry G,
I just don’t see the point in it. The fish in this pond have all been swimming in the same water.
Hell yeah!
“Divroced against your will, so to speak,? Well you probably can’t win that round but you can win the next round and the next fight.
Or you can loose a couple of rounds then lay down and die. Just don’t expect anyone to respect that shit.”
No one said life is fair, sometimes you will get fucked over. If the fight is unwinnable, for whatever reason, leave! No female is worth loosing manhood or self respect over.
Film from Lakehurst NJ for those who missed the reference.
“Larry G,
I just don’t see the point in it. The fish in this pond have all been swimming in the same water.”
well, Fuzzy, you are right…in THIS pond here…..In west (US, Europe, UK, Australia, Canada..feminism has poisoned and totally ruined the female mind) there ought to be signs posed “No FUCKING fishing, Moron!” for the men to see..
for the cost of a round trip ticket and passport, check out other ponds, even if only for a two week vacation. Asia, EE, South America are still relatively unspoiled…I did not say pure or untouched though. But you will never know unless you actually go see for yourself
I think game clearly “works.” Whether it’s worth it is a good question. Probably each guy has his own answer to is it worth it? As well as what his objectives are – one night, short term, long term, etc. sometimes even w an extensive knowledge of game a guy will have hits and misses. Roosh does not always succeed in one night game, for example. Roosh does succeed in one night game better than a guy wo game… is it worth it? Not to every guy… I would argue knowledge of game will help a man more than not in dealings with women. To some guys it’s just not worth it to deal w women at all, and that’s fair enough.
One thing this gal doesn’t see now and maybe never will or even if she does it will be too late — she will never have what Bg describes of his late wife. Her kids and grandkids won’t either. He will never have the sweet memories Bg has. That’s a huge loss for everyone for some short term “me time.” Huge.
Jeez RPG, it’s the crack o dawn here and I’m still on cup of coffee number two out of five, and multitasking (thinking and typing at the same time).
“I think game clearly “works.” Whether it’s worth it is a good question. Probably each guy has his own answer to is it worth it?”
Zen naval gazing questions at 5:30 am??? Um, nope
Yeah I have odd sleep cycles! Lol.
Maybe what women are not taught today, and it’s a big failing, is to think multigenerationally. Not what’s best for me? But what’s best for my line? The answers to those questions are way different. For this individual gal is divorce “best?” Maybe. Questionable. Over the long term, unlikely actually. Is it best for her kids and grandkids? No more family holidays with mom AND dad, no mom AND dad at graduation, weddings… no grandma AND grandpa? See what I mean? It’s tragic really how it plays out not just in one lifetime but in many…
A women who thinks multigenerationally is going to make far different choices (and likely better choices) than one taught (like 98%+ today) that “you only have one life girl! Feelzzz are most important! Live for you!”
Just in our lifetime we have gone from most kids have mom AND dad, grandma AND grandpa to “wow, your parents are together? Your grandparents are together?” Huge loss. Most probably do not see it yet or get how two or three more generations down the line that will roll out. It’s “carpe diem! Live for today!”
and how many women actually think long term and do what is in their interest over decades or give a minor shit about who is coming up behind them? I have not seen that type of planning or consideration from native females here…
” For this individual gal is divorce “best?) maybe. Questionable over the long term, unlikely actually. Is it best for her kids and grandkids?”
From a man’s point of view, why care? Bitch, meet door. Door, meet bitch. After she drags her ass out, he has better things to do, see, think, achieve than giving thought to a has-been female…The Wall will hit sooner or later so he just needs to move on and let it do it’s work on her…and seriously not give a fuck.
If I even tried to explain this to this gal would she even get it? Or just think, “wow you are so bitter and angry!” Lol. Maybe I am getting black pill!
I get that Larry, I am not asking for him I am asking for their kids. Their grandkids. And true, what can he do about that either? Nothing.
And to be fair it’s not only gal’s. I know women her age who are also being left, but I don’t think that’s the case in this particular situation. She would have been far more devastated about it if so.
Oh come on now…”If I even tried to explain this to this gal would she even get it?”
If you are black pill or going in that direction, why bother with her at all? Did she ask for your advice or guidance? Fuck her and the pig she is riding out on….stay clear of drama and guard your own tribe. People, especially retarded and brain damaged females do not appreciate “help”…
A lot of these are retorical questions btw.
Women not thinking multigenerationally anymore, being taught to think the opposite, is imho one of the biggest reasons western women are such a poor bet. I do hope gen z and the like get this in a way their own moms and grandmas perhaps did not? They are three generations later… in the smoking wreckage.
“And to be fair it’s not only gal’s. I know women her age who are also being left”
I don’t know any and wouldn’t care if I did. I DO know one woman very well who has no fear of being left alone by her husband, she has earned her place by my side by still being feminine, loyal, interesting (and still has nice squeezable boobs reserved only for me to play with) even at her age of 50.
I get that Larry, I know she would not get it, I won’t be getting involved or be wasting time on it. Two years ago I probably would have… now I know it wouldn’t change a thing.
cup number four of five, almost caffeinated enough to declare toady is a success
@ Larry yes — this girl could have had that too, that security. She has traded fools gold for the real deal.
so, just smile at her “trade” and make sammiches for your own tribe….save your concern and guidance for those worthy of it…your own. The rest of the world is hell bent on self destruction, you cannot stop it or even slow it down a little. Let it go.
Very true. Worrying about that is what matters most. It’s enough to worry about! Worth worrying about.
I do hope these posts help someone. Maybe not this gal obviously, but I hope maybe someday a gal hamsters v w this choice may find it and stop and think…. again unlikely but one never knows!
