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I know a gal, super entitled, who married into a major land-owning family in my area. Like 500+acres owning.
The family she married into has already put their land into trust. Those who continue the line will continue to inherit what has been built.
Still she says she will never have children. Wants to get her tubes tied. Blah, blah, blah me, me, me! As she said all this, for his family’s sake I agreed — get those tubes tied! You go sista!
Because as she and I wrapped up a group business meeting at a local watering hole, she was already cozying up to a guy at the bar who was by every indication a total cad at best.
Her husband’s family strongly objected to the marriage and held it off even for several years. But she (and he) prevailed.
I find it tragic but also illuminating that rather than secure her position via future generations she seems hell bent on not only terminating that for herself but also her husband, who is currently the oldest son of the oldest son.
Hopefully the cad boys will be there for her. But probably not.
When she bails I have a feeling the oldest son will find a more than willing life mate to secure his future line.
If he can believe in it then, that is.
What do you think? Please share in the comments!
The family she married into has already put their land into trust.
i’m assuming this is to ensure she can’t get any of it in a divorce or otherwise?
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she’d be saving him a LOT of grief if she’d get those tubes tied … have her as the mother of his children would be nothing but grief the rest of his life. as it is now, he can walk away from her and never have to think about her again.
No Ame they did it long before her but I think they were wise to think ahead. This family (his grandparents) had daughters no sons. So the trust was I think intended to pass things down genetically but it protects them just the same….
The thing is she could secure her future by being a matriarch. Sadly she has been brainwashed that is to be avoided at all cost vs living for today and herself. She will destroy her own future — and ironically the future she left her first marriage for hypergamically. (I did not know she had been married and was likely still married when they met aka branch swing until today. And basically she all but admitted as she flirted w the cad guy she was looking to branch swing again. Hypergamy in action! And to her doom. But not my monkey not my circus….) his family trust will prevail with or without her progeny. And from what I have seen, w/o would be best for them!
i don’t understand people like her … i just know i don’t want that, ever.
the church, or perhaps it was the time, i was raised in subtly taught you had to beg people to believe. i’ve come to believe that’s not true … that it’s the Holy Spirit’s job to convict, and my job to tell the Truth when the opportunity presents itself. that takes away the pressure of thinking i need to persuade people. i don’t. i just need to tell them the Truth. what they do or do not do with it is not mine to be concerned about.
so … once again, if you have opportunity, you can speak Truth into her life. she likely won’t hear it now, but, perhaps someday she will remember and wake up. it will be too late for the best years of her life, but perhaps she can salvage something at that time.
in the mean time, his family is wise to have their legacy legally protected. he was a fool to go against his family and not listen to them. now, IF he wakes up, realizes she’s unfaithful and finds a good woman, he will be older. too bad. he could have done it right to begin with and already having those babies! hopefully he’ll learn from this and find a good woman if he gets a second chance.
Yes Ame. I think both men and women who ignore their elders concerns are foolish.
I may or may not have the conviction discussion with her, not because I don’t believe but Bc if she’s not ready or wanting to hear it I know it’s a waste of time and breath. She is in reality the potential matrirch. In generations past marrying the eldest son in a land owning family was valued. Shows how far from sanity we have come that she would have that opportunity and actively throw it away…
you are wise, Bloom. ‘pearls before swine,’ and all that. the mom of the Little Girl i keep is not ready to hear the truth. sometimes i’ll test the waters with a little drop, she completely rebels, so i drop it. we just love on her daughter and hope for better and wiser choices for her when she gets of age.
it’s tragic she’s willing to throw so much away. but if she doesn’t value it, they are much better off without her. she would have power to destroy so much 😦
My husband’s family owns a multi-million dollar ranch. He wouldn’t have married me, if I didn’t want children, for exactly this reason.
RPG,
She has been branch swinging since junior high school. I don’t think she is going to stop and marriage vows count for nothing.
I do remember once having a discussion with Cill. It takes generations to build this kind of enterprise and one divorce can crush it. This problem is world wide.
“My husband’s family owns a multi-million dollar ranch. He wouldn’t have married me, if I didn’t want children, for exactly this reason.”
+1 You’d think the subject would come up sometime during the screening process.
A man dumb enough to marry a woman who mutilates herself (cutting, tattoos, tying tubes), deserves it
@Fuzzie: Professor Fiamengo highlighted my comment on her video about sex dolls.
Janice, The dating scene is far worse than you indicated in your video. Women have become so completely delusional in their expectations that even the top guys cannot get dates. I adhere to the MGTOW quadriad, i.e., hookers, pornstars, sex dolls, and high-definition virtual reality porn. I am a proud owner of the popular Zongshan Jinsan Mannequin Company Limited 163 cm, H-cup doll (Scarlett Johansson with a boob job). Now the doll is only thirty percent of the sexual experience. The other seventy percent of the experience is the high-definition virtual reality pornography. I have a subscription to VR Bangers. 4K videos are good enough for me. 8K videos are so ridiculous that you can see every pore on the woman’s face. The combination of sex doll and virtual reality works well. I still tell guys that they are going to need to get with a real woman at least once per month to stay healthy.
I am interested in this idea about how the blue pill messages that males get from society and their families leave them vulnerable to toxic women.
Human talks about this in his Hero video. Men are born into sin and must redeem themselves through acts of sacrifice. Meanwhile, women are perfect in every way and have no need to improve themselves.
The males in my extended family fell prey to entitled women because we were habituated to entitled women by our mothers and by society at large. My brother got married in 2011 and was divorced by 2014. No one ever uttered a word of warning to him. Another male in my extended family was scheduled to get married in 2012, but negotiations broke down at the eleventh hour. His mother had to deal with the fact that many family and friends had paid for travel to a destination wedding. I thought that there was some justice in that. The females in my family bear some responsibility for this young man bypassing the red flags.
In 2016 my brother left the country in disgust. I haven’t heard from him since. At this point neither of my mother’s sons speaks to her.
“If he can believe in it then, that is.”
🙂
There is a new post at Spawny’s
https://spawnyspace.wordpress.com/2019/02/19/no-way-out/
Roger,
I concur about entitlement. They are going to have to land on their asses hard and, even then, the message may not sink in.
Kudos for Janice acknowledging your comment.
To be fair I have no idea what happened when I said goodbye and she stayed on talking to her newfound friend. Hopefully nothing. But if not, it’s best for everyone not kids come of this marriage.
That woman is a disaster in the making. Kids would not come out of it too well.