And even my own tribe, last night the girls and I were talking, not about this but free speech actually, online censorship, the threat to our freedoms it poses, and I could see my oldest has picked up somewhere that “mom you are exaggerating. They don’t do that unless it’s HATE speech.” Those outside forces are always at work… and you are right that’s where I need to focus.
last comment for now, I have to start work shortly (and five of five is done!) I’m nearing the end of this life’s journey….WE (my wife and I) are not rich, but we are content with what we have and with each other. She takes care of our house, cooks and does our laundry..I take care of the bills and fix shit when it breaks, kill spiders and ruthlessly hunt down mice for annihilation when necessary. We take care of each other, and ignore the wrinkles, gray hair, added pounds and poor eye sight( she was NOT a happy camper when I bought her a pair of reading glasses last summer).
All of this ends in time
Have a good day Larry! Truth right there! Happy Valentines Day!
RPG,
I don’t think that it is black pill, but women do operate as a collective and they are not going to realize that they have made a mess of it until the SMP seizes up like an engine without oil.
That reminds of a large scale issue that have with game. It is helping pump up the egos of women. That is not where we want to go with this.
Larry G,
I should do that. Get out of Dodge if only to gain the social experience. Every source I have seen has been positive on that point.
I think larry is my long lost twin.
“I get that Larry, I know she would not get it, I won’t be getting involved or be wasting time on it. Two years ago I probably would have… now I know it wouldn’t change a thing.”.
Only took her three years to get here.
@hotseman more like 5, or 45 depending on how you count it! Lol
Happy Valentines Fuzzie Bear!
💞💕❤️💕💞
Fuzzy, getting out of Dodge is good for the soul and mind, even if you don’t get a woman on the first round…let the multiple time zones fuck with your system a few times, eat foreign food that you cannot identify on a bet, hear languages that makes no sense whatsoever, and admire the scenery both natural and short skirt two-legged…and you will begin thinking WTF about the Graf Zeppelin ‘tarded females back “home”.
I like Ton’s analogy of the boxing match.
I think of the “game of life” in a similar fashion, but more like a business.
You’re either buying or selling (mutual interdependence requires some of both)
If no one goes to your store, there’s one way to think of it: “Stupid consumers! They don’t know a good deal when they see it!”
But that won’t get you very far.
RPG,
Happy Valentine’s Day to You! I was just thinking about grade school, making cards to give to girls in class. Things were simpler then. You’d get a card.
Larry G,
They do tend to bring this on themselves, don’t they? I think that they work hard at it.
Liz,
It is a terrible analogy. Any prizefighter can tell that a round lasts only three minutes. As for the store analogy, I lived that for too many years. They only want what you don’t have.
She already has a guy? Looks like she was already to branch swing. Nothing new here. I would be curious as what 2-3 years down the road look like. It’s always easier to establish a new relationship than keep an old one. THIS plays into a man’s favor.
But you know what? It doesn’t matter what reason she gives. What matters is that instead of fighting for the relationship, trying to make things better someone just gave up. That’s the real reason you broke up, and it’s a huge and intractable and fucked up reason
There’s no saving this. A woman who leaves you is capable of leaving you. Even if they change their mind, they may always decide to leave you again. This is the core of hypergamy. The ability is there no matter what. Ego prevailed. Hypergamy is selfishness by nature.
What men need to realize in this world of feminist ideals is not to GAF about all this. It’s nice to know hypergamy, AWALT, and all that other stuff. It simply comes down to knowing what you will and will not put with. Then acting on it. The minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get even less than you settled for.
MARY!!!!!
Lamb Chop – but Shari Lewis, not Mary.
RPG
Yeah, a lot of happiness was foolishly thrown away in the last 50 years, but have Happy Valentines Day anyway.
Clearly Fuzzy has the better argument…… him being grounded in all that romantical success he’s experienced over the years
No one said life is fair, sometimes you will get fucked over. If the fight is unwinnable, for whatever reason, leave! No female is worth loosing manhood or self respect over.
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Absofuckinglutely
LOL women are women the world over. Most are a lot more predatory then western bitches…….. because they have to be
SFC Ton
13h ago
Life ain’t much different then a boxing match.
The other side has their own plan trying to win their own fight at your expense and it’s unrealistic to think you’ll win every round but you can always win the next round. Or maybe the best you can manage is winning the next fight. Sometimes you knock so,e fucker out in the 1st round. Other times You get caught by supirse and it’s your knees buckling in the 1st round. You get knocked down, you do your best to come back swinging smarter and harder. Sometimes you fight hard as hell for 15 rounds and the best you can manage is loosing. Don’t rightly matter because if you fight hard and loose folks will still pay to see you fight again and you’re still in the money.
Divroced against your will, so to speak,? Well you probably can’t win that round but you can win the next round and the next fight.
Or you can loose a couple of rounds then lay down and die. Just don’t expect anyone to respect that shit.
and … that’s a whole complete book right there worth buying and buying into.
Maybe what women are not taught today, and it’s a big failing, is to think multigenerationally. Not what’s best for me? But what’s best for my line? The answers to those questions are way different. For this individual gal is divorce “best?” Maybe. Questionable. Over the long term, unlikely actually. Is it best for her kids and grandkids? No more family holidays with mom AND dad, no mom AND dad at graduation, weddings… no grandma AND grandpa? See what I mean? It’s tragic really how it plays out not just in one lifetime but in many…
A women who thinks multigenerationally is going to make far different choices (and likely better choices) than one taught (like 98%+ today) that “you only have one life girl! Feelzzz are most important! Live for you!”
yes. very much, yes.
I do hope gen z and the like get this in a way their own moms and grandmas perhaps did not? They are three generations later… in the smoking wreckage.
interesting … Aspie Girl just came to me telling me that Gen Z (of which both my girls are) is said to be more conservative that their preceding generation – an anomaly.
